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| Buuberries | Apr 1 2015, 10:27 PM Post #46 |
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Maybe it depends on w/e stipulations couples set for an open relationship? Like maybe they're open to their partner having some sort of a relationship with other people, but at the same time want to know who they're with and how far that relationship is going, etc. In that sense, I guess it could be cheating if one does something behind the other's back. I'm just being presumptuous so whatevs |
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| + Steve | Apr 1 2015, 10:28 PM Post #47 |
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I guess there'd be rules to it? If I was in one I wouldn't want my girl coming home full of 10 guys semen for one thing. When you need it, get it and remember what we have. I would feel cheated if she slept with an unreasonable amount of dudes and didn't come home for days to be with them so definitely possible. "Do whatever you want with anything or anyone" doesn't qualify as a relationship to me though. |
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| Strawberry | Apr 1 2015, 10:36 PM Post #48 |
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I find that pretty interesting. I imagined it would all boil down to the specific parameters/rules the couple establishes for their relationship, but I find it interesting how an open relationship can ultimately be a lot trickier to manage and possibly even more restrained in some aspects than a regular relationship. Then again, I've never been in one, but it actually sounds like a lot more work and mental exercise than a regular relationship in the sense of fully understanding where to draw the line and safeguarding your emotions and self-esteem in the process. |
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| + QueenTD | Apr 1 2015, 11:23 PM Post #49 |
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What would be cheating in a long distance relationship?
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| Buuberries | Apr 1 2015, 11:32 PM Post #50 |
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i dont see what difference that would make, lol. a long distance relationship is still a relationship, so if one partner does something similar to what most people on this thread have said, then surely it's cheating |
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| + QueenTD | Apr 1 2015, 11:41 PM Post #51 |
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I guess you're right in a way. Just curious. |
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Apr 1 2015, 11:49 PM Post #52 |
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Yep, sure. Everyone has a different idea of what "cheating" is. My ex would claim that I was cheating on her when I slept in the same bed with my female high school best friend. I thought that was completely stupid, but hey, whatever. I've been called out on by people for having a flirty personality or flirting even when I know that I wasn't. I guess it's just the way I talk? I really have no idea, especially when I think that flirting with someone you don't know is completely creepy. So I don't really consider "flirting" in general a big deal, especially when it's so difficult to tell when a person is actually flirting. If my girlfriend was to tell someone straight up "you're sexy" or hit on them in a sexual manner, then that's a problem. Edited by Doggo Champion 2k17, Apr 1 2015, 11:50 PM.
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| + Pyrus | Apr 1 2015, 11:55 PM Post #53 |
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There's no difference to a long-distance relationship except, well, the distance. You're still in a relationship with someone and still expected to uphold your end of the bargain as much as if you lived in the same city. Some people use the distance as an excuse to fool around, but it should be apparent how I view those people by now. If the distance is that much of a problem, break it off (until it's not an obstacle, at least). Gosh, I sound so insensitive! Edited by Pyrus, Apr 1 2015, 11:56 PM.
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| Jet | Apr 2 2015, 12:16 AM Post #54 |
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Well you did actually cheat on her during your relationship together, so you can't exactly blame her. The fact that you thought that it was appropriate to sleep in the same bed as another girl probably says more about you than your girlfriend and her pretty normal definition of cheating. Edited by Jet, Apr 2 2015, 12:18 AM.
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Apr 2 2015, 12:22 AM Post #55 |
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| Sky | Apr 2 2015, 02:18 AM Post #56 |
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Please note that I have never been in a relationship, so I can't say I'm experienced in the field and my input might be a bit flawed due to that. With that out of the way... What do you consider cheating and not cheating? Cheating is any sexual action or contact that you do to someone that isn't your significant other. Holding hands is kind of an iffy one for me, as I wouldn't get suspicious unless it happened a lot. But I can understand the occasional hand grab. How do you feel about cheaters and their ways of cheating? Disgusting and inconsiderate. A little pain now would save them a lot of hurt later on. Break it off if you're not happy with the relationship. Have you ever been in a cheating situation? Well, I've never been cheated on, however I have been in a situation where I could have kissed a taken guy (however it was his idea and was against my will.) How did you handle it? How did/does it make you feel from whichever side you were on? I avoided him as much as possible. It made me feel angry that he would do that to someone. Thankfully because me avoiding him nothing happened between he and I. See, this girl he was with, she was the girl who made Grade 7 hell at the start and I could have kissed her boyfriend to get a reaction from her, however I'm not that type of person to get back at someone and I am not a cheater. I wouldn't like the feeling of being cheated on, so I wouldn't cheat. Also not a fan of someone forcing their lips against mine. Were you able to see the signs, or gave them away? Early or too late? I don't think I can answer this one. |
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| peep | Apr 2 2015, 05:08 AM Post #57 |
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never even touched a girl (because they have cooties not because im pathetic or anything) but i think that when (or if, lol) i get into a serious thing i would make it abundantly clear that if she ever cheats on me then she should just tell me. yeah it will be s***ty and will take a while to get over but then we can move forward and fix things. if she does it and tries to hide it then cya forever but that sounds like im expecting it to happen so i would have to find a way to tell her without it sounding incredibly dickish |
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| + Steve | Apr 2 2015, 06:42 AM Post #58 |
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I think it's something you can kinda expect when you're young though, hormones and whatnot, no experience in how bad an idea it is, naivete etc etc When you're older there's likely a reason behind it happening like emotional abuse. The "excuse" I think is worst is that their partner doesn't satisfy them sexually anymore...because you couldn't just tell them that? If you were married especially I'm pretty sure they'd make the effort to get in shape or whatever. That reason is just pathetic, go back on your vows or a long term relationship purely based on lust. Sex is important in a relationship of course but instantly giving up to go f*** other people is really weak. Is it not just admitting that they prefer sex over being with their partner really? If a relationship gets to that stage it probably should have ended already. Unless it's like some old dude who can't get it up consensually letting her bang other dudes but well, how often is money not involved in that kind of relationship. |
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| + QueenTD | Apr 3 2015, 02:25 PM Post #59 |
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My Dear Melancholy,
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Has anyone been the Cheatee? The person who the cheater was with? The person "C". How'd you handle it? Did you know? Did you care? |
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| + Steve | Apr 3 2015, 02:31 PM Post #60 |
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I've convinced a few people to leave s***ty boyfriends for me but never done anything intimate while they were going out(or at all  )So...kinda? It felt good because they were my friends, I was ok with sacrificing the friendship to get them away from someone who made them miserable in favour of boring old me they'd move on from super fast, worked out well for them. Mostly. But on that note I find it funny how the cheatee often gets the blame like the persons partner did no wrong, even though either they didn't know or they did and the partner still wanted to do it. |
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