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Dating when you live with your parents
Topic Started: May 27 2015, 03:06 AM (1,283 Views)
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As a teenager, your options may be limited to a car or getting a room. So you end up getting creative -- sometimes it is interesting to increase the thrill.

But whatever, y'all are a bunch of squares. :p
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Greetings. I will be your waifu this season.

I can vouch for it on the fun side of things me and my girlfriend definitely did it way more when we lived apart, since you can't do it as often you want to do it more when you finally see each other.

So it's great for that kind of relationship or if one just starts that way.


Don't see a problem with public sex so long as you keep it classy, don't do it next to a nursery or something.
It has a kind of animalistic primal appeal to it :p
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I don't see what's so great about public sex. To me, sex is something private, reserved for people you love and care about deeply, not something to flaunt and turn into a game.

I guess that has to do with maturity and personal preference though.
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Annnnnnnnnd we just quit helping Pel and started a public sex forum to compare out wackiest escapades.

Personally Pel, if I remember correct you're a college dude. I'd say stick to other college girls, especially those in the dorms. Just finding some space is nice. You're an adult, you can do whatever. But saving some dough for a place of your own isn't a bad idea. Or extra cash for dating, dating gets expensive man.
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To be fair guys, most kinks can't be explained. You just have them or you don't.

Of course a rational mindset would not appreciate any kinks.
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Let's get back on topic here guys.

I think your best bet is to move out, especially at your age. If you can't in the foreseeable future, then try to find a girl who lives on her own and you can spend time at her place. She will have to understand your situation too. The whole "still lives with parents" thing can be a downfall.
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Greetings. I will be your waifu this season.

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May 28 2015, 05:20 AM
Of course a rational mindset would not appreciate any kinks.
Suggesting it's irrational to have any?

No more irrational than having a favourite food or song really, everyone's different.


Yeah still living with your parents can be heavily looked down on but someone who stays with you even if that's the case is likely a keeper, if they're not judgmental and understand you may have difficulties finding a place or getting a job they'd probably be okay waiting.

So long as your not obviously a total mummies boy and practically still breastfeeding you're that close with your mother(rarely the father) many girls will find it okay, unless you're like 40 then it's odd but you're not so that's fine.


Obviously you just can't try punching way above your weight, a successful glamour model isn't going to find it acceptable, most likely :p someone similar to you would be more understanding.

Also being in a relationship is a great help when you want to find a place, if she still lives at home too you can just say your family want you to move and somewhere will be found for you.
Or if you're particularly desperate for a place get her pregnant and you'd have a house in weeks! But also a baby to look after.


I'd say it's worth trying anyway, someone who still wants to stick with you if you live with your parents is likely to stick around. They might be harder to find but it would be worth it in the end, you don't really want to be with someone that would drop the relationship as soon as anything gets difficult those people are crap.
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I really don't see the issue to be honest. I've not been in a relationship in a while, but the majority of my friends are in their mid 20s now. They have full-time jobs, some have graduate and post-graduate degrees and all that good stuff, but they still live with their parents. They pay their parents rent, etc., but they have no plans on moving out any time soon because lollondonprices why move out and pay a s***load for a s***ty apartment or house? Some of them have long-term partners, and while there are clashes between them and their parents regarding their partner, they're usually about s*** that would happen regardless of whether they lived with their parents or not.

It's just the norm for our generation to still be with their parents at this age as long as you're actively working towards moving out and doing your own thing. Hell, I'd planned on moving out straight after I graduated from university since I really settled into living on my own -- well, with housemates -- but it just wasn't financially feasible at the time. I mean it would have been, but I would've literally just been able to make ends meet and not be able to work towards what I want to do.

It's just about setting boundaries. You're an adult now, so tell them straight up if their behaviour's unreasonable. However, you're still under their roof, so ultimately you'd have to give in to their wants more, unless you're paying them rent or w/e in which case go bonkers.
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That's why I love living in BC-OMS. Cheap but nice quality apartment. It's built like a hotel.
Not to mention it's only...1 floor and 5 doors down from my mom.
#Mamaboy4Life.

What's it's like in Europe? What's the average age of someone moving out in Europe.
In Maryland it's between 19-25. I think America in general is 22 or something.


It's kinda a turn off though. But just be private and make your girlfriend (if you have one) feel @ home.
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Greetings. I will be your waifu this season.

Yeah I don't see why it's a big issue to people just seems to be the way it is.

If they're still being coddled by their parents and are making no effort to control their life then yeah, it's almost like they're still a child but otherwise it can be a very sensible thing to do since it's not like you can have a well paying job as soon as you leave school.

Why should being "successful" mean having like £30 left after you pay rent? I call that struggling really, get a job and save your money then move when possible.


As well as that to instantly turn someone down because they live with parents is an extremely shallow d*** move, what if said parents have health issues? Perhaps Dementia and the person is the only one who can calm them down, are they a lame person to not abandon their parent in favour of scraping by in some crap hole?

I wouldn't want to have any relationship with someone who's immediate reaction to a possible dating partner living with parents is "lol" without getting in to why that might be.

You can still live with your parents and be independent.
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May 28 2015, 12:31 PM
That's why I love living in BC-OMS. Cheap but nice quality apartment. It's built like a hotel.
Not to mention it's only...1 floor and 5 doors down from my mom.
#Mamaboy4Life.

What's it's like in Europe? What's the average age of someone moving out in Europe.
In Maryland it's between 19-25. I think America in general is 22 or something.


It's kinda a turn off though. But just be private and make your girlfriend (if you have one) feel @ home.
I'd imagine it would vary by city rather than my continent or country.

I almost moved to the north of England with one of my now ex-housemates after I graduated, but I didn't want to be secluded and away from all my friends in London. I paid about £3.8k to £4k for my house during my final year -- bills included -- which comes up to about £105 to £110 per week for nine months. It was a pretty damn good house in a good part of the city (mainly because it was a non-student area) and I was so damn lucky to get something like that.

If I were to pay the same amount here in London, I wouldn't get anything close to something like that. I'd probably end up in some crappy one-bedroom flat in a crappy town, and on top of that I'd have to pay for bills -- gas, electricity, internet, and whatever else.

The people I know in London who've moved out of their parents' home have either been really lucky (their own words, in terms of finding a good place), or started working when school/college finished, so around 16-18, and have been working since then and didn't go to university.

annnnnnyway, i guess we've gone off topic now.
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Bringing back on topic.

You'll have more romantic (I'm a romantic guy sadly), private times, and perhaps sexual activity in your own house than parents. However most likely they'll see some personal stuff with you and learn more about you if you live with parents.

Both got it's benefits and faults. Most are nitpicks though. If you're a good guy in their eyes then that's all that matters.

Though in BOTH CASES the gf will always want to clean every f***ing thing
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It truly was a Shawshank redemption

I wouldn't want to be with someone who judged someone as 'unworthy' of them because they still live at home.
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Three choices IMO.

* You need to move out.
* Go in hotel if you can affordt to do it.
* Go to your GF's house and date there [If she's single/alone]
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Best solution, get you own place.

I lived with my parents until the age of 18, and moved out with the sole purpose of not putting of any potential girlfriend I bought home. I mean I love my parents, but my step father is "strange" if you don't know him, and My mum is .........just the same as everybodys mum hah.

I did manage to get alone time, but you end up working around a schedule, IE parents will be out between working hours or something like that.

Get you own place, even if you live in a shoe box......its your shoe box and you can see whoever you want in there hah.
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