Cheating in a relationship (& cheaters)

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Cheating in a relationship (& cheaters)
Tweet Topic Started: Apr 1 2015, 12:49 AM (6,344 Views)
+ Pelador	Apr 1 2015, 03:34 AM Post #16
Crazy Awesome Legend Posts: 25,663 Group: Legend Member #4,634 Joined: December 12, 2009 Gender Not Specified Country None Favourite Anime HunterxHunter What Browser do you use? Firefox Favourite Manga Dragonball	I have no issue with casual relations. Sometimes we just need some sex and not the work that comes with having a relationship.
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+ Pyrus	Apr 1 2015, 03:38 AM Post #17
Posts: 39,342 Group: Legend Member #5,088 Joined: August 1, 2010 Gender Not Specified Country Chile	There's no harm in that. Just don't do it when you're "committed" to someone else.
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Sky	Apr 1 2015, 04:00 AM Post #18
One Special Nerd Posts: 1,703 Group: Member Member #8,754 Joined: December 30, 2012 Gender Female	I don't understand cheating. If you're unhappy with your current relationship, break it off. "I don't want to hurt them!" Oh yeah? A little pain now will save them a lot of hurt later on. I'll answer the original topic in a bit, kind of busy at the moment.
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* Crashbreaka	Apr 1 2015, 04:31 AM Post #19
Captain Oblivious Posts: 6,888 Group: Retired Staff Member #7,771 Joined: June 14, 2012 Gender Male Country New Zealand Favourite Anime Onepunch-Man, Gurren Lagann What Browser do you use? Chrome Favourite Manga Seven Deadly Sins, Food Wars, Onepunch-Man	Cheating by nature of the word is something foul and terrible to do IMO. Of course, cheating is really defined by the rules of your relationship. Not that I've ever been in one mind you.



~~Doggo Champion 2k17~~	Apr 1 2015, 04:38 AM Post #20
Posts: 7,931 Group: GTFO Member #6,380 Joined: June 20, 2011 Country United States Favourite Anime here comes What Browser do you use? o shit waddup! Favourite Manga dat boi	It depends on the relationship. Sometimes cheating is awful, sometimes it's not so bad; therefore, this topic is extremely difficult to answer.



+ Ginyu	Apr 1 2015, 05:10 AM Post #21
Leve Feyenoord 1! Posts: 4,490 Group: Elite Member Member #9,685 Joined: June 30, 2013 Gender Female Country Netherlands Favourite Anime NJPW What Browser do you use? Chrome Favourite Manga Reading is for nerds, yo!	ObsessiveFanGirl Apr 1 2015, 04:38 AM It depends on the relationship. Sometimes cheating is awful, sometimes it's not so bad; therefore, this topic is extremely difficult to answer. Sorry, don't have a lot of experience in relationships. In what situation would cheating be considred 'not so bad'?
	Ask GinyuTokusentai


+ Pyrus	Apr 1 2015, 05:59 AM Post #22
Posts: 39,342 Group: Legend Member #5,088 Joined: August 1, 2010 Gender Not Specified Country Chile	A justifiable reason to cheat? Heh. Perhaps something along the lines of "if you're miserable" or "if they cheated first", though those are both petty. Edited by Pyrus, Apr 1 2015, 06:02 AM.
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Rockman	Apr 1 2015, 09:20 AM Post #23
hoighty-toighty Posts: 11,070 Group: Guardian Member #48 Joined: December 17, 2004 Gender Male Country United States What Browser do you use? Firefox, when it isn't crashing.	Steve Apr 1 2015, 02:52 AM Ninjaneer Apr 1 2015, 01:22 AM sleeping with (no sex) Sorry but what's wrong with this? Do you mean literally sleep or what? Not sure what's inherently bad about that unless they're naked and cuddling or something. If you havent been in the situation then I cant expect you to understand. Someone you've put yourself next to every night suddenly gets drunk without you and goes home with some dude to fall asleep next to. also might I add that some people are f*ing liars, and just because they say thats all they did, doesnt mean it. Especially when they tell you a week later of the above happening that you are terrible at sex. Its like, how the f* do you know??? We were each other's first!!
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lucrowe	Apr 1 2015, 09:56 AM Post #24
Posts: 1,149 Group: Member Member #11,578 Joined: August 5, 2014 Gender Male Favourite Anime Gantz What Browser do you use? Chrome Favourite Manga Not much of a fan..	Being cheated on is hell! It's a tough pill to swallow. But I came up well because my life took a significant turn. After that happened to me I met a great girl, we have great chemistry, and now she is going to be my bride =D while my ex ended up suffering from instant karma from a string of relationship woes. things have a way of balancing, and yes bad things happen to good people; but your strains in life are rewarded never let some piece of trash ruin the love you have to give. Somebody out there will appreciate it more =D
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+ Pointer	Apr 1 2015, 10:06 AM Post #25
... Posts: 7,062 Group: Elite Member Member #8,812 Joined: January 5, 2013 Gender Male	Bad, I think cheating is. Had some bad experience about it, have I. As for the topic, I reckon, with another person having inappropriate contact, is surely cheating.



~~Doggo Champion 2k17~~	Apr 1 2015, 12:30 PM Post #26
Posts: 7,931 Group: GTFO Member #6,380 Joined: June 20, 2011 Country United States Favourite Anime here comes What Browser do you use? o shit waddup! Favourite Manga dat boi	GinyuTokusentai Apr 1 2015, 05:10 AM ObsessiveFanGirl Apr 1 2015, 04:38 AM It depends on the relationship. Sometimes cheating is awful, sometimes it's not so bad; therefore, this topic is extremely difficult to answer. Sorry, don't have a lot of experience in relationships. In what situation would cheating be considred 'not so bad'? 1. If you're in an open relationship. 2. If you have some other understanding that permits cheating. 3. If your partner deserves it. Number 3 may sound terrible to some, but cheating isn't always some horrendous, unlawful thing. My ex girlfriend emotionally abused me, manipulated me into staying with her and coming back to her, told me every day how horrible and worthless I was, made me depressed, etc. the anxiety I currently deal with every day can be traced back to that relationship. When I was with her, I was confused, depressed, and alone. I got drunk a lot, kissed other people. Looking back on it, I don't really regret it. She was a sociopath. My current girlfriend is a much different story. I would never cheat on her. We're in a loving, committed relationship, so the act becomes more deplorable.



Zeddicus	Apr 1 2015, 01:32 PM Post #27
Posts: 54 Group: Member Member #12,063 Joined: February 11, 2015 Gender Male Country United States Favourite Anime DBZ, Hunter x Hunter Favourite Manga Negima	Professor Gohan Apr 1 2015, 12:49 AM A topic about cheating and cheaters, concerning a relationship: What do you consider cheating and not cheating? How do you feel about cheaters and their ways of cheating? Have you ever been in a cheating situation? How did you handle it? How did/does it make you feel from whichever side you were on? Were you able to see the signs, or gave them away? Early or too late? Cheating. In order: Generally, I consider cheating to be anything you would do with your significant other that you wouldn't do with your other friends. I don't approve of cheating, but I don't hate cheaters. After all, we're only human and everyone has weaknesses. But if you're that unhappy, you need to leave. And going from what Pyrus said, cheating "because they cheated first" isn't a good enough reason. Fighting fire with fire doesn't end well for anyone. I've never cheated, but I've been cheated on. And the fool I was, I tried to forgive her since she told me before I had to find out from somewhere else. I truly did. But as time went on, I discovered that I became suspicious of everything she said and did. I simply couldn't trust her anymore, and I started to turn into someone that I really didn't like. The signs were there long before it actually happened. They pointed not so much to her being a cheater, but to her being someone I couldn't really trust. She was a notorious attention seeker with a victim complex, she spent insane amounts of time texting, and she didn't seem to have any regard to who might be affected by her actions. It was all about the here and now, the instant gratification. Looking back, I don't know why I stayed with her for so long. Maybe I was the weak one. Edited by Zeddicus, Apr 1 2015, 01:36 PM.



Strawberry	Apr 1 2015, 02:33 PM Post #28
Chiaroscuro ♥ Posts: 17,000 Group: Rock Princess Member #1,750 Joined: September 24, 2006	I hate cheaters.... with a burning passion... the excuse that the human flesh is weak and "I'm only a man and can't resist temptation sometimes" makes me boil in anger.... (not saying only men cheat btw). But yeah, I consider cheating to be any physical or emotional display of affection that crosses the line of friendship. If you're in a commited relationship and you're calling someone else every night to tell them you love them and want to be with them -- even if you've never been together physically, like ever -- that's cheating. I expect nothing but loyalty and honesty from the person I'm with and have zero tolerance to cheating. If I've been in a position before where I could have easily cheated on the person I was with and chose not to (despite perhaps having everything in the world going for it), I basically demand the same from the other person (PS: this has nothing to do with my current relationship). If I can control myself and consciously choose to talk things out instead of being a weak-minded prick, the guy I'm with must do the same. And there's just no other way around it.
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+ Steve	Apr 1 2015, 02:50 PM Post #29
Greetings. I will be your waifu this season. Posts: 19,471 Group: Legend Member #5,710 Joined: February 7, 2011 Gender Male Country United Kingdom Favourite Anime Hunter x Hunter(2011) What Browser do you use? Mozilla Firefox Favourite Manga Berserk all day erry day	Ninjaneer Apr 1 2015, 09:20 AM If you havent been in the situation then I cant expect you to understand. Someone you've put yourself next to every night suddenly gets drunk without you and goes home with some dude to fall asleep next to. also might I add that some people are f*ing liars, and just because they say thats all they did, doesnt mean it. Especially when they tell you a week later of the above happening that you are terrible at sex. Its like, how the f* do you know??? We were each other's first!! Well you said said sex afterward like no sex was involved the first time, how would you know? I think people deserve some kind of leeway, things aren't always how they look. Quote: umber 3 may sound terrible to some, but cheating isn't always some horrendous, unlawful thing. Yeah some people really just make you miserable. You should just leave them but it can be hard to do so, you feel trapped and then someone else is there to comfort you and make you feel something positive. I don't see what's so bad about that really, the person who cheats there isn't to blame. Definitely the physical side of things is worse I'd say if you cheat just because you want a quick bang that's way worse than being emotionally drained by a partner who makes you feel worthless.
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+ Ginyu	Apr 1 2015, 03:24 PM Post #30
Leve Feyenoord 1! Posts: 4,490 Group: Elite Member Member #9,685 Joined: June 30, 2013 Gender Female Country Netherlands Favourite Anime NJPW What Browser do you use? Chrome Favourite Manga Reading is for nerds, yo!	ObsessiveFanGirl Apr 1 2015, 12:30 PM GinyuTokusentai Apr 1 2015, 05:10 AM ObsessiveFanGirl Apr 1 2015, 04:38 AM It depends on the relationship. Sometimes cheating is awful, sometimes it's not so bad; therefore, this topic is extremely difficult to answer. Sorry, don't have a lot of experience in relationships. In what situation would cheating be considred 'not so bad'? 1. If you're in an open relationship. 2. If you have some other understanding that permits cheating. 3. If your partner deserves it. Number 3 may sound terrible to some, but cheating isn't always some horrendous, unlawful thing. My ex girlfriend emotionally abused me, manipulated me into staying with her and coming back to her, told me every day how horrible and worthless I was, made me depressed, etc. the anxiety I currently deal with every day can be traced back to that relationship. When I was with her, I was confused, depressed, and alone. I got drunk a lot, kissed other people. Looking back on it, I don't really regret it. She was a sociopath. My current girlfriend is a much different story. I would never cheat on her. We're in a loving, committed relationship, so the act becomes more deplorable. To me, they seem more like excuses to cheat than solid justifications. But I guess that's subjective
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