Cheating in a relationship (& cheaters)

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Cheating in a relationship (& cheaters)
Tweet Topic Started: Apr 1 2015, 12:49 AM (6,339 Views)
Buuberries	Apr 5 2015, 12:42 AM Post #91
No Posts: 7,150 Group: Members Member #8,753 Joined: December 30, 2012 Gender Not Specified Country None Favourite Anime The Passion of Christ What Browser do you use? Christianity Favourite Manga The Bible	is it cheating if my grandma kisses me on the cheek
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lucrowe	Apr 5 2015, 12:43 AM Post #92
Posts: 1,149 Group: Member Member #11,578 Joined: August 5, 2014 Gender Male Favourite Anime Gantz What Browser do you use? Chrome Favourite Manga Not much of a fan..	The Queen TD Apr 5 2015, 12:38 AM Is it cheating if a guy sleeps with another guy O_O. I'd say so. If I slept with a bloke (bloody unlikely) my misses would definitely break up with me under the grounds of cheating. I'd do the same if she slept with a woman.
	"I'm not in it for the money, I'm rapping to be relevant, Spittin' for the hell of it to get me in my element and stomp whack rappers like an elephant... I'm the celebrant delegate spittin' elegant benevolence" - Lucrowe MC. https://www.facebook.com/pages/Lucrowe-MC/661247567303948?ref=bookmarks Str8 Outta Namek, A Crazy Mutha Fka Named Lucrowe


Buuberries	Apr 5 2015, 12:46 AM Post #93
No Posts: 7,150 Group: Members Member #8,753 Joined: December 30, 2012 Gender Not Specified Country None Favourite Anime The Passion of Christ What Browser do you use? Christianity Favourite Manga The Bible	oh i thought she meant sleeping as in zzzzzzz
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+ QueenTD	Apr 5 2015, 12:47 AM Post #94
My Dear Melancholy, Posts: 4,480 Group: Elite Member Member #11,589 Joined: August 8, 2014 Gender Female Country United States	lucrowe Apr 5 2015, 12:43 AM The Queen TD Apr 5 2015, 12:38 AM Is it cheating if a guy sleeps with another guy O_O. I'd say so. If I slept with a bloke (bloody unlikely) my misses would definitely break up with me under the grounds of cheating. I'd do the same if she slept with a woman. Not sex....I meant "ZZZZZZZZZZ"
	Spoiler: click to toggle GinyuTokusentai You seem nice. Kinda innocent, just a sweet girl Emmeth It seems like you really care about people and you're always polite and worried you'll offend anyone. It's cute. My Step Son peep love u xoxo


~~Doggo Champion 2k17~~	Apr 5 2015, 12:50 AM Post #95
Posts: 7,931 Group: GTFO Member #6,380 Joined: June 20, 2011 Country United States Favourite Anime here comes What Browser do you use? o shit waddup! Favourite Manga dat boi	Of course not. Sleeping with another dude is just guy stuff. Sleeping with another girl is complete sexual deviancy. I hate to bring it up again, but if my girlfriend prohibits me from sleeping in the same bed with a platonic female friend I've known for years, there's going to be a problem.



lucrowe	Apr 5 2015, 12:50 AM Post #96
Posts: 1,149 Group: Member Member #11,578 Joined: August 5, 2014 Gender Male Favourite Anime Gantz What Browser do you use? Chrome Favourite Manga Not much of a fan..	LOL! So much sex has been mentioned in this thread, i just assumed.. in that case, nahhhhhhhhhh he'll be right
	"I'm not in it for the money, I'm rapping to be relevant, Spittin' for the hell of it to get me in my element and stomp whack rappers like an elephant... I'm the celebrant delegate spittin' elegant benevolence" - Lucrowe MC. https://www.facebook.com/pages/Lucrowe-MC/661247567303948?ref=bookmarks Str8 Outta Namek, A Crazy Mutha Fka Named Lucrowe


Sky	Apr 5 2015, 01:03 AM Post #97
One Special Nerd Posts: 1,703 Group: Member Member #8,754 Joined: December 30, 2012 Gender Female	If anything sexual happens between two people in bed, same gender or not, I'd think of it as cheating.
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~~Doggo Champion 2k17~~	Apr 5 2015, 01:34 AM Post #98
Posts: 7,931 Group: GTFO Member #6,380 Joined: June 20, 2011 Country United States Favourite Anime here comes What Browser do you use? o shit waddup! Favourite Manga dat boi	Sky Apr 5 2015, 01:03 AM If anything sexual happens between two people in bed, same gender or not, I'd think of it as cheating. And you should. Gender doesn't matter at all.



Jet	Apr 5 2015, 01:45 AM Post #99
Ruka is a dude Posts: 443 Group: Member Member #9,382 Joined: April 16, 2013 Gender Male Country New Zealand Favourite Anime LOGH, Berserk, Monster, Steins;Gate, Cowboy Bebop, FLCL, GITS, Studio Ghibli's stuff. What Browser do you use? Internet Explorer (message sent from 2005) Favourite Manga Berserk, Dragon Ball, Vagabond	Krystal Apr 5 2015, 12:29 AM Jet Apr 2 2015, 12:16 AM ObsessiveFanGirl Apr 1 2015, 11:49 PM Yep, sure. Everyone has a different idea of what "cheating" is. My ex would claim that I was cheating on her when I slept in the same bed with my female high school best friend. I thought that was completely stupid, but hey, whatever. ObsessiveFanGirl Apr 1 2015, 04:38 AM I got drunk a lot, kissed other people. Looking back on it, I don't really regret it. Well you did actually cheat on her during your relationship together, so you can't exactly blame her. The fact that you thought that it was appropriate to sleep in the same bed as another girl probably says more about you than your girlfriend and her pretty normal definition of cheating. But would it be cheating if she slept with a guy to you? I don't think it's as simple as that. It could just be a history a traveling, but if the relationship is STRICTLY platonic, as in you have no feelings for them, they have no feelings for you, sleeping in a bed together is not a romantic act. Bed > Floor. Look all I can say is that if I found out my girlfriend had slept in the same bed as another guy, there'd be a small part of me that would consider that a betrayal. My girlfriend said something to that effect as well when we discussed this a while back. It's a grey area, but to me personally - it's inappropriate. If you feel differently, fine. There's one problem with the whole platonic relationship thing. How often do you really know what other people are thinking? Thinking back to all of the female friends that I had, there was quite a big portion of them that to some degree I was attracted to. I was fine with just a friendship at the time for whatever reason (had a girlfriend, they had a boyfriend, other more preferable options etc).



~~Doggo Champion 2k17~~	Apr 5 2015, 01:52 AM Post #100
Posts: 7,931 Group: GTFO Member #6,380 Joined: June 20, 2011 Country United States Favourite Anime here comes What Browser do you use? o shit waddup! Favourite Manga dat boi	Jet Apr 5 2015, 01:45 AM Krystal Apr 5 2015, 12:29 AM Jet Apr 2 2015, 12:16 AM ObsessiveFanGirl Apr 1 2015, 11:49 PM Yep, sure. Everyone has a different idea of what "cheating" is. My ex would claim that I was cheating on her when I slept in the same bed with my female high school best friend. I thought that was completely stupid, but hey, whatever. ObsessiveFanGirl Apr 1 2015, 04:38 AM I got drunk a lot, kissed other people. Looking back on it, I don't really regret it. Well you did actually cheat on her during your relationship together, so you can't exactly blame her. The fact that you thought that it was appropriate to sleep in the same bed as another girl probably says more about you than your girlfriend and her pretty normal definition of cheating. But would it be cheating if she slept with a guy to you? I don't think it's as simple as that. It could just be a history a traveling, but if the relationship is STRICTLY platonic, as in you have no feelings for them, they have no feelings for you, sleeping in a bed together is not a romantic act. Bed > Floor. Look all I can say is that if I found out my girlfriend had slept in the same bed as another guy, there'd be a small part of me that would consider that a betrayal. My girlfriend said something to that effect as well when we discussed this a while back. It's a grey area, but to me personally - it's inappropriate. If you feel differently, fine. There's one problem with the whole platonic relationship thing. How often do you really know what other people are thinking? Thinking back to all of the female friends that I had, there was quite a big portion of them that to some degree I was attracted to. I was fine with just a friendship at the time for whatever reason (had a girlfriend, they had a boyfriend, other more preferable options etc). It depends on the person and the relationship. My girlfriend and I are completely open and honest with each other. She is the only girl I'm attracted to, so it isn't an issue for us. Besides, it's not like I go out of my way to sleep in the same bed as other people. I haven't in years. But say for example I went to visit an old friend and had no where else to sleep. A bed is better than the floor. Edited by Doggo Champion 2k17, Apr 5 2015, 01:58 AM.



+ QueenTD	Apr 5 2015, 02:11 AM Post #101
My Dear Melancholy, Posts: 4,480 Group: Elite Member Member #11,589 Joined: August 8, 2014 Gender Female Country United States	I'll sleep on the bed before floor. If it's boy I'll probably sleep in a guest room, couch, or w/ sister. But I don't have close male friends so that would not happen. If I had to share a bed I would have different blankets and sheets. I like to cuddle so I will have to cuddle a pillow. It's just not right. If my boyfriend has to stay over a girls house. Then I expect him to take the couch or sleep in bed but different blankets. Edited by QueenTD, Apr 5 2015, 02:12 AM.
	Spoiler: click to toggle GinyuTokusentai You seem nice. Kinda innocent, just a sweet girl Emmeth It seems like you really care about people and you're always polite and worried you'll offend anyone. It's cute. My Step Son peep love u xoxo


+ Steve	Apr 5 2015, 02:15 AM Post #102
Greetings. I will be your waifu this season. Posts: 19,471 Group: Legend Member #5,710 Joined: February 7, 2011 Gender Male Country United Kingdom Favourite Anime Hunter x Hunter(2011) What Browser do you use? Mozilla Firefox Favourite Manga Berserk all day erry day	Nagito Komaeda Apr 4 2015, 01:20 AM That's a very specific scenario you're putting forward; there are many different reasons why people cheat, what they're looking to achieve by doing it can be different for every case. No matter the scenario, if Person C has relations with a person that they know is in a relationship, they're in the wrong. It takes two to cheat. What would Person C do if they were confronted by the person who was cheated in? ''Sorry, they're the one who wanted to do it.'' By taking part in it, you're knowingly doing something that could potentially ruin a person's life. I'm not saying the C is always the good guy here but...how can they possibly be worse unless they deliberately manipulated the person in to cheating? The cheater is still betraying their supposed lover just for some sex or an emotional connection with the C and haven't bothered to discuss how they feel with their partner who if they're married to are supposed to be in love with. Person C has no reason to care their living life free and getting sex when they need it, they're not fooling a person in to thinking their significant other loves them and will do for years then ripping the curtain down to expose the ugly truth, they're merely a tool of the cheaters lust(besides manipulators) Why should they really not though? If a person is unhappy and is going to cheat turning them away will just lead them to someone else, eventually they will cheat it's going to happen be it someone going for it or them paying a prostitute. Maybe a little STD for the partner on the side too for extra damage. What would be worse finding out your partner cheated or that they spend months trying to seduce other people instead of just a one time fling and eventually succeeded?
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Rockman	Apr 5 2015, 02:22 AM Post #103
hoighty-toighty Posts: 11,070 Group: Guardian Member #48 Joined: December 17, 2004 Gender Male Country United States What Browser do you use? Firefox, when it isn't crashing.	Steve Apr 5 2015, 02:15 AM I'm not saying the C is always the good guy here but...how can they possibly be worse unless they deliberately manipulated the person in to cheating? In my case, he did. So getting her drunk off wine, because she loves wine, was his plan from the start too. He had been talking to her for months ahead of this event. Getting in good with her and both of them were talking bad about me behind my back. Specifically him. I had the logs to show it too, but I deleted them to get past the event.
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+ QueenTD	Apr 5 2015, 02:40 AM Post #104
My Dear Melancholy, Posts: 4,480 Group: Elite Member Member #11,589 Joined: August 8, 2014 Gender Female Country United States	Don't wanna be that girl..so hopefully I don't bring out emotions in a negative matter. I only had 1 real relationship. Going great! I always wonder how it feels to be cheated on(I've seen people reaction) and how it feels to cheat (I don't wanna cheat. But I've seen others cheat.). How does it feels?
	Spoiler: click to toggle GinyuTokusentai You seem nice. Kinda innocent, just a sweet girl Emmeth It seems like you really care about people and you're always polite and worried you'll offend anyone. It's cute. My Step Son peep love u xoxo


Buuberries	Apr 5 2015, 02:48 AM Post #105
No Posts: 7,150 Group: Members Member #8,753 Joined: December 30, 2012 Gender Not Specified Country None Favourite Anime The Passion of Christ What Browser do you use? Christianity Favourite Manga The Bible	my best friend got cheated on after being in a relationship for almost 8 years (17-24) -- they'd known each other since they were 3 years old. guy was in turmoil. i havent been cheated on but the first girl i ever got close to when i was 16 used to tell me she loved me for months and s* and then out of nowhere she told me she had sex with another guy when we were talking over the phone one morning. that was pretty weird for me. mostly confusing because i knew we werent together, but still found it frustrating that she told me all those things anyway and did that Edited by Buuberries**, Apr 5 2015, 02:54 AM.
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