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Is there a reason why I am creepy?
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+ Pelador	Apr 10 2015, 03:17 AM Post #1
Crazy Awesome Legend Posts: 25,663 Group: Legend Member #4,634 Joined: December 12, 2009 Gender Not Specified Country None Favourite Anime HunterxHunter What Browser do you use? Firefox Favourite Manga Dragonball	I can't remember if I've made a thread like this before so I'm sorry if I'm treading over old ground. Basically I've been a creepy pervert since as long as I can remember. I can recall watching cartoons as a child and wanting the female characters to undress. At primary school I used to beg the girls to show me their underwear and do handstands if they wore skirts. It seems innocuous and innocent because I was just a child being curious. But I used to get proper turned on by things. Things I won't reveal to save my embarrassment. I haven't changed much in these regards. I have much better self control and awareness now of course. You won't catch me begging women in the street to do handstands for me. But the thoughts and desires still remain. Sometimes I let myself down too. On holiday last year I found myself following behind this girl because she had a small flappy skirt on and it was breezy. That was a terrible thing to do of course. Something inside compelled me to find out what kind of underwear she had on. I was single minded about it. Almost like a man possessed. That's what happens to me. I can think of nothing else. I become intent on finding out these things. Why am I like this? Do I have some sort of condition? You might think, well you just need a girlfriend. I'm not so sure. I've had the same problem all my life. You can't tell me I needed a girlfriend at aged five. Obsessive personality mixed with perverse curiosities with little or no desire for actual sexual intercourse. That's basically me.
	http://www.youtube.com/user/jonjits


TheGmGoken	Apr 10 2015, 04:22 AM Post #2
Posts: 1,995 Group: Member Member #10,673 Joined: January 4, 2014 Gender Male	Only because I feel bad for you(as this is the 5th thread you made.). Lucky for you class is canceled tomorrow until 3PM. Becoming a Creepy pervert can be caused by different reasons, the most prominent being suppression of emotions, negation of the overall need for sexuality, inaccurate self-image, neurological malfunctions (which are rare), social and cultural discrepancies, Being perverse is usually a matter of habit. You start with finding out, that you like a certain thing and following the impulse. By repeating the pattern you get used to it until it is a normality to you, and all of a sudden you realize, that you are no longer within the mainstream. (Check how many of these you have. ) You are suffering a serious condition when your desires are causing problems in the real world. These may be Being ashamed of what you want, you harm yourself, others feel offended by your actions, others are harmed by your actions, you tend towards illegal things, the desires interrupt your life (E.g. you dare not to engage in a relationship), and more. Here's a prevention method Spoiler: click to toggle Write down a list, how and when your perversion influences your life. Prevent new perverted images and ideas from entering your head. Stay away from everything that increases your lust in that particular area. Learn to watch yourself. Get to be aware of the impulse before you react on it. Meditation helps a lot for achieving this. Practice to control yourself, not only in the area of your perversion, but in general. Get used to "normal" practices again, by having "normal sex" increasingly more often. When you sense perverted thoughts seizing you, immediately get yourself away. Take a shower, do physical exercise, clean your room, meet a friend Don't look at pornography if your problem is about having too much sexual thoughts. Believe that everyone has a pervert phase. Yours is just... at creepy adult phrase. No insults are being thrown (as I'm going off your track record on this website via threads and shout out box) but are you a virgin? When's your last relationship? Do you get jealous when you see a good looking girl in a relationship making thoughts of her getting f***ed willfully? Do you only get perverted to girls out of your league or all girls? Did you ever have a chance to grow up? Did you live in a sexual environment?



Arkadom	Apr 10 2015, 04:25 AM Post #3
Bargle nawdle zouss Posts: 3,774 Group: Member Member #5,620 Joined: January 12, 2011 Gender Male Country United Kingdom Favourite Anime Dragon Ball, Naruto, Shaman King What Browser do you use? Google Chrome Favourite Manga Shaman King, Naruto, Blue Exorcist, Bleach, Pokemon Adventures	People have tendencies. Some are more in touch with their primate origins, some more modern and academically focused. There's really nothing wrong with you, it's just that you carry the same kind of urge as our population would have in the past: reproduce. There's nothing at all wrong with working in an "older model" so to speak, it simply means that you're more inclined to produce offspring, whether you actually consciously want children or not. Just because you are driven to have children doesn't necessarily mean you are compelled to be a father. Likewise more academically and politically driven minds are just built more towards creating the civilization that the following generations are meant to live in, as opposed to creating the generation itself. Obviously, it throws a spanner in the works because different cultures and viewpoints want to create different things. If anything you're lucky, you wound up with the more passive role. It's definitely good that you have the necessary self control, so I think you just need to eventually fulfil those needs the proper way in a stable environment. As for why you can get very flirtatious or sexually active gay couples, people are people, the same urges are present, just directed in different ways, there's nothing wrong with being homosexual, it's not "broken" it's just directed towards the same sex, which makes reproduction impossible. It's not to remove genes, but if anything to slow down the growth of population and allow for more worldwide progress. This is why the stereotypes of overjoyed gay and miserable lesbian came to exist. The kind of urges you have are largely beneficial for both sexes, but for males it's more to "do the deed" (basically, once you're finished for the moment your body still believes it's done it's job, you feel successful, and you feel more pleased with yourself, the stereotypical attitude people often associate with gay culture.) For females however, the urge is there so they actually have the children, if they don't get pregnant or have a child, they don't feel the same success and satisfaction, the idea of what their body tells them to do is technically failing, so they would be discouraged. This is why typically women seem to want children more than men, and you can see why this would be a problem in a same sex relationship, therefore creating the other stereotype. So no, there is nothing at all wrong with you and you are just more instinctual than academic, as in your body drives you more to follow basic urges than to pursue more society based ones. Any society based urges you would get would likely turn out to be something that would increase your chances of mating. You're fine, don't worry about it, worry about me, I'm some weird creation stuck in the middle, I serve neither purpose and just mediate between the two, I hang out with the doctors and therapists in this little area of human activity.
	In these eyes of mine Spoiler: click to toggle Epic for Copy_Ninja


Hurry My Curry	Apr 10 2015, 08:10 AM Post #4
Master Troll Posts: 3,800 Group: Members Member #7,981 Joined: July 20, 2012 Favourite Anime Dragon Ball What Browser do you use? Firefox Favourite Manga Dragon Ball	I think it's fair to say that pretty much everyone has their own weird fetish or sexual desires. The difference between you and I in that regard is that you are far more open about yours. It's what I like to call your filter. Everyone has a filter in their head that stops them from saying what they are thinking, doing what they really want to do. When you get drunk or you get stoned, your filter is gone. You just do and say whatever your thinking. your scenario about wanting to see the woman's skirt go up is a perfect example of a malfunctioning filter. Most guys in that situation would probably see if they can get a peek, but if they cant, they move on, end of story. The filter stops them from really trying to get a glimpse. Based off my filter thoughts, there's nothing wrong with you. When I get stoned, my filter is gone too. I'm not sure if this really made any sense lol, I'm slumped right now. Edited by Hurry My Curry, Apr 10 2015, 08:12 AM.
	Miles for mod


Darker	Apr 10 2015, 01:30 PM Post #5
The Lord of the Dark Posts: 15,358 Group: Member Member #11,968 Joined: January 7, 2015 Gender Male Country Spain	Welcome to the creepy pervs club. I feel ya, bro. There's nothing wrong with you, it's the way you are, and you have to appreciate it, because if you don't, who will?
	Piccolo: Just how many people have you sacrificed?! Cell: Sacrifice? Hmph, rubbish! On the contrary, it is an honor to become a fraction of my power.


* Mitas	Apr 10 2015, 04:03 PM Post #6
It truly was a Shawshank redemption Posts: 12,129 Group: Retired Staff Member #2,993 Joined: December 16, 2007 Gender Male Favourite Anime DBZ What Browser do you use? Google Chrome Favourite Manga DBZ, Full Metal Alchemist	You might be a little 'creepier' or 'perverted' (to use your own words) than the average man, but not by much. Many of the examples you gave could be applied to any number of males, regardless of age. I agree with what Curry said about a bit of a lack of filtering when it comes to expressing these thoughts. That makes it seem like you're the only one, but really you're just the only one saying it. Quote: I haven't changed much in these regards. I have much better self control and awareness now of course. You won't catch me begging women in the street to do handstands for me. But the thoughts and desires still remain. This is normal. Of course the desires will stay with you, sexual desires are part of your genetic make-up, but the more you mature the more you realise that "hey, it's probably not appropriate to say/do this". It sounds like you've developed that common sense, but that it's harder for you to implement than most, which is probably linked to the social interaction issues you face. This makes it seem like your thoughts are so much worse than others. Like I said, they're probably a little stronger than average, but not enough that I would call it a problem. It's less to do with the strength of your thoughts and more to do with the underdeveloped filter. I do think that a lack of intimacy in your life does factor into things here. If you had a long-term relationship, your sexual thoughts and needs would likely diminish in intensity because you would have an outlet for them. Humans have a need for intimacy, and when that goes unfulfilled, our body has to find another outlet for it. That outlet is usually the imagination. The problem arises when imagination turns into a reality of sexually harassing women, or worse. As long as these thoughts are no more than thoughts, then I wouldn't beat yourself up too much about it.
	"Then you've got the chance to do better next time." "Next time?" "Course. Doing better next time. That's what life is."


cone	Apr 11 2015, 09:26 AM Post #7
Posts: 119 Group: Member Member #12,103 Joined: March 3, 2015 Gender Male Country United States Favourite Anime dragon ball z What Browser do you use? firefox Favourite Manga naruto	i think its hot for a girl to be able to fight, not many want to spar in the bedroom though



olliebalollie	Apr 15 2015, 02:43 AM Post #8
Posts: 708 Group: Member Member #11,278 Joined: April 30, 2014 Gender Male Country Australia Favourite Anime Dragon Ball Kai What Browser do you use? Firefox & Google Chrome Favourite Manga Dragon Ball	Pelador Apr 10 2015, 03:17 AM I can't remember if I've made a thread like this before so I'm sorry if I'm treading over old ground. Basically I've been a creepy pervert since as long as I can remember. I can recall watching cartoons as a child and wanting the female characters to undress. At primary school I used to beg the girls to show me their underwear and do handstands if they wore skirts. It seems innocuous and innocent because I was just a child being curious. But I used to get proper turned on by things. Things I won't reveal to save my embarrassment. I haven't changed much in these regards. I have much better self control and awareness now of course. You won't catch me begging women in the street to do handstands for me. But the thoughts and desires still remain. Sometimes I let myself down too. On holiday last year I found myself following behind this girl because she had a small flappy skirt on and it was breezy. That was a terrible thing to do of course. Something inside compelled me to find out what kind of underwear she had on. I was single minded about it. Almost like a man possessed. That's what happens to me. I can think of nothing else. I become intent on finding out these things. Why am I like this? Do I have some sort of condition? You might think, well you just need a girlfriend. I'm not so sure. I've had the same problem all my life. You can't tell me I needed a girlfriend at aged five. Obsessive personality mixed with perverse curiosities with little or no desire for actual sexual intercourse. That's basically me. Truthfully, the first time I remember debating with you, I thought you were a troll You made a thread asking advice because you had a date, me and some guys gave you advice, but you seem to ignore it and make excuses and went on about something else. But later, I thought you were ok. Besides that, I never really notice anything weird or creepy Edited by olliebalollie, Apr 15 2015, 04:42 AM.



peep	Apr 15 2015, 04:38 AM Post #9
Posts: 1,104 Group: Member Member #9,326 Joined: April 7, 2013 Favourite Anime Cowboy Bebop, Rurouni Kenshin What Browser do you use? Chrome	embrace it, dont fight it
	thx accelerator for the sig it is my first sig ever and i love it and i love u


olliebalollie	Apr 15 2015, 10:40 PM Post #10
Posts: 708 Group: Member Member #11,278 Joined: April 30, 2014 Gender Male Country Australia Favourite Anime Dragon Ball Kai What Browser do you use? Firefox & Google Chrome Favourite Manga Dragon Ball	I'm obsessed with women's feet. I'm like Eddie Murphy in the movie with Halle Berry and Robin Givens.



Buuberries	Apr 15 2015, 10:48 PM Post #11
No Posts: 7,150 Group: Members Member #8,753 Joined: December 30, 2012 Gender Not Specified Country None Favourite Anime The Passion of Christ What Browser do you use? Christianity Favourite Manga The Bible	i have an eyebrow fetish
	¯\(°_o)/¯


olliebalollie	Apr 15 2015, 10:54 PM Post #12
Posts: 708 Group: Member Member #11,278 Joined: April 30, 2014 Gender Male Country Australia Favourite Anime Dragon Ball Kai What Browser do you use? Firefox & Google Chrome Favourite Manga Dragon Ball	Buuberries Apr 15 2015, 10:48 PM i have an eyebrow fetish Like thin eyebrows turn you on? Are you being serious or are you just making fun of my post?



sekzee	Apr 15 2015, 10:58 PM Post #13
Posts: 1,336 Group: Member Member #11,101 Joined: March 25, 2014 Gender Not Specified What Browser do you use? Firefaux Favourite Manga Nein	Roshi, is that you? Seriously, take it from me (I'm a marriage and sex counselor): Everyone is a pervert. EVERYONE. Society has been forced to suppress such expressions, but EVERYONE is a filthy, thirsty animal.



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