Sad story about a interracial relationship

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Sad story about a interracial relationship
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+ QueenTD	Apr 7 2015, 06:32 PM Post #16
My Dear Melancholy, Posts: 4,480 Group: Elite Member Member #11,589 Joined: August 8, 2014 Gender Female Country United States	Wait..the white girl was racists because she didn't want to date an Indian guy? Are you sure he just didn't misunderstand?
	Spoiler: click to toggle GinyuTokusentai You seem nice. Kinda innocent, just a sweet girl Emmeth It seems like you really care about people and you're always polite and worried you'll offend anyone. It's cute. My Step Son peep love u xoxo


+ Pointer	Apr 7 2015, 06:33 PM Post #17
... Posts: 7,062 Group: Elite Member Member #8,812 Joined: January 5, 2013 Gender Male	Or maybe he was not her type, you know



+ QueenTD	Apr 7 2015, 06:45 PM Post #18
My Dear Melancholy, Posts: 4,480 Group: Elite Member Member #11,589 Joined: August 8, 2014 Gender Female Country United States	Porcukor Apr 7 2015, 06:33 PM Or maybe he was not her type, you know Probably all the above as a huge misunderstanding. 1. She doesn't like Indians - Not her type 2. He's not her type personality wise 3. She like blacks - She has a wheelchair 4. She prefer her own race - Go white you up all night Funny how a misunderstanding can be blown out of proportion. About the topic. I don't know what to say honestly . I'm great at relationship advice but this case it's weird( no offense)
	Spoiler: click to toggle GinyuTokusentai You seem nice. Kinda innocent, just a sweet girl Emmeth It seems like you really care about people and you're always polite and worried you'll offend anyone. It's cute. My Step Son peep love u xoxo


Common2	Apr 9 2015, 04:15 AM Post #19
Posts: 171 Group: Member Member #11,263 Joined: April 25, 2014 Gender Male Country United States	The Queen TD Apr 3 2015, 02:20 PM I'm not entirely sure but in India don't they have arrange marriages and more 1 wife? Arranged marriages are fast dying in India. And no, it is not an Indian tradition to have more than one wife. Muslim, maybe, and even that's barely true.



Zoom	Apr 9 2015, 06:26 AM Post #20
Posts: 3,426 Group: Member Member #12,146 Joined: March 16, 2015 Gender Male	Common2 Apr 9 2015, 04:15 AM The Queen TD Apr 3 2015, 02:20 PM I'm not entirely sure but in India don't they have arrange marriages and more 1 wife? Arranged marriages are fast dying in India. And no, it is not an Indian tradition to have more than one wife. Muslim, maybe, and even that's barely true. Muslim is a religion, not a culture. The problem isn't indian culture having arrange marriage, the problem is my sisters ex and his parents arranged to get married with another indian girl while he was dating a white girl which is my sister, i know this because my sister and him were dating for 4 years until now. But his parents arranged the marriage with the indian girl a couple of years before that because she's indian and they come from a good family with respect. I think its racists because in front of white people faces, they go on talking about they should be treated equally and anyone should be able to date any race, but they secretly plan on marrying a indian girl behind the scenes.



Common2	Apr 9 2015, 07:30 PM Post #21
Posts: 171 Group: Member Member #11,263 Joined: April 25, 2014 Gender Male Country United States	hellobooboo Apr 9 2015, 06:26 AM Common2 Apr 9 2015, 04:15 AM The Queen TD Apr 3 2015, 02:20 PM I'm not entirely sure but in India don't they have arrange marriages and more 1 wife? Arranged marriages are fast dying in India. And no, it is not an Indian tradition to have more than one wife. Muslim, maybe, and even that's barely true. Muslim is a religion, not a culture. The problem isn't indian culture having arrange marriage, the problem is my sisters ex and his parents arranged to get married with another indian girl while he was dating a white girl which is my sister, i know this because my sister and him were dating for 4 years until now. But his parents arranged the marriage with the indian girl a couple of years before that because she's indian and they come from a good family with respect. I think its racists because in front of white people faces, they go on talking about they should be treated equally and anyone should be able to date any race, but they secretly plan on marrying a indian girl behind the scenes. I never said Islam is a culture (it's not; it's a religion, as you said), but I don't see how the distinction between religion and culture matters here since a tradition can possibly be either religion-specific or culture-specific. In this case, marriage to multiple (I think up to four) wives is technically permitted by the religion of Islam, though I doubt that most Muslims actually practice this. I need more context to decide whether the Indian dude is at fault here (though he's certainly not being racist), since it's entirely possible that his parents arranged this engagement without his consent. I could see this guy just ignoring this fact that and dating whomever he wants, with no intention of actually marrying the person his parents chose. Also guys it's "racist", not "racists"...



+ Havoc_Wreaker	Apr 9 2015, 11:38 PM Post #22
Popcorn Posts: 9,904 Group: Elite Member Member #5,870 Joined: March 19, 2011 Gender Other Country Canada	Okay for starters it depends where you live as an Indian Some follow the caste system some don't care too much I'm a Canadian born Indian, my parents prefer I marry someone Indian But it's not the end of the world if i don't, whereas in India the caste system is more closely followed that you should be marrying in the caste And ofc indian. Also only one wife just one, no polygamy wrong country and religion. Also arrange marriage also depends where you are I can't stress his enough like all things Indian lately, for the most part arrange marriage isn't as big a lot of people choose there spouse there And here. And I think people are getting the wrong idea of arrange marriage, it's not your parents say you have to marry one person and that's final that rarely happens anymore unless your really poor and living in india It's more there are a bunch of marriage offers/opportunities You go and meet the family and girl if you like them/her then they can marry but if it doesn't work out for w/e reason then you don't have to marry As for the example in OP not nearly enough info given to respond Edited by Havoc_Wreaker, Apr 9 2015, 11:38 PM.



Zoom	Apr 16 2015, 08:49 AM Post #23
Posts: 3,426 Group: Member Member #12,146 Joined: March 16, 2015 Gender Male	Why do indian parents arrange marriage in todays age? http://www.cbsnews.com/news/for-love-of-money/



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