Welcome Guest [Log In] [Register]
Rotation Advertisements



We hope you enjoy your visit to this forum.


If you are reading this then it means you are currently browsing the forum as a guest, we don’t limit any of the content posted from guests however if you join, you will have the ability to join the discussions! We are always happy to see new faces at this forum and we would like to hear your opinion, so why not register now? It doesn’t take long and you can get posting right away.


Click here to Register!

If you are having difficulties validating your account please email us at admin@dbzf.co.uk


If you're already a member please log in to your account:

Username:   Password:
Add Reply
Dating Relationships
Topic Started: Oct 31 2014, 08:21 PM (556 Views)
SuperSaiyan1993
Member Avatar
Super Saiyan among Super Saiyans

Many people are desperate for relationships nowadays. I don't want a relationship. Instead, I want to meet a girl who is so awesome that it'd be worth all of the crap associated with a relationship. Anyway, that was my view on the topic. What are your thoughts about dating in today's fast-paced, hectic world?
We Super Saiyans are in a league of our own.
Member Offline View Profile Quote Post Goto Top
 
+ Pelador
Member Avatar
Crazy Awesome Legend

Tried it recently. Didn't work out. I know now that I'm not quite ready.


Posted Image

http://www.youtube.com/user/jonjits
Member Offline View Profile Quote Post Goto Top
 
+ Pointer
Member Avatar
...

I think this is all overrated ....


Just enjoy it, not need for crap

Posted Image
Member Offline View Profile Quote Post Goto Top
 
* Mitas
Member Avatar
It truly was a Shawshank redemption

I do think there is a pressure on single people to find a relationship, at least in my experience. I agree though that people shouldn't get into a relationship just for the sake of being in one, because those ones rarely last. It's more important that you find the right person.

That being said, I can understand why some people would rather be in a relationship with someone they don't really have strong feelings with, just so that they aren't alone. Being single definitely gets lonely, and I miss the closeness of a relationship, but I also remember missing the independence of being single whilst I was in my last relationship. As with most things, the grass always seems greener on the other side. People do need to become more comfortable with themselves, and being by themselves, because although you can surround yourself with friends, family and partners, the one person that is always with you no matter what is yourself, so if you can't stomach spending time alone, then you're gonna have some bad days because everyone is alone at some point in time.
Posted Image
"Then you've got the chance to do better next time."
"Next time?"
"Course. Doing better next time. That's what life is."
Member Offline View Profile Quote Post Goto Top
 
Jet
Member Avatar
Ruka is a dude

SuperSaiyan1993
Oct 31 2014, 08:21 PM
Many people are desperate for relationships nowadays. I don't want a relationship. Instead, I want to meet a girl who is so awesome that it'd be worth all of the crap associated with a relationship. Anyway, that was my view on the topic. What are your thoughts about dating in today's fast-paced, hectic world?
I have a girl mate that is basically defined by her relationship status in her on mind. She started going out with one guy and ended up living in a cave for 3-4 years. Rarely went out - we even lost contact. He dumped her out of the blue, and she had a breakdown (really bad one). She messaged me on Facebook about it all, and we started hanging out again. Goes home with a guy literally the night after we meet up again. Which is fine, he's actually a pretty awesome dude (gone out drinking with him a few times). It's the attitude I get when I do catch up with her that annoys me. I come out to enjoy myself and all I get are looks of disappointment and "when are you going to get a girlfriend?", "you should go home with a girl tonight" etc. The ol' "I'm better than you because I'm in a relationship" deal. I've only been single for 4-5 months. Had a decent amount of girlfriends in the past, and done the whole shallow meet a girl at a club thing. It's not for me, and I don't enjoy myself when I'm with this friend anymore.
Edited by Jet, Oct 31 2014, 09:46 PM.
Posted Image
Member Offline View Profile Quote Post Goto Top
 
+ QueenTD
Member Avatar
My Dear Melancholy,

Well I don't have much experience. I've only truly dated one person whom I'm still dating. I'm not sure about your question...sorry Lol. Are you asking on my opinion on dating or fast paced dating?
Posted Image
Spoiler: click to toggle
Member Offline View Profile Quote Post Goto Top
 
+ Steve
Member Avatar
Greetings. I will be your waifu this season.

Yeah I think on the whole society doesn't get that not everyone needs or wants to be with someone to be happy, like being in a relationship is somehow "winning"

Even though the wrong partner can be bringing you down.


As for dating, I think people are way too picky but at the same time move things too fast.
How often do you hear of relationships where it's like a romcom and they date for months without...y'know'ing.

It's just like "Wow they like the same music, films, places and hobbies as me it's meant to be!"

This is why most people end up with a childhood friend or a general friend they've known a long time, for a successful relationship most of the time you need to know each other really well. Just because someone likes the same sort of stuff you do doesn't mean there's one aspect of their being you won't despise.
Like maybe they're extremely racist or homophobic, hate dogs or maybe their vision of the future doesn't match yours at all like if they don't want kids ever and you do.

There's more about a person you need to know than you can gather from a handful of dates, unless they're extremely open, to have a successful relationship.
They could be perfect on paper and great in person.
But then at home, argumentative, nitpicky, demanding or even straight up abusive.

Some people feel like it's too late at that point or are so desperate they put up with it and it's just not healthy.
Posted Image


Definitely not a succubus, fear not
Member Offline View Profile Quote Post Goto Top
 
Snow
Member Avatar


I think relationships are great if you both know how to make each other grow in the relationship. If the person you're with makes you regress in life, than they're not meant to be with you. I think its very important to be okay with being single. A lot of people aren't and are desperate to find anyone so they settle on someone that may not be for them just so they won't ever feel like their alone. That concerns me because there is nothing wrong with being alone and you can accomplish so many things in life when you're single. There are many positives to being single that being in a relationship doesn't offer. When you're dating you have to know how to put others before yourself and that means you have to make sacrifices and give up on what you want sometimes to help the other person you are with.. It takes commitment and self-sacrifice and learning what love really means. These things are really what make relationships grow. When you're single you don't have to worry about those things so much. You can really have the most time to just focus on yourself and do what you want to do in life. You can really learn about yourself when you're not with anyone. Some people don't know who they really are yet and early in their life they date someone and they become the person who they are with instead. People never get to know themselves that way. If you can accept yourself for who you are and know what you are looking for in someone else than that's when you know you are ready for a relationship.
Posted Image
Member Offline View Profile Quote Post Goto Top
 
Doggo Champion 2k17
Default Avatar


Relationships can be terrible, or they can be great. I've been in both.

If you're in one of those relationships where you're constantly fighting, breaking up, and getting back together, it's never going to work. If the other person makes you depressed, it's not going to work. And if it's an unhealthy relationship (manipulation, lying, hurting each other, abuse, etc.) you'd better get out quick. It seems to me that that's how most relationships nowadays are. People are so lonely and desperate, they settle for unhappy relationships. Or they're so immature, they get into relationships that will never work because they don't know how to maintain one.

If you're relationship is healthy and the other person truly makes you a happier, better person, you've found a keeper. I feel like I've found mine. We balance each other out perfectly, tell each other everything, and do whatever it takes to avoid hurting each other. If you can't find that, don't settle for anything less. Trust me.

And don't rush to be in a relationship. Being single is perfectly fine, and it can sometimes make you happier.
Member Offline View Profile Quote Post Goto Top
 
Buuberries
Member Avatar
No

i have this thing where i've had a lotttt of friends come to me for relationship advice in the past and apparently i've been a lot of help which is good for them and one even called me her relationship guru, but when it comes to being in one myself i just cant follow my own advice. im like waht am i doing guys what should i do wtf is this wtf is a relationship why am i in this and find it difficult to be consistently logical
¯\(°_o)/¯
Member Offline View Profile Quote Post Goto Top
 
Toji
Member Avatar
ザラブファントム

ObsessiveFanGirl
Nov 1 2014, 01:51 AM
If you're relationship is healthy and the other person truly makes you a happier, better person, you've found a keeper. I feel like I've found mine. We balance each other out perfectly, tell each other everything, and do whatever it takes to avoid hurting each other. If you can't find that, don't settle for anything less. Trust me.
This actually puts my mind at ease with my relationship right now.

My girlfriend will tell me if she has any concerns or worries and what not, especially with a Halloween party the other night. Both of us were mingling among other people, and I was talking to one of my other friends who was drunk and gets a little too friendly with me. I tried to politely leave the conversation without being a d*** to my friend, but she can be a real handful when she's drunk. My girlfriend saw and told me after the party that she was a bit surprised at my friend being too friendly with me, but at the same time she knew that we were just friends and trusts me.
Posted Image
あたしはテキーラしを持ってまいりましたの。とーーーーってもよろしいかしら?

Member Offline View Profile Quote Post Goto Top
 
1 user reading this topic (1 Guest and 0 Anonymous)
« Previous Topic · General Discussion · Next Topic »
Add Reply

Theme Designed by McKee91