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Complaining
Tweet Topic Started: Apr 10 2015, 08:12 PM (1,172 Views)
+ Emmeth	Apr 10 2015, 08:12 PM Post #1
I ♥ Yoeri Posts: 20,075 Group: Legend Member #8,985 Joined: February 7, 2013 Country Japan	When did it become human nature to complain so much? I see it everywhere with movies, tv, animes and also religion, politics and human relations. I just want to be positive all the time and spread that around!
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Buuberries	Apr 10 2015, 08:29 PM Post #2
No Posts: 7,150 Group: Members Member #8,753 Joined: December 30, 2012 Gender Not Specified Country None Favourite Anime The Passion of Christ What Browser do you use? Christianity Favourite Manga The Bible	so what do we do if our manager is being a c*** or someone's doing something we dont like
	¯\(°_o)/¯


+ QueenTD	Apr 10 2015, 08:35 PM Post #3
My Dear Melancholy, Posts: 4,480 Group: Elite Member Member #11,589 Joined: August 8, 2014 Gender Female Country United States	Emmeth Apr 10 2015, 08:12 PM When did it become human nature to complain so much? I see it everywhere with movies, tv, animes and also religion, politics and human relations. I just want to be positive all the time and spread that around! I had to stop work to smile at your post. . Be positive 20/7. Brings peace to your mind and it's leads to an amazing life. You can complain but not about every single tiny thing. Just love life, laugh often, and be happy. Excellent post. Though I do complain about internet creeps on YouTube , Twitter, and other places. Kinda...scares me and is just wrong. Edited by QueenTD, Apr 10 2015, 08:36 PM.
	Spoiler: click to toggle GinyuTokusentai You seem nice. Kinda innocent, just a sweet girl Emmeth It seems like you really care about people and you're always polite and worried you'll offend anyone. It's cute. My Step Son peep love u xoxo


Buuberries	Apr 10 2015, 08:45 PM Post #4
No Posts: 7,150 Group: Members Member #8,753 Joined: December 30, 2012 Gender Not Specified Country None Favourite Anime The Passion of Christ What Browser do you use? Christianity Favourite Manga The Bible	oh yeah if it's complaining about innocuous things, then i agree
	¯\(°_o)/¯


Mihawk	Apr 10 2015, 08:50 PM Post #5
Posts: 4,804 Group: Prodigy Member #4,783 Joined: March 2, 2010 Gender Not Specified	The Queen TD Apr 10 2015, 08:35 PM Be positive 20/7 4 hours of negativity. I'll take it.



+ Steve	Apr 10 2015, 09:25 PM Post #6
Greetings. I will be your waifu this season. Posts: 19,471 Group: Legend Member #5,710 Joined: February 7, 2011 Gender Male Country United Kingdom Favourite Anime Hunter x Hunter(2011) What Browser do you use? Mozilla Firefox Favourite Manga Berserk all day erry day	If everyone was satisfied with their lives and achievements nothing would get done. "We made the car, satisfied with that" The world needs people who'll come out and say "No, it's not fast/efficient enough we need to do better" If nobody complained about anything, how would anything improve? It's always been human nature, doesn't make sense for us to have got this far without the function. "Should we improve on this?" "No, your work is satisfactory" the world would stop.
	Definitely not a succubus, fear not


* Crashbreaka	Apr 10 2015, 10:43 PM Post #7
Captain Oblivious Posts: 6,888 Group: Retired Staff Member #7,771 Joined: June 14, 2012 Gender Male Country New Zealand Favourite Anime Onepunch-Man, Gurren Lagann What Browser do you use? Chrome Favourite Manga Seven Deadly Sins, Food Wars, Onepunch-Man	I'd say people do it because it's easy, or it makes them feel better about whatever the situation is. Probably both.



Dankness Lava	Apr 10 2015, 11:08 PM Post #8
Dankness Forever Posts: 6,348 Group: Tha Dankness Member #9,197 Joined: March 16, 2013 Gender Not Specified Country None Favourite Anime Hajime no Ippo What Browser do you use? Chrome Favourite Manga One Piece	Steve Apr 10 2015, 09:25 PM If everyone was satisfied with their lives and achievements nothing would get done. "We made the car, satisfied with that" The world needs people who'll come out and say "No, it's not fast/efficient enough we need to do better" If nobody complained about anything, how would anything improve? It's always been human nature, doesn't make sense for us to have got this far without the function. "Should we improve on this?" "No, your work is satisfactory" the world would stop. Well there's a difference between complaining about trivial things and desiring improvement.



lucrowe	Apr 10 2015, 11:20 PM Post #9
Posts: 1,149 Group: Member Member #11,578 Joined: August 5, 2014 Gender Male Favourite Anime Gantz What Browser do you use? Chrome Favourite Manga Not much of a fan..	On the flip side, it's healthy to air your grievances. You can try to be positive all the time, but it won't work. That's not negativity, that's reality. I think it's healthier to be not optimistic or pessimistic, but instead realistic. An optimist sees the glass as half full, a pessimist sees the glass as half empty; but a realist sees the glass as half way from where it needs to be. I say be aware of your negativity. Own it. Understand it! Then work from there. Complaining is healthy. It's annoying, but it's healthy.
	"I'm not in it for the money, I'm rapping to be relevant, Spittin' for the hell of it to get me in my element and stomp whack rappers like an elephant... I'm the celebrant delegate spittin' elegant benevolence" - Lucrowe MC. https://www.facebook.com/pages/Lucrowe-MC/661247567303948?ref=bookmarks Str8 Outta Namek, A Crazy Mutha Fka Named Lucrowe


Dankness Lava	Apr 10 2015, 11:31 PM Post #10
Dankness Forever Posts: 6,348 Group: Tha Dankness Member #9,197 Joined: March 16, 2013 Gender Not Specified Country None Favourite Anime Hajime no Ippo What Browser do you use? Chrome Favourite Manga One Piece	lucrowe Apr 10 2015, 11:20 PM On the flip side, it's healthy to air your grievances. You can try to be positive all the time, but it won't work. That's not negativity, that's reality. I think it's healthier to be not optimistic or pessimistic, but instead realistic. An optimist sees the glass as half full, a pessimist sees the glass as half empty; but a realist sees the glass as half way from where it needs to be. I say be aware of your negativity. Own it. Understand it! Then work from there. Complaining is healthy. It's annoying, but it's healthy. That makes sense. Sometimes complaints slip out, and it kind of makes me feel bad. I guess that's why I try to avoid it myself.



+ Yusuke	Apr 11 2015, 05:32 AM Post #11
Posts: 7,023 Group: Elite Member Member #9,876 Joined: August 11, 2013 Gender Male Country Canada	Because some things need to be said. Being idle all the time and pretending your happy isn't going to help much.
	Ask Yusuke


Master Gohan	Apr 11 2015, 07:25 AM Post #12
Posts: 2,178 Group: New York Yankee Member #9,780 Joined: July 21, 2013 Gender Male Country United States Favourite Anime KIll la Kill, No Game No Life, Code Geass, Gosick, Log Horizon, Steins;Gate	Being positive all the time is unhealthy and just makes people hate you. If you are never negative then you really aren't someone I want to be around, that's my opinion. That's just extremely odd. I do agree people tend to complain over extremely trivial and stupid things all the time, but the attitude of being positive 24/7 is just as stupid.



Zeddicus	Apr 13 2015, 01:40 PM Post #13
Posts: 54 Group: Member Member #12,063 Joined: February 11, 2015 Gender Male Country United States Favourite Anime DBZ, Hunter x Hunter Favourite Manga Negima	Roy Apr 11 2015, 05:32 AM Because some things need to be said. Being idle all the time and pretending your happy isn't going to help much. Agree with this, and also with Queen. Not only is it healthy to air out your frustrations from time to time, but it can be satisfying as well. Of course I can only speak for myself here, but let's say you're with a group of people, and maybe you don't know them that well. And for whatever reason, you're the first to pipe up with "Man, I hate X." Then someone else in the room goes "Me too, insert additional comment explaining why I hate it." Boom. Instant connection, and it feels fantastic. To me, that feels better than liking the same things, though that's a plus as well.



Buuberries	Apr 13 2015, 02:41 PM Post #14
No Posts: 7,150 Group: Members Member #8,753 Joined: December 30, 2012 Gender Not Specified Country None Favourite Anime The Passion of Christ What Browser do you use? Christianity Favourite Manga The Bible	just to clarify and elaborate for you guys, there's a difference between complaining and venting. what some of you are describing is venting, which tends to be really cathartic. well actually the research on that is kinda oiajqgi\oeof -- i remember coming across a couple a few yyears ago that suggested venting might be unhealthy at times. i still like to do it, anyway, so whatevs. actually now that i think about it i dont think those studies distinguished between venting and whining. regarding complaints, i'm finding it hard to express what i want to word out, so i've gone and found this instead: https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/the-squeaky-wheel/201210/the-difference-between-complaining-and-whining. pretty much explains what ive just said a lot better.
	¯\(°_o)/¯


+ Pointer	Apr 13 2015, 02:49 PM Post #15
... Posts: 7,062 Group: Elite Member Member #8,812 Joined: January 5, 2013 Gender Male	on that note it is really diturbing whenever i see these mistakes, reading them are even worse



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