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| SSJ | Apr 24 2015, 12:42 AM Post #16 |
 
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Do you have her number? I'd suggest texting her this:
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| Buuberries | Apr 24 2015, 12:45 AM Post #17 |
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say you have a boyfriend i've told women i was gay to get them off me and that was that |
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I tell men I'm gay to get them off my back all the time. |
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| tOMMY pICKLES | Apr 24 2015, 02:09 AM Post #19 |
Yare Yare Daze
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ask her about one of her friends. |
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| + Ssj3vegito96 | Apr 24 2015, 02:36 AM Post #20 |
 
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As for why I don't like her 1. Not my type 2. She's nice but our personalities clash. I'm a very laid back go with the flow person and she's too wild and clingy 3. She's four years older than me. Not necessarily bad but it's not my thing Thanks for the feedback guys Edited by Ssj3vegito96, Apr 24 2015, 02:37 AM.
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| + QueenTD | Apr 24 2015, 02:51 AM Post #21 |
My Dear Melancholy,
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How old are you? |
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| Hurry My Curry | Apr 24 2015, 03:13 AM Post #22 |
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Seriously dude? Getting a girl drunk and manipulating her emotionally is your suggestion? Anyway, I don't think it is as simple as telling her that you're not interested in that way. That could be pretty awkward considering they are in the same friend group. It's not like she can just shut down those feelings. IMO, if you continue to reject her advances, she's going to become disinterested eventually...that could backfire, but it's better than flatout rejecting someone that you are going to see a lot of. Edited by Hurry My Curry, Apr 24 2015, 03:15 AM.
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| + Ssj3vegito96 | Apr 24 2015, 03:18 AM Post #23 |
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@Queen I'm 19 |
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| Krystal | Apr 24 2015, 03:22 AM Post #24 |
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Be proactive, you both are human beings so neither of you deserve to have this prolonged. Flat out ask her if she likes you. If she does, explain that while she has a great personality, it's not the one that really draws you in for a romantic partner, and you aren't comfortable with the age gap. What you look for in friends is different than what you have in mind's eye for a girlfriend, and she's a great fit in the friend category, but you want to keep it to that. Give her a few days to regroup, if she doesn't want to be friends after that, buhbye. You aren't obligated to be attracted to someone, even if they're a 10/10 saint. Rejection hurts like hell, but nobody wants to be stuck with someone they aren't attracted to because they think it's right. |
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| + Havoc_Wreaker | Apr 24 2015, 03:32 AM Post #25 |
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Brah let her at least blow you.... But seriously just be straight up with her Being honest will make it less weird and she might be a bit sad Or angry but your adults I'm sure She will get over it Might make the group studying a bit awkward But at least you won't have this problem bothering you |
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| + Steve | Apr 24 2015, 03:41 AM Post #26 |
Greetings. I will be your waifu this season.
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I've seen it work many times and I never said drunk and manipulate just try get her drunk so she confesses instead of straight up asking. It might just be that she's really nice so asking would just make him look like a weirdo or arrogant prick that thinks everyone fancies him. Continual rejection is a good way to make someone really depressed, especially a clingy person like this girl seems to be. Who knows what she could do to herself. Dating her but not being a fantastically romantic guy is really the safest way to make her see there's no hope in the relationship, she has first hand experience in it, she's not left seeing him every day and thinking "what if" for years. If she's this clingy without admitting any feelings a simple no is hardly going to be okay for her, especially not since she sees him a lot. How is that better than her realizing the relationship wouldn't have worked out anyway? It is much better to realize something won't work than hope for years that it will when it's just not going to happen. And possibly maybe it would turn out to be a great relationship Vegito would actually want to be in so there's that too. Everybody wins, nobody needs to get depressed and cut themselves or kidnap relatives to blackmail someone in to being in a relationship 
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| Jet | Apr 24 2015, 04:39 AM Post #27 |
Ruka is a dude
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I disagree with flat-out rejecting her, especially if she hasn't voiced her opinion about whether she even likes you. There's far better ways to get her off your back than explicitly stating you don't like her. That's just going to hurt her the most and create awkward situations with her and the whole group in the future. Get a mate who's aligned with you more than their group to say something to the effect of "I heard you went out on a date with [insert random name]". Throw in a few vague details about how it went well and that's it. That being said, is she does continue to make advances - just be blunt. You don't like her that way. |
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| + Ssj3vegito96 | Apr 24 2015, 06:19 AM Post #28 |
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^ Not a bad idea |
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| * Mitas | Apr 24 2015, 10:42 AM Post #29 |
It truly was a Shawshank redemption
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It doesn't sound like you're leading her on, so no you aren't being an a*****. You're making your intentions clear. Being honest would be the best course of action, but the problem there is she hasn't explicitly expressed any interest in you yet (hey, she could just be overly-friendly). You could wait until she flat out asks you on a date so you can say you aren't interested. Or you could try and bring it up anyway, even if it lends itself to awkwardness. Jet's idea could work, but it doesn't necessarily let her know you aren't interested in her. It just means you aren't interested in her now. She could just think "oh, I'll wait until he's single again" or whatever. Like multiple people have said, just try and find a way to bring up that you aren't interested in her. It might be awkward, but hey, that's life. It's either man up and face an awkward situation, or put up with things how they are. |
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| SpeedoTrunks | Apr 24 2015, 03:37 PM Post #30 |
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One of the pitfalls of being a "nice guy" is trying to get rid of people you're not interested in. They don't understand that you're being nice, because you want them to go away, and its gets misinterpreted to mean you like them. Just sit down with her and really emphasize how you two make good friends, and you wouldnt want to loose her....."as a friend". If she doenst pick up on that, take the blunt approach "I apologize if this comes across in the wrong way, because I've been trying to be nice about it, but I am sad to inform I am currently not attracted to you." |
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