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| + QueenTD | Apr 3 2015, 02:48 PM Post #61 |
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Great point Steve! Curious on the subject too. Probably the heat of the moment or showing you're the tougher (wo)man. I know when my friend cheats the "Person C" always gets beat up but he didn't know nothing :(. I can maybe understand if person C was a friend or enemy. Idk..if someone been cheated on. I'm curious on your opinions on Person C. In my experience I guess I deserved being hated for being Person C. Since I was aware. I just went with the flow since I was younger and less..mature? |
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| Rockman | Apr 3 2015, 04:40 PM Post #62 |
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Person C in my case is the focus of any hatred I have. He is a professor at my old university and knows better. I could have destroyed his career for courting her. But i didn't. The worst he received was a letter thanking him for destroying something I would have regretted later anyway. |
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| Sky | Apr 3 2015, 06:02 PM Post #63 |
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Oh, and what I said earlier was not about an open relationship. I don't think I could go for one of those, to be honest. I could have been person C, but thankfully I followed through with what I thought was right and avoided him so that nothing could happen between us. |
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Apr 3 2015, 07:21 PM Post #64 |
 
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If I was cheated in my relationship I would feel a bit down but I wouldn't waste my time sulking on it.I would probably move on fast and look for other opportunities. But, I would still help the person who cheated me if they needed my help.And, most importantly,its always good to have many contacts,so that we can use those contacts in the future if we need assistance to achieve our goals. |
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| Sky | Apr 3 2015, 07:26 PM Post #65 |
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Quality over quantity. I wouldn't really say a cheater is someone reliable. |
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| * Sousen Ichimonji | Apr 3 2015, 07:32 PM Post #66 |
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Never been cheated on but I've been person C. At the time I had absolutely no qualms because the guy was a piece of s*** and because I was horny, but a couple years on I regret it, and would hate to be held in the same disdain I encouraged the girl to feel for her boyfriend. Pretty scummy way to go about making yourself happy. |
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| + Steve | Apr 3 2015, 07:57 PM Post #67 |
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I don't think person C really deserves any hate unless they sought out to manipulate the person in to doing sexual things with them just to spite their partner. Or if they were friends with the partner but otherwise, they're not the person who's betraying the partner. And the above is pretty inexcusable for an older cheater too because they should know better young people don't give too much of a damn. Through a lot of cheating shenanigans I've witnessed over the years I've seen so many boyfriends(always boyfriends really) violently defend their partner like the person "made" them cheat, somehow. "Oh he got me drunk, he's a bastard" even though being drunk just makes you do or say what you wanted to anyway. I think it's sad that the cheater can manipulate someone so in denial that their partner betrayed them, if you're going to cheat on them why stick around? |
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| * Stark | Apr 3 2015, 08:00 PM Post #68 |
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If "person C" is aware that the Cheater has a boyfriend and they're still willing to have sex or we then they're just as guilty as the Cheater himself lol. I hate cheaters. Can't stand them. Went as far as ****blocking a friend of mine who has a gf because he was about to kiss a girl who also has a bf. Slipped my hand between their mouths. Edited by Stark, Apr 3 2015, 08:05 PM.
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| + QueenTD | Apr 3 2015, 08:30 PM Post #69 |
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I remember being person C. Happened to me twice. First Time. I was just looking for someone to fool around with, not a serious relationship. I felt horrible as soon as I found out he had a girlfriend. I had no feelings towards him and I'm not a fan of cheating. I told the girl as soon as I found out. The second time. Was when after my current boyfriend and I broke up after an argument. Two weeks later he dates this other girl. But he spent most of his time with me cheating on her. I didn't feel bad though oddly enough. I wonder why. It broke her heart and she rightfully hates me. But I guess I wasn't person C more of she was Person B while I was little case b. She didn't deserve him. @ * Busterino. Wow Lol you really put your hand in between their lips. That's looking out...but they probably kissed after or before incident. If you catch someone cheating on their partner what do you do? I just stay outta it. Not worth the drama. |
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| * Stark | Apr 3 2015, 08:39 PM Post #70 |
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They probably did but all that went through my mind was, "not on my watch." If they kissed after that then, bad for them. They're probably gonna feel regret for it in a while. |
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| + QueenTD | Apr 3 2015, 08:49 PM Post #71 |
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Depends honestly. How old were they then and how old are they now? |
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| * Stark | Apr 3 2015, 08:52 PM Post #72 |
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He's 18, she's 17. Dunno about her but he would feel bad. He's tried many times already and it always ended up with him feeling like garbage. |
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| lucrowe | Apr 3 2015, 08:55 PM Post #73 |
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If person C has the understanding that the person he/she is engaging with has a significant other than person C is equally as bad. If there was no understanding it's excuseable, but for me it would still be hard not to want to kill him. Person C who ruined one of my previous relationships was a friend of my ex who knew exactly who I was. He always liked her, he'd try and flirt around with her but in my infinite arrogance I didn't see him as any kind of threat. One day I came to her place and went in her room, everything seemed normal ya know? She was just as casual as any other day. Giving me lots of hugs and kisses, i thought things were sweet. Then I went to put something in her bin and there it was... the used condom! Long story short she confessed to everything. Person C came to her house and they smoked some weed together, and one of his dirty flirty tricks worked and they had sex. I was absolutely crushed! It's bringing back some harsh memories just writing this out. I just remember crying, yelling at her, calling her every name under the sun, needless to say i didn't handle it well. I ran into person C a week or two after it happened, and I'm not sure if I'm proud of myself or ashamed, but I didn't fight him. I didn't even tell him how much his bulls*** obsession with wanting to f*** my girl ruined me. I just gave him daggers, he looked away like a little b***, and I just walked off... thinking back I would like to have beaten him senseless... I dunno.. Hindsights a b*** lol |
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| TheGmGoken | Apr 3 2015, 10:07 PM Post #74 |
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I just could not miss this thread. I got some real good s*** to say but before that. Let's see what we have here! Shall we begin. Some of y'all got some f***ed up relationships and lives. On real s***. I suggest one night stands rather a full blown relationship for some of you. Like s***. Busterino you're a f***ing badass. But I would let them kiss. Take a pic. Post it somewhere. Reaction would be GOAT. Do that next time. Hell join in if you're single. She's willing to cheat. Trust she's a freak in bed. Make a sandwich on her a***. She's already cheated.. Mind in while just go all out. OFG. You earnt my respect. f*** b***s like the girl you dated. Get a nice partner like your current one. Sky. He forced himself on you? Grab his nuts and squeeze as hard as possible. He'll regret it. If he likes it then run. He basically doing a crime but to a lower extent. I'm a firm believer of f*** relationships. Especially if you're young. I understand if you're 27 or older. But if younger I believe you should explore. Go wild. Now of you really like someone then thats different. Start a relationship. But a lot of people and quite frankly some of y'all were either expecting too much or the relationship standards was one sided. Sometimes you can have that one guy-girl you come to but can still go out and sex other people. Honestly if I didn't love my girl so much I wouldn't have relationships. I would just explore. f*** everything. Asians, whites, blavks, Hispanics, and even a "little person" if I could. Just see out my options. Some of them will want to get serious and think I'm cheating. But I wouldn't be too hurt by it. Now I've been cheated on and I have cheated. I cheated on this girl because she was just something to keep me happy since I was sad about something. I got cheated on by 3 differ girls. I was 14, 17, and 18(Within my first month of college. I hooked up with this girl. Just did a temporarily break up with my current girlfriend which I regret doing). AT 14 it hurt badly. First girlfriend. Cheated on me with a senior. I tried to approach him. Got my a*** beaten by him and his squad (8v1). Broke my nose. At 17 I had a fight with someone. Broke it off. A week later I got a girlfriend from a foriegn country. Next month. She sucks off the ENTRE baseball team(with video). I didn't care. Just shocked. Then the next month I got another girlfriend. But I cheated on her pretty much every day for about 3 months. I treated her badly but...you know. I was young. Thought I'll move on but didn't. Now onto original questions
1. Cheating is kissing, f***ing, holding hands, and sexting. I do not consider sending nudes cheating to a degree. 2. Cheaters are very much A-holes. Yes I'm an A-Hole for cheating. But I've grown pass that. Will hopefully...WTF.. I will never cheat on my girlfriend now. Cheaters are usually misunderstood or just horny clowns that will allow anyone to have sex with them. Literally anyone. They should not be in a relationship if they cant control their urges. In some cases it's deserved but mostly not. I can look at a girl and think. "Wow she's sexy. Wow I would do things to her" but they last 3 seconds because I have self control, I got my horny side out of my system in highschool and early college days, and I'm not some sex freak who would have sex with a dog if socially acceptable. 3. Yes on both ends. Feels better to cheat than to be cheated on. 4. At 14. Got beat up. 17. Didn't care. 18. Cuss her out. Broke it off. Apologize to my lover (hate saying that word). When I cheated. I got caught because she realize I was missing condoms and saw me making out with girlfriend at Lunch. Like I really didn't care for her. Harsh I know. But true. 5. Signs of cheating is lack of communication and hanging out with opposite sex. I don't believe you can hang out with an opposite sex and not at least kiss. Unless y'all like bros-sis(not by blood). Just impossible Imo. My advice: Only be in relationships that you see going somewhere Explore before having a committed long term relationship If you fall in love young. Try and keep it. Don't listen to "Highschool love don't last" or "young love don't last.". f*** them. It's possible. Differcult but it can work. I recommend temporarily break ups and staying in each other lives. Trust and believe you don't wanna lose someone you really care for and legit love. Have sex as much as possible before settling down. That way you get it out your system. If you THINK they're cheating then they are. You shouldn't not have to question it. Don't ask how many people he or she slept with. It's just sex. They're not lovely ladys. It's none of your business. If you're currently cheating. Don't talk to me. Connect with your partner in more ways than sex. Be sexually compatible with your partner. Awkward sex sucks. Edited by TheGmGoken, Apr 3 2015, 10:14 PM.
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| Rockman | Apr 3 2015, 10:16 PM Post #75 |
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You forgot: "Have some self control" I would advise it on you too. Especially if you don't plan on doing it again. |
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