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| SSJSC | Jun 23 2016, 02:44 AM Post #1 |
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Why do most girls/women play hard to get? Most of the time, when I see them dressed in a certain way, they look like they won't be easy to get or they become sensitive to guys looking at them and will say something right away. Life nowadays seem like it's easier to just get girls who you went to middle school or high school with instead. |
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| + QueenTD | Jun 23 2016, 02:58 AM Post #2 |
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You're Overthinks things Socially awkward Being weird Boring Not showing confidence OR just acting creepy Girls aren't complex. You're either over thinking or trying a girl that's just ain't for you. Also you're NOT gonna get every girl you see. Rejection apart of life Edited by QueenTD, Jun 23 2016, 03:00 AM.
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| + Emmeth | Jun 23 2016, 03:07 AM Post #3 |
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It's pretty much what Queen said. You have already decided that they are hard to get even before you try, that's not healthy. You need to be yourself and just try to approach women not thinking like that. If they're not interested, it's very likely it's not about being "hard to get", there's probably another reason. |
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| Daemon Keido | Jun 23 2016, 03:18 AM Post #4 |
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Don't try to mould yourself to be what every girl wants. In that way lies failure. Be yourself and let the girls who want that come to you. All I needed to do to get a girl was sit at a table alone and drink a soda. Within ten minutes my current girlfriend approached me and we have been together ever since. |
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Jun 23 2016, 05:33 AM Post #5 |
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You ask why girls play hard to get and immediately fall into commenting on how they "dress a certain way," which is two assumptions in one sentence. In what way should women be dressed, and in what way do you feel all women play hard to get? I really don't understand. If a girl isn't interested in you, then of course she should speak up about it. You can't expect women who aren't interested to pretend like they are. That just isn't fair to either party. |
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Jun 23 2016, 01:41 PM Post #6 |
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What will you do when you get old?
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Stare at them intently and when they try to leave the area follow them around. Works 100% of the time, 60% of the time. |
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| + Pointer | Jun 23 2016, 02:51 PM Post #7 |
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Life is cruel my friend and you have to accept that. There is no easy way ..if you want to be in a relationship then work for it. Believe me when im sayin that maintaining that relationship is 100 times more difficult than getting into it |
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| * Mitas | Jun 23 2016, 03:02 PM Post #8 |
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I don't believe that most girls play 'hard to get'. More than likely they just aren't interested in you (not meant to be rude or anything, that's just most likely the case if they aren't showing interest). There are probably cases where a girl is interested and is playing 'hard to get', but I don't think that it's 'most girls'. However, to play devil's advocate, playing hard to get is something that's used quite often in TV and film, so maybe younger girls are picking up on that and putting it into practice. It also could be a result of guys usually having to be the one to make the first move (although I do believe that to be true, I personally haven't experienced that, in most of my experience with women I wasn't the one to make the first move, but that's because I suck at it); that results in girls getting multiple advances from different guys, so they could end up getting sick of those approaches and seem to be cold, when in fact they're just jaded. |
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| Goddess Ultimecia | Jun 23 2016, 03:31 PM Post #9 |
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If you're not comfortable in your own skin, chances are they're not going to be comfortable with you. So by all means try to be something you're not if it's more comfortable for you, just realize that it's going to be hard to keep up the act. As for my own experience, I have never once gone up to a woman to ask for a relationship (almost entirely because I don't believe I personally am ready for one) but I've been approached by four within the past six months just while talking to friends or most recently, holding groceries in a way that showed off my arms. Granted, not everyone weightlifts so results may vary from doing something like that. Basically, just emphasize what you feel are the best parts of yourself and strut your stuff man. If they're not coming up to you, they're just not interested in you. Simple as that, nothing to get discouraged by, there's likely someone out there that likes what you are. |
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| * Ketchup Revenge | Jun 23 2016, 08:57 PM Post #10 |
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I think the correct question would be "why are the most desirable girls so hard to get?" You're narrowing your field of vision if you honestly think that all girls have something against dating. There's plenty of socially awkward girls out there of whom guys "who think it's hard to get a girl" would never even think about asking out, but are decent people who can bring just as much to the table as a girl you're pursuing, even if it's not the same things. The same can be said about guys who are socially awkward, but are good men who are skilled in other areas. So this question is negated by the fact that you're not interested in exploring your options a bit, therefore the answer to the question is entirely on you. Edited by Ketchup Revenge, Jun 23 2016, 09:01 PM.
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| Jestwinged | Jun 24 2016, 07:26 AM Post #11 |
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It's like everyone else is saying. I will add my own part though. Why do you, and alot of other guys, get off on the fact that you are entitled to have someone like you? Think about all the times you have seen a woman / girl you have found unattractive, be it for whatever reason it is, quite alot right? Believe it or not females have free will to go out with who they want based on any preference they want. Alot of people don't want to be in a relationship, are already in a relationship, are into the same gender. Perhaps they say no to guys because of the way they act, the way they look, the way they dress, what does it matter? Thing is, once you start playing the ''why are most girls hard to get, why does no one gives us a chance, why don't girls like nice guys'' bulls*** you get into a vicious cycle. People with this mentality tend to come off as very creepy, very needy and just down right not attractive. Instead of blaming a whole gender, look at yourself, you aren't perfect. |
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| Buuberries | Jun 24 2016, 08:09 AM Post #12 |
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prove it |
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