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Sep 16 2015, 03:59 AM Post #1 |
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How do you deal with rejection? Relationship rejection. Bank loan rejection. Job promotion rejection. Any kind of rejection. |
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| SpeedoTrunks | Sep 16 2015, 06:55 AM Post #2 |
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I grew up very poor, and thus not getting a lot of stuff that I wanted, which at the time sucked a little bit, but it taught me how to deal with the word "No" . Later on in life, I've been rejected by girls/banks/jobs etc, but at the end of the day it literally is just a yes/no situation (for me at least anyway). Yeah there is still stuff I would really like (getting a decent credit card for example) but so far its been a no, and I'm cool with that . Maybe not the answers people were looking for, but thats me hah. |
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| + Green | Sep 16 2015, 05:35 PM Post #3 |
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Flashy Thing!
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Do go in expecting things and rejection is much better. If you go in thinking "I deserve this" or "this is mine" and you don't get want you want, you're more likely to be angry. Go in prepared hoping for the best and expect the worse. It's not the most positive way to approach life but it usually motivates people to be as prepared as possible and better handle rejection. If you do your best to prepare, no matter what happens at the end, you can at least look at yourself in a positive way and say "I'm so sexy right now (lol!)" or "I know my stuff" etc. |
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| + Pelador | Sep 16 2015, 05:45 PM Post #4 |
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Crazy Awesome Legend
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I don't deal with it very well. Especially from women. |
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| * Mitas | Sep 16 2015, 08:39 PM Post #5 |
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It truly was a Shawshank redemption
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Rejection from things like bank loans or job positions doesn't bother me. I can take those on the chin and accept it as just the way things go. Rejection from other people e.g. friends, partners, even strangers, is something I don't deal with well, to the point where I will perceive rejection that isn't there, or pre-empt it by shutting myself off from that person or people. It's something that I'm looking to change about myself (it's related to the personality disorder I have).
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"Then you've got the chance to do better next time." "Next time?" "Course. Doing better next time. That's what life is." | |
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| Cloud | Sep 16 2015, 08:45 PM Post #6 |
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I shrug it off. Life is full of rejection. It's bound to happen and happen often. Learning to deal with it in the most minimalistic manner is a key point in surviving this world easily. You don't always get what you want. Sometimes what you want is unrealistic. Sometimes you're judgement is clouded. I learned this the hard way at a very young age. Rejection sucks, but it's a part of this world. |
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| TheGmGoken | Sep 16 2015, 11:02 PM Post #7 |
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I just shrugs it over. Just live life to the fullest until it's over. IF it's major then I'll just pout a little then I'll get over it. |
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| + Pelador | Sep 16 2015, 11:11 PM Post #8 |
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Crazy Awesome Legend
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You'd think I'd be used to it the amount of times I've experienced it. But it hurts every time. |
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| TheGmGoken | Sep 16 2015, 11:26 PM Post #9 |
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Not to sound like a troll. But I suggest some YouTube motivational videos. They're quite inspiration. I even did an AMV using one if you prefer to see it with anime.
Don't worry m8. It's tough.. You'll find one. Imo there's someone for everyone. However here's something my best friend told me. There's a man for every girl. But there's not a girl for every man. |
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| Buuberries | Sep 17 2015, 04:41 PM Post #10 |
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someone or someten? |
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Sep 18 2015, 03:30 PM Post #11 |
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Keyboard Warriors, Everywhere.
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Relationship rejection - It really depends to be honest with you, I haven't been in a relationship for a while out of choice while I sort myself out. When I was younger I would obsess over people and be REALLY gutted if they didn't like me back, but now I am more laid back I wouldn't mind so much, there is plenty of fish in the sea, however if I had developed quite alot of feelings for them, it would hurt I guess but I would just move on with it, dealt with much worse. Bank loan rejection - Never had a bank loan Job promotion rejection - Don't care, work isn't all as important as it is bigged up to be. Any kind of rejection - Shrug it off most of the time. |
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Keyboard Warrior 1. A Person who, being unable to express his anger through physical violence (owning to their physical weakness, lack of bravery and/or conviction in real life), instead manifests said emotions through the text-based medium of the internet, usually in the form of aggressive writing that the Keyboard Warrior would not (for reasons previously mentioned) be able to give form to in real life. 2. Keyboard Warriors are generally identified by unneccessary rage in their written communications, and are regarded as 'losers' by other virtual identities on the internet. | |
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| ILikeMySocks | Sep 18 2015, 07:20 PM Post #12 |
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I just roll with it. As Rocky said, keep moving forward but be willing to take the hits. It happens a lot, just gotta accept that. |
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