Going through life with or without a significant other

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Going through life with or without a significant other
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* Mitas	Nov 27 2015, 07:43 PM Post #16
It truly was a Shawshank redemption Posts: 12,129 Group: Retired Staff Member #2,993 Joined: December 16, 2007 Gender Male Favourite Anime DBZ What Browser do you use? Google Chrome Favourite Manga DBZ, Full Metal Alchemist	Goddess Ultimecia Nov 27 2015, 07:32 PM Shouldn't need anyone to complete you anyway. Agreed. You've got to be able to feel 'complete' alone because you're the only person guaranteed to stay in your life (relationships end, people die etc). A relationship is like a side dish, or a sauce, or anything that makes a meal better. It's most important to make sure the fundamentals of the meal (yourself) are prepared well, but a side dish or a sauce can make it that much better.
	"Then you've got the chance to do better next time." "Next time?" "Course. Doing better next time. That's what life is."


Axiomatically Prodigious	Nov 27 2015, 07:55 PM Post #17
Posts: 2,433 Group: Saiyan Elite Member #8,939 Joined: January 29, 2013 Gender Male Favourite Anime DragonBall [Z, S, GT], Cowboy Bebop, Trigun, Gangsta, Steins;Gate, Berserk, Tokyo Ghoul What Browser do you use? Google Chrome Favourite Manga DragonBall [Z, S], Legend of Zelda	How can someone be lonely if they don't even know what loneliness is?
	Super Saiyan Rose Many thanks to LNC! <3 See you Space Cowboy... The Humanoid Typhoon Not Justin Cook


Buuberries	Nov 27 2015, 08:08 PM Post #18
No Posts: 7,150 Group: Members Member #8,753 Joined: December 30, 2012 Gender Not Specified Country None Favourite Anime The Passion of Christ What Browser do you use? Christianity Favourite Manga The Bible	bc loneliness isnt a concept.
	¯\(°_o)/¯


+ Pointer	Nov 27 2015, 08:09 PM Post #19
... Posts: 7,062 Group: Elite Member Member #8,812 Joined: January 5, 2013 Gender Male	Mitas Nov 27 2015, 07:43 PM Goddess Ultimecia Nov 27 2015, 07:32 PM Shouldn't need anyone to complete you anyway. Agreed. You've got to be able to feel 'complete' alone because you're the only person guaranteed to stay in your life (relationships end, people die etc). A relationship is like a side dish, or a sauce, or anything that makes a meal better. It's most important to make sure the fundamentals of the meal (yourself) are prepared well, but a side dish or a sauce can make it that much better. So shall I live a "complete" single life? Fair enough I just said my opinion. And Buubs ... Loneliness is a thing it can make you crazy. Feel bad, and stuff. Being single while you dont like it is bad too. Edited by Pointer, Nov 27 2015, 08:10 PM.



* Mitas	Nov 27 2015, 08:15 PM Post #20
It truly was a Shawshank redemption Posts: 12,129 Group: Retired Staff Member #2,993 Joined: December 16, 2007 Gender Male Favourite Anime DBZ What Browser do you use? Google Chrome Favourite Manga DBZ, Full Metal Alchemist	He didn't say loneliness doesn't exist, he said it's not a concept. He meant that it's an emotion that is felt regardless of whether you understand it or not. And also, at no point did I say not to have a relationship. I said that you need to be able to feel complete yourself because relationships will end and people will die. If you rely on somebody else to make you who you are, what happens when they aren't there any more? If you can figure that out yourself, then if your partner leaves you or dies, then sure, you'd be upset, but you'd be able to continue your life and find happiness again.
	"Then you've got the chance to do better next time." "Next time?" "Course. Doing better next time. That's what life is."


+ Pointer	Nov 27 2015, 08:27 PM Post #21
... Posts: 7,062 Group: Elite Member Member #8,812 Joined: January 5, 2013 Gender Male	Mitas Nov 27 2015, 08:15 PM He didn't say loneliness doesn't exist, he said it's not a concept. He meant that it's an emotion that is felt regardless of whether you understand it or not. And also, at no point did I say not to have a relationship. I said that you need to be able to feel complete yourself because relationships will end and people will die. If you rely on somebody else to make you who you are, what happens when they aren't there any more? If you can figure that out yourself, then if your partner leaves you or dies, then sure, you'd be upset, but you'd be able to continue your life and find happiness again. I feel kind of uneducated in fields of language just by reading your post I shall remain in the dbz section my english just cant let me express myself properly. I misunderstand a lot too. Btw yes you are right, No I see what you wanted to say. Obviously that is a fair point Edited by Pointer, Nov 27 2015, 08:28 PM.



Axiomatically Prodigious	Nov 27 2015, 08:31 PM Post #22
Posts: 2,433 Group: Saiyan Elite Member #8,939 Joined: January 29, 2013 Gender Male Favourite Anime DragonBall [Z, S, GT], Cowboy Bebop, Trigun, Gangsta, Steins;Gate, Berserk, Tokyo Ghoul What Browser do you use? Google Chrome Favourite Manga DragonBall [Z, S], Legend of Zelda	I found this on a site and I liked what was said: Do you know the difference between aloneness and loneliness? Yes, believe it or not there is a small but noticeable difference between aloneness and loneliness. To be alone is to be by oneself. You may or may not FEEL lonely when you are alone, but the only important condition for being alone is that there is no one else around you. To be lonely, is to suffer the feelings of loneliness, to want people, social contact, and yet be unable to get any. Given this fact, it is quite possible to feel lonely when you are alone, and it is also to feel lonely when you are NOT alone. Many people report feelings of being lonely in a crowd, that even though they are surrounded by people, they still feel lonely. On the other hand, there are those who have written about the virtue of being alone. Hermits, monks and other religious persons treasure their time alone for contemplation and communication with the Higher Powers. Even in our daily lives we should practice spending some time alone, going over the events of the day. Aloneness is both an important and integral part of our lives. So don't get the two mixed up! "To be lonely, is to suffer the feelings of loneliness, to want people, social contact, and yet be unable to get any." It has to be in terms of moderation. None of us here have been locked away in solitary confinement for the past 365 days. Edited by Axiomatically Prodigious, Nov 27 2015, 08:32 PM.
	Super Saiyan Rose Many thanks to LNC! <3 See you Space Cowboy... The Humanoid Typhoon Not Justin Cook


+ Pointer	Nov 27 2015, 08:33 PM Post #23
... Posts: 7,062 Group: Elite Member Member #8,812 Joined: January 5, 2013 Gender Male	Majin Nila Nov 27 2015, 08:31 PM I found this one a site and I liked what was said: Do you know the difference between aloneness and loneliness? Yes, believe it or not there is a small but noticeable difference between aloneness and loneliness. To be alone is to be by oneself. You may or may not FEEL lonely when you are alone, but the only important condition for being alone is that there is no one else around you. To be lonely, is to suffer the feelings of loneliness, to want people, social contact, and yet be unable to get any. Given this fact, it is quite possible to feel lonely when you are alone, and it is also to feel lonely when you are NOT alone. Many people report feelings of being lonely in a crowd, that even though they are surrounded by people, they still feel lonely. On the other hand, there are those who have written about the virtue of being alone. Hermits, monks and other religious persons treasure their time alone for contemplation and communication with the Higher Powers. Even in our daily lives we should practice spending some time alone, going over the events of the day. Aloneness is both an important and integral part of our lives. So don't get the two mixed up! "To be lonely, is to suffer the feelings of loneliness, to want people, social contact, and yet be unable to get any." It has to be in terms of moderation. None of us here have been locked away in solitary confinement for the past 365 days. Okay Okay I get it ... as i pointed out I dont use english in a regular basis. And I meant loneliness. Because I am not alone, yet I feel lonely.



Axiomatically Prodigious	Nov 27 2015, 08:35 PM Post #24
Posts: 2,433 Group: Saiyan Elite Member #8,939 Joined: January 29, 2013 Gender Male Favourite Anime DragonBall [Z, S, GT], Cowboy Bebop, Trigun, Gangsta, Steins;Gate, Berserk, Tokyo Ghoul What Browser do you use? Google Chrome Favourite Manga DragonBall [Z, S], Legend of Zelda	Pointer, that wasn't directed towards you. I posted that for everyone to read and for me to further understand.
	Super Saiyan Rose Many thanks to LNC! <3 See you Space Cowboy... The Humanoid Typhoon Not Justin Cook


Buuberries	Nov 27 2015, 10:22 PM Post #25
No Posts: 7,150 Group: Members Member #8,753 Joined: December 30, 2012 Gender Not Specified Country None Favourite Anime The Passion of Christ What Browser do you use? Christianity Favourite Manga The Bible	hey mitas you know how happiness starts with h? mine starts with u
	¯\(°_o)/¯


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