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Relationship problem
Topic Started: Oct 24 2014, 08:59 PM (369 Views)
Andro
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So I've been with this girl for 10 months now. I was really in love with her in the first 6-7 months, but as time went by I saw that we weren't suited for each other.
In other words, I feel like I could really be in a happy relationship, say with a girl that I really felt was for me. We are completely different in every way.
She is very preservative, nerdy, happy-go-lucky and just does not see life the way I see it. On the other hand, I think of myself as rather deep, serious and into action, I have nothing holding me back from my goals and I am very strong-hearted compared to her (don't get me wrong, she is very awesome too). So I told her that I think I don't want this to go on anymore, because we don't match together., and we both would be better off and happier in the future if we stopped it there. I broke her heart, completely. I have had a bond with this girl and seeing her hurt this much made me incapable of giving a steady answer: "yes, i want to break up with you". So what should I do?? I know the right thing is to go with my feelings, but I just need some way in order to do it, to break up with her.
Can anyone give me any advice?
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You seem to be following both your gut and your brain. Which is good. You only feel bad because you upset her. Not because you may have made the wrong decision. In the long term from what you have said this will benefit the both of you despite short term pain. In ten years you'll probably be thinking damn I made a good call with that one.


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Greetings. I will be your waifu this season.

What Pel said.

All you can do is end it off as nice as possible. If you want to remain in contact with her as friends whatever you don't say that, it's extremely insulting and makes you feel like a piece of s***.

You've just got to man up and say it really, hurts her and hurts you but it'll only get worse the longer it's left.

There's no nice way to do it just don't be a d*** about it.
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Andro
Oct 24 2014, 08:59 PM
So I've been with this girl for 10 months now. I was really in love with her in the first 6-7 months, but as time went by I saw that we weren't suited for each other.
In other words, I feel like I could really be in a happy relationship, say with a girl that I really felt was for me. We are completely different in every way.
She is very preservative, nerdy, happy-go-lucky and just does not see life the way I see it. On the other hand, I think of myself as rather deep, serious and into action, I have nothing holding me back from my goals and I am very strong-hearted compared to her (don't get me wrong, she is very awesome too). So I told her that I think I don't want this to go on anymore, because we don't match together., and we both would be better off and happier in the future if we stopped it there. I broke her heart, completely. I have had a bond with this girl and seeing her hurt this much made me incapable of giving a steady answer: "yes, i want to break up with you". So what should I do?? I know the right thing is to go with my feelings, but I just need some way in order to do it, to break up with her.
Can anyone give me any advice?
Do not linger on this relationship. People who are not committed to a relationship but are still in it for whatever reason tend to find other means to fill the void of not getting what they want. You might end up cheating on her if you stay. Move on. She'll get over it, and so will you. It's better to do this than to resort to cheating later.
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My Dear Melancholy,

It's like peeling a band aid. It'll definitely hurt but do it. Do not try to maintain a relationship if you don't want to be in one. Even if the other loves you alot. It'll cause other issues. You might take other stuff to fill that take your mind off the relationship. As Ninjaeer said. Trust me it'll be best to break up with her. Hopefully y'all remain friends. I've been in a relationship for almost three years and when you're not feeling something just cut it off ASAP.
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Thanks everyone.
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