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| + Pointer | Jun 25 2016, 11:59 AM Post #1 |
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We talked a lot yesterday, she said she loves me, but she also afraid, so that we wouldnt make it. I asked why she said just because she sees me as a immature person, she backed up herself, by adding all the current stuffs of mine, such as I am lazier than her, and so that I dont want to take responsibilities. I said to her thats true, but its only because she get to know me in this time where i wanted to sit back a litte, I told her that I am more than this. Just let me to prove it. She said, she would let me prove it, but because of me she has an anxiety kinda stuff and so that she couldnt sleep for a week. I thought this relationship might develop to something fantastic, and now we both left each other while we are totally like the other one.... More like Makorra from TLOK.... :(... I am sad, but by leaving her maybe she would be happy Maybe.... I will never ever be in a relationship again, a part of me died yesterday..... What do you think would you too leave your partner if the only problem is that she/he has doubts about the future and it makes them feel anxious. She wanted to kiss me before I let her hands go, but i withstood.... both of our eyes were in full of tears, but in the end .... as she didnt wanted to say it... actually she wanted to keep up... even with this anxiety.... But i realised that I am a problem in her life, and so I said it at the very end.....:( Not because i wanted to.... because she wouldnt be happy with me. I left her because I realised that I made this anxiety to her, and I dont want that, its a pain in the a*** for me and i miss her so f***ing much..... but life goes on isnt it?
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| Copy_Ninja | Jun 25 2016, 12:37 PM Post #2 |
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Novacane for the pain
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Alright, here's my advice for you. You really really need to chill out about relationships. Look, we all have regrets. It's normal to think back about missed opportunities, relationships that didn't go the way you thought they were and it does hurt. But with you it seems to be more than that. You constantly post on here about relationship woes, it's clearly an obsession. Recently, as in the last couple of days, you were talking about moving to a different country with this girl. Now, you've broken up because you're making her anxious. I think your problem is that you're hyper focused on being in a relationship at the expense of everything else. I'd suggest concentrating on yourself. You don't need a partner to have a sense of self worth and I'd say it's unlikely that you'll be able to make someone else in a relationship happy if you can't make yourself happy. You're a nice enough guy but I think you should reflect on your personal issues especially with self-validation and anxiety. Edited by Copy_Ninja, Jun 25 2016, 12:37 PM.
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We'll never be those kids again
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