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| + Pelador | Jan 29 2016, 02:14 PM Post #16 |
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Nah I make a concious effort not to stare. Just the odd glance, and sometimes I see she is glancing back. I don't want people here to get the wrong impression, I'm not obsessing or anything. I was just interested what the correct procedure was for a situation where you're attracted to someone who is unavailable. |
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| Dankness Lava | Jan 29 2016, 02:27 PM Post #17 |
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Dankness Forever
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Find someone single who is similar to her. |
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| + Pelador | Jan 29 2016, 02:50 PM Post #18 |
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There isn't anyone else of my type there. |
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| + Clearin | Jan 29 2016, 02:52 PM Post #19 |
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I thought you had a girlfriend |
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Jan 29 2016, 03:28 PM Post #20 |
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Dude, you're totally wrong... and is number 3 a stab at me? Come on now. Lol |
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| + QueenTD | Jan 29 2016, 03:36 PM Post #21 |
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My Dear Melancholy,
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Here's a Queen opinion on the matter. 1. Agreed. Everyone looks like to look around. If you cute you might get a look or two. But don't overthinks things. Everyone looks. Not everyone acts. 2. While attention is nice. I don't like males gawking at me. It's nice to get a peep or two that gives off "Hey you're cute". Also if you're like me where marriage isn't important then your whole ring argument is flawed. I wasn't aware you're supposed to be past along and go around until you get a ring. I didn't know a ring suddenly made you loyal. 3. Huh? I find it disrespectful too. I mean I admit I've done it(my boyfriend is the result of that) when my bf was dating another girl but I felt guilty about it. Why ruin someone's happy relationship? Let's assume they're happy. Going after them added complications that could make them sad despite if they end up with you. They make think I gave up the perfect man/woman just to sleep with this f***boy/lovely lady. 4. Omg.......its not a literally steal. He didn't rob a bank and put you in a bag and thus stealing you. You can steal a man or a girl. You stole them from their relationship. It's honestly not that hard of a concept to understand. Pedy here's my advice. Stop overthinking things. She might find you cute or just happen to be in your direction. But that doesn't mean she wants you D. If she did trust she would at least said hi. But aren't you dating someone anyways? I wouldn't say you CAN'T go after someone who single. But expect lots of drama. But if you have the balls to do it or have the vagina to do it then go ahead not my problem. Personally I'll say don't do it. Not worth they risk. Plenty of women in the world. Why go after this taken one. Edited by QueenTD, Jan 29 2016, 03:38 PM.
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| + Pelador | Jan 29 2016, 04:12 PM Post #22 |
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Pedy? I'm not Pedy. Anyway I'm not over thinking things. I'm sorry if I gave the impression that I was somewhat deluded. I was more curious what other people would do in this situation. I am definitely going to do nothing. |
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Jan 29 2016, 07:40 PM Post #23 |
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I've seen happen before me a situation of a married woman sleeping around on her husband, because they were constantly fighting, he was cheating as well, and they were going through a divorce. Perhaps it was an escape from all the suffering she was going through with him, but I still think it's a wrong thing to do overall. Both she and the person she cheated with were wrong for the "retaliation." I think it's wrong if it still hurts somewhere deep down, either of the persons within the situation. Edited by Professor Gohan, Jan 29 2016, 10:14 PM.
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| Auld-Dog | Jan 30 2016, 10:10 AM Post #24 |
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First thing, say hi to her and ask how she is and introduce yourself- in the appropriate situation, if she is knows someone in your group that makes it a lot easier. If not, then it becomes tricky, but at least you both go to the same event, so it should be ok. Don't jump the gun. Try just saying hi, go from there. You may find once you actually talk to her, how that changes you perspective and if their really is any chemistry there or not; on her part and yours. This is important. It's all fair and well liking how someone looks and acts and talks in public,, but it's different when you actually engage with them, you may like them more or it will pop that "crush bubble" and you find it is not what you thought. Her glancing it you, don't take it too much to heart. You don't know in what context. Just because person glances your way several times doesn't mean what you think. So again, if the situation is suitable, say hello to her and see what reaction you get. If it's non-plussed, or negative or maybe even just polite (people tend to not want to be mean to others, so just because she doesn't tell you to get lost straight away, doesn't mean she will be into you either)- just smile and make an excuse to leave IE speak to another friend, need to get a drink, go to the loo, or just say your busy elsewhere, whatever, so long as you can introduce yourself and have an easy "get out plan" if she doesn't respond how you like or you don't like her in reality. However, if she does respond positively to you, don't take it too much to heart. Take it easy. Just talk about the day, what your doing and maybe why you like this sort of thing your both at. Be decent back and don't be inapproate, just treat her like she is one of your friends. This is important, as your getting to know each other as people. End of they day, she is with someone, and if/once you start speaking to her, you get on and you find she is what you like, keep things relaxed and friendly. Keeps things easy and relaxed and no one has any expectations. Things work out, that's fine, nature takes over. If it doesn't, that's fine too, you've acquired a new friend. Edited by Auld-Dog, Jan 30 2016, 10:12 AM.
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| + Pointer | Jan 30 2016, 11:26 AM Post #25 |
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go man, if you like her, go for it. Its not like she is bond to her partner forever. Basically there is absolutely nothing here what says you should not do it. She would reject you in the end if she is not interested |
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| Know'm Sayin' | Jan 30 2016, 01:42 PM Post #26 |
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ZERO HOOTS GANG
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How would you feel if some guy tried to steal your gf away? Have some morals man. There's plenty of fish in the sea. Besides, in certain situations like these often times people end up dead. |
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