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Do you think friends are hard to keep?
Topic Started: Apr 12 2016, 04:43 AM (349 Views)
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I personally would say yes because anything you do or say could harm the other person. A person can only put up so much until he or she is done with you forever. Having good friends is good, but they aren't easy to keep, even for a long time.
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+ Pyrus
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Yes and no. I'm still "friends" with people from high school, despite barely talking to them throughout the years. They can stick with you until the end of your life.

On the other hand, one wrong statement or joke can ruin a friendship, so who knows.
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Agreed with Pyro, yes and no.

IMO a good group of friends is hard to lose. Even if you may get into an altercation with one, you still have many others within the group.
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+ Emmeth
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That really depends on yourself more than anything. There's several ways to lose friends, the most common way to not keep in touch with them. If they are insulted by every second thing they say it's probably not even worth being friends with them, either for your own behaviour or for their sensitivity.
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Impossible.

But, they're even harder to find.
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Yes, I think finding a great/best friend is one of the bigger challenges in life. It is at least for me.
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What will you do when you get old?

For me no, they're easy to make and easy to keep. It's good friends that are hard to make and keep.
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If they like you for who you are, and you don't pose yourself for them (act like someone you're not to fit in), then I'd say No. Unless you do something really stupid
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My Dear Melancholy,

I have one real friend. The rest are just casual "friends" who'll phase out of my life due to drifting apart or just because that life.

Depending on the type of friend ...it'll be easier but I think friends (like a true friend) are on a moderate level of keeping.
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Greetings. I will be your waifu this season.

In my experience it's easier to keep just one best friend you share similarities with.

I have nobody besides my girlfriend and my best friend and I don't really care because I'm not interested in being fake around people just to keep them happy, if they're not interested in my dark sense of humour or the things that I enjoy then...what's even the point in being friends with them?


For me one good friend trumps a group of decent friends you have to walk on eggshells around, it might be nice to be around more people but if you have to restrict your personality to do so why bother?
Find people that are going to laugh at your dumb jokes rather than those that will get offended and stop talking to you because your swag can melt steel beams and theirs can't.
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appearently yes it is hard to keep them, especially if for example you work at X place he/she works at Y place and you rarely meet


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I guess they can be hard to keep. Sometimes there are things out of your control, like people moving cities, the other person growing apart, or you growing apart from them. Those things can make it hard. However I feel like if you have a very good friend, it's almost impossible to lose them. I have three friends in my life who I feel like I would never lose. Even if they moved cities, I'd keep in touch with them as often as possible and make a concerted effort to visit them as much as possible.

Also, I don't know about anybody else, but I don't feel like I have to worry about a friend putting up with too much or having to watch what I say doesn't offend them. If that's the case, it's not much of a friendship in the first place. So in that case, no it's not hard.

Making friends is much harder for me. Every person I'd consider a friend offline I made over 10 years ago, apart from one, who I knew my whole life because he's my mum's friend's son, but we only became friends about 6/7 years ago.
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