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| + Steve | Apr 3 2015, 10:47 PM Post #76 |
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Disagree and disagree Some people are just insecure especially those cheated on before and it's a bad idea to f*** everyone 'cause you might try settle down with someone who won't do that "special" thing you like which will eat away with you if they can't satisfy you enough. Find someone who likes to sex as much as you and who's personality aligns with you, job done.
How? They're not the one that's supposed to be in a committed relationship... It's dickish of them to continue but the person who's supposed to be with someone else has deliberately sought out other means of sexual relief purely out of lust(discounting emotional abuse etc) The C has no reason to care they just want some sex and it's being offered to them. The cheater is betraying their significant other just for some sex. |
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| Arkadom | Apr 3 2015, 11:17 PM Post #77 |
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I always find that this subject comes down to individual couples, people have very different views on it. For instance, when I was in my mid to late teens and still in school, in the last 2 and a bit years where everyone was starting to get active, stuff like that was everywhere, I got cheated on by two different people, had some people attempting to lure me away from a current partner, or just had very flirtatious friends who didn't make a distinction and were happy to try and bed their friends just for fun. I personally have never done such a thing, I often find it hard to get involved with anyone in that kind of a sense, which is odd because I'm often told I'm very playful with everyone I talk to and have had some partners get angry at me because they think I'm flirting with other girls when in my eyes I'm just being friendly, I don't even get suggestive, I think it's just that some people are more sensitive and therefore take anyone getting any attention when your partner wants it all as something wrong, I honestly tend to try and avoid people like that because such possessiveness is unhealthy, especially in younger relationships. My own definition of cheating, however, is simply deception of a partner, whether it be lying to them about something, hiding information or keeping secrets they deserve to know, having relations with other people. They are all "cheating" your partner in a way, being unfair, thus I think they all count. What does not count in my eyes but has apparently counted to some people I've been with include : friendly hugs, spending time with friends in groups and not being on an eternal leash for your partner. My current partner has been with me a while and I believe that's because we have very similar views on such subjects and neither is overly possessive or paranoid about situations, we have trust, which is very important, in fact I'd argue it may be just as if not more important than love in a relationship, love really can't exist without trust and if there is no trust love will break, and yet if there is trust but no love, love can be built from those foundations. |
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| + QueenTD | Apr 4 2015, 12:00 AM Post #78 |
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I bold the ones I agree with. The rest are just.. a bit out there you know? Not everyone is sex craze Goken. Some treat sex as something special. They only want to..have intercourse with people they care about. You don't have to explore before a long term relationship. If both of you care for each other, why waste time exploring and risk growing apart. Just be together and be happy  . It's possible to think someone is cheating but they're not. Steve pretty much explained it. A lot of men act like they're cheating to purpose to their wife. You also made some..."out" there points in the entire post but I'll just point out your advice. |
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| + Steve | Apr 4 2015, 12:24 AM Post #79 |
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Yeah it's a really bad idea to reckon you "know" they're cheating on you and confront them about it. Even if they're not it's not like you can be all "whoops, sorry lol" you've just admitted you don't trust them, totally acceptable for them to just leave someone who doesn't even trust them not to cheat. Not that they outright should but you could hardly blame them, why should you stick around if you have to prove yourself. |
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| Arkadom | Apr 4 2015, 12:34 AM Post #80 |
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Simply the best way to approach relationships is like so: If you are looking for a partner, then be open to new ideas, don't define yourself by a "type" and assume you won't be happy with something else. Once you find someone you like, even if it's not what you're used to, invest in it, but invest steadily. Don't buy them a diamond the size of their fist in the first month, but just gradually build up, if you make it clear you are in it for the long run then your partner can decide if they want the same, and if they do, then bingo, you've got a very good chance because you both want the same thing and are likely both going to work hard for it. If you prefer to get around and just have fun, be considerate of who you try and get with, nobody wants to feel guilty and the person you feel guilty about probably would feel a thousand times worse than you if you wound up doing something wrong with someone incompatible. If you just want fun, find someone else who just wants the same, then move along to the next. Sure emotions sometimes come out of nowhere but typically, these are the respective ways it's best to approach finding or starting relationships of any kind. |
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| Sky | Apr 4 2015, 01:06 AM Post #81 |
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I had no backbone, all I did was tell him that was unacceptable and after that we didn't talk for quite a while. Now we're friends again though. It's been a few years. |
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| * Yu Narukami | Apr 4 2015, 01:20 AM Post #82 |
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That's a very specific scenario you're putting forward; there are many different reasons why people cheat, what they're looking to achieve by doing it can be different for every case. No matter the scenario, if Person C has relations with a person that they know is in a relationship, they're in the wrong. It takes two to cheat. What would Person C do if they were confronted by the person who was cheated in? ''Sorry, they're the one who wanted to do it.'' By taking part in it, you're knowingly doing something that could potentially ruin a person's life. |
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| POOHEAD189 | Apr 4 2015, 02:09 AM Post #83 |
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I was in a relationship with someone who was currently in a relationship for near 2 years. Those two years were the most fun I ever had because I had truly found the one for me. She thought the same, but as time went on she started to question on whether or not she should leave him. She left me instead. 4 months later he cheated on her (they're still together) and 9 months later we started talking again and found we liked one another, only for that to fade into both of us being confused. The past 2 years since our breakup has been the worst in my life (and ive had deppression and suicidal thought for most of my life already). I wish I had advice to give, but it's safe to say without my faith in God there /is/ no doubt I would have killed myself by now. Some people have sensative hearts. Its just so complicated there is no real answer. |
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| Buuberries | Apr 4 2015, 02:11 AM Post #84 |
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totes off topic, but hi poohead. i was wondering about you a couple weeks ago. good to see you <345 |
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| POOHEAD189 | Apr 4 2015, 02:19 AM Post #85 |
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Lmao. My PC broke on new years eve so ive been without. I'm on my xbox1 atm. *clears throat* But yeah, it's just a real complicated issue. Deep in my heart I think i still love her. |
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| Master Gohan | Apr 4 2015, 07:10 AM Post #86 |
 
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You can't cheat in an open relationship, that type of relationship doesn't belong in this discussion. That's the very definition of being in an open relation, that you can be with other partners other than the "main" one. Calling it a type of cheating is just poor taste towards people in an open relationship. |
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That's not true at all. Usually, an open relationship involves rules. If you break said rules, you're cheating. That's already been talked about in this thread I think. |
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| Krystal | Apr 5 2015, 12:29 AM Post #88 |
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But would it be cheating if she slept with a guy to you? I don't think it's as simple as that. It could just be a history a traveling, but if the relationship is STRICTLY platonic, as in you have no feelings for them, they have no feelings for you, sleeping in a bed together is not a romantic act. Bed > Floor. |
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| Krystal | Apr 5 2015, 12:35 AM Post #89 |
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It posted twice :/
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| + QueenTD | Apr 5 2015, 12:38 AM Post #90 |
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Is it cheating if a guy sleeps with another guy O_O. Edited by QueenTD, Apr 5 2015, 12:39 AM.
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