Cheating in a relationship (& cheaters)

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Cheating in a relationship (& cheaters)
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~~Doggo Champion 2k17~~	Apr 5 2015, 02:50 AM Post #106
Posts: 7,931 Group: GTFO Member #6,380 Joined: June 20, 2011 Country United States Favourite Anime here comes What Browser do you use? o shit waddup! Favourite Manga dat boi	The Queen TD Apr 5 2015, 02:40 AM Don't wanna be that girl..so hopefully I don't bring out emotions in a negative matter. I only had 1 real relationship. Going great! I always wonder how it feels to be cheated on(I've seen people reaction) and how it feels to cheat (I don't wanna cheat. But I've seen others cheat.). How does it feels? I've cheated and been cheated on. Both feel horrible, but being completely blindsided, cheated on, and left for another woman is the worst.



SSJ	Apr 5 2015, 05:07 AM Post #107
Posts: 16,377 Group: General Member #8,258 Joined: September 8, 2012 Gender Female Country Sweden Favourite Anime Psycho Pass, Steins;Gate, Fullmetal Alchemist: Brotherhood Favourite Manga One Piece, Berserk, Rurouni Kenshin, Gantz	Cheating is for the weak.



Master Gohan	Apr 5 2015, 06:55 AM Post #108
Posts: 2,178 Group: New York Yankee Member #9,780 Joined: July 21, 2013 Gender Male Country United States Favourite Anime KIll la Kill, No Game No Life, Code Geass, Gosick, Log Horizon, Steins;Gate	ObsessiveFanGirl Apr 4 2015, 09:24 PM Master Gohan Apr 4 2015, 07:10 AM You can't cheat in an open relationship, that type of relationship doesn't belong in this discussion. That's the very definition of being in an open relation, that you can be with other partners other than the "main" one. Calling it a type of cheating is just poor taste towards people in an open relationship. That's not true at all. Usually, an open relationship involves rules. If you break said rules, you're cheating. That's already been talked about in this thread I think. You're fishing too hard to make me wrong. Did you want me to outline every possible scenario for an open relationship? Let's be real here.



~~Doggo Champion 2k17~~	Apr 5 2015, 02:38 PM Post #109
Posts: 7,931 Group: GTFO Member #6,380 Joined: June 20, 2011 Country United States Favourite Anime here comes What Browser do you use? o shit waddup! Favourite Manga dat boi	Master Gohan Apr 5 2015, 06:55 AM ObsessiveFanGirl Apr 4 2015, 09:24 PM Master Gohan Apr 4 2015, 07:10 AM You can't cheat in an open relationship, that type of relationship doesn't belong in this discussion. That's the very definition of being in an open relation, that you can be with other partners other than the "main" one. Calling it a type of cheating is just poor taste towards people in an open relationship. That's not true at all. Usually, an open relationship involves rules. If you break said rules, you're cheating. That's already been talked about in this thread I think. You're fishing too hard to make me wrong. Did you want me to outline every possible scenario for an open relationship? Let's be real here. Most open relationships have sets of rules, so I'm not fishing for anything here. Some open relationships only permit kissing, some only permit sex with a specific person one time (any times after that and it's cheating). There is very rarely an open relationship where cheating isn't possible. Edited by Doggo Champion 2k17, Apr 5 2015, 02:39 PM.



+ Clearin	Apr 5 2015, 02:41 PM Post #110
Posts: 12,580 Group: Elite Member Member #6,372 Joined: June 18, 2011 Gender Not Specified Country United Kingdom	I probably value loyalty over any other trait, so cheating is pretty disgusting to me. I'd sure as hell never do it in any circumstance and it's one of the worst things someone could do to me.



+ Pyrus	Apr 5 2015, 11:30 PM Post #111
Posts: 39,342 Group: Legend Member #5,088 Joined: August 1, 2010 Gender Not Specified Country Chile	SuperSaiyan2 Apr 5 2015, 05:07 AM Cheating is for the weak. It actually makes you stronger to cheat on someone if that person is treating you like crap, not weaker. Kind of like "hah, you treat me bad and I'm gonna screw other people instead of leaving you!", you know?
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+ Steve	Apr 6 2015, 12:02 AM Post #112
Greetings. I will be your waifu this season. Posts: 19,471 Group: Legend Member #5,710 Joined: February 7, 2011 Gender Male Country United Kingdom Favourite Anime Hunter x Hunter(2011) What Browser do you use? Mozilla Firefox Favourite Manga Berserk all day erry day	Buuberries Apr 5 2015, 02:48 AM i havent been cheated on but the first girl i ever got close to when i was 16 used to tell me she loved me for months and s* and then out of nowhere she told me she had sex with another guy when we were talking over the phone one morning. that was pretty weird for me. mostly confusing because i knew we werent together, but still found it frustrating that she told me all those things anyway and did that I had that too with two girls(at different times) I was never sure if they were just stringing me along as some kind of nice guy backup boyfriend or if they didn't have a clue wtf the word love means. Always had every intention to only get with someone I'd be willing to marry, not sure if they didn't believe me or what ah teenagers/immature people. Wouldn't say cheating really makes anyone stronger, it's not necessarily always a bad thing but it is a moment of weakness. By not always bad I mean not always for spiteful purposes. True strength would just be saying "f* you" and leaving the person's life, possibly for good. Though that's not always something a person can do try leave some people you'll probably get tied up in a basement
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Bluesummers	Apr 6 2015, 12:37 AM Post #113
Posts: 174 Group: Duplicate Member #7,500 Joined: April 2, 2012 Gender Male Country Canada Favourite Anime Inuyasha, Trigun, DBZ What Browser do you use? Chrome	When people cheat, it's usually because they either have commitment-phobia or their relationship isn't going well (they may no longer be in love). Deep down, I think almost everyone wants a committed relationship. The problem is, not everyone is able to commit, even if they are in love.



SSJ	Apr 6 2015, 02:12 AM Post #114
Posts: 16,377 Group: General Member #8,258 Joined: September 8, 2012 Gender Female Country Sweden Favourite Anime Psycho Pass, Steins;Gate, Fullmetal Alchemist: Brotherhood Favourite Manga One Piece, Berserk, Rurouni Kenshin, Gantz	Pyrus Apr 5 2015, 11:30 PM SuperSaiyan2 Apr 5 2015, 05:07 AM Cheating is for the weak. It actually makes you stronger to cheat on someone if that person is treating you like crap, not weaker. Kind of like "hah, you treat me bad and I'm gonna screw other people instead of leaving you!", you know? Sounds immature to me. Just end the relationship.



~~Doggo Champion 2k17~~	Apr 6 2015, 04:57 AM Post #115
Posts: 7,931 Group: GTFO Member #6,380 Joined: June 20, 2011 Country United States Favourite Anime here comes What Browser do you use? o shit waddup! Favourite Manga dat boi	SuperSaiyan2 Apr 6 2015, 02:12 AM Pyrus Apr 5 2015, 11:30 PM SuperSaiyan2 Apr 5 2015, 05:07 AM Cheating is for the weak. It actually makes you stronger to cheat on someone if that person is treating you like crap, not weaker. Kind of like "hah, you treat me bad and I'm gonna screw other people instead of leaving you!", you know? Sounds immature to me. Just end the relationship. That's easier said than done when you're being abused and manipulated.



SSJ	Apr 6 2015, 05:09 AM Post #116
Posts: 16,377 Group: General Member #8,258 Joined: September 8, 2012 Gender Female Country Sweden Favourite Anime Psycho Pass, Steins;Gate, Fullmetal Alchemist: Brotherhood Favourite Manga One Piece, Berserk, Rurouni Kenshin, Gantz	If I was being abused and manipulated then I surely wouldn't tolerate it. I would recognize that the relationship was not healthy and end it, but that's just me.



~~Doggo Champion 2k17~~	Apr 6 2015, 05:12 AM Post #117
Posts: 7,931 Group: GTFO Member #6,380 Joined: June 20, 2011 Country United States Favourite Anime here comes What Browser do you use? o shit waddup! Favourite Manga dat boi	Again... Easier said than done. And every relationship is different. But yeah, I get what you mean.



+ Clearin	Apr 6 2015, 12:48 PM Post #118
Posts: 12,580 Group: Elite Member Member #6,372 Joined: June 18, 2011 Gender Not Specified Country United Kingdom	ObsessiveFanGirl Apr 6 2015, 04:57 AM SuperSaiyan2 Apr 6 2015, 02:12 AM Pyrus Apr 5 2015, 11:30 PM SuperSaiyan2 Apr 5 2015, 05:07 AM Cheating is for the weak. It actually makes you stronger to cheat on someone if that person is treating you like crap, not weaker. Kind of like "hah, you treat me bad and I'm gonna screw other people instead of leaving you!", you know? Sounds immature to me. Just end the relationship. That's easier said than done when you're being abused and manipulated. Genuine question since I've never been in that position, but what makes it difficult? My biggest guess would be fear, but I'm pretty sure you'd piss them off more by cheating than ending the relationship.



~~Doggo Champion 2k17~~	Apr 6 2015, 01:21 PM Post #119
Posts: 7,931 Group: GTFO Member #6,380 Joined: June 20, 2011 Country United States Favourite Anime here comes What Browser do you use? o shit waddup! Favourite Manga dat boi	I don't have access to the emotions of everyone who is put in that situation, but I can explain it a bit from my own perspective. She would make me feel like a worthless outcast by ostracizing me from my family and friends to the point where I fully relied on her for everything. I don't know how she did it. She was an expert liar and manipulator; she made me fear being alone since I had to push everyone else away. When I would cheat on her, it wasn't necessarily to get back at her. I didn't want to hurt her at the time, I just honestly didn't know what I was supposed to be doing. I was depressed, confused, lonelier than I ever had been, and completely overwhelmed. She would take me back every time, only after she berated me and told me how stupid and lovely ladyty I was, and I would go back to her because she made me actually feel like a stupid lovely lady, that no one else would ever love me because I was incapable of being happy. It was extremely messed up. That only touches the surface of it. I probably shouldn't go into too much detail in this thread anyway.



Return Of Imjustsaiyanbro	Apr 6 2015, 02:21 PM Post #120
Elder Posts: 1,080 Group: Member Member #9,167 Joined: March 11, 2013 Gender Not Specified Favourite Anime DBZ What Browser do you use? Chrome Favourite Manga DB	Terrible thing to do, unless i'm doing it. Then they should understand
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