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| Goddess Ultimecia | Aug 30 2014, 02:32 AM Post #1 |
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Have you ever felt your teacher just plain doesn't like you? Although they grade you fairly and everything you just sense some...I don't know how to describe it. Bad Blood of some sort? It's happening right now in my Athletic Conditioning class with my teacher in there. It began a few days ago when we were running the mile and my back began cramping up and I had to slow down to a walk. I ended up failing the mile run as a result and ever since then he just doesn't seem to be the same around me as with everyone else. |
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| Sky | Aug 30 2014, 02:45 AM Post #2 |
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I've had a teacher absolutely hate me to the point of sabotaging my grades. |
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Aug 30 2014, 02:46 AM Post #3 |
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Lol need that icy-hot but yes my math teacher way back in middle school(on the first day btw) straight up said I look like trouble. I was in my head like wtf She actually said that and she didn't know me at all She gave me a dirty look as if I said something wrong, unbelievable lol She never liked me ever since Thank god I ony had 1semester with her |
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| + Yusuke | Aug 30 2014, 02:53 AM Post #4 |
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No but i've seen a lot of teachers play favorites to a lot of students. |
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| POOHEAD189 | Aug 30 2014, 03:00 AM Post #5 |
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I had to deal with it a few times. It gets on your nerves. |
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Aug 30 2014, 09:39 AM Post #6 |
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I had an a***** maths teacher that would write bulls*** lies in my report, like I'd break class equipment, but he never gave us class equipment. WTF? |
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| + Steve | Aug 30 2014, 09:50 AM Post #7 |
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One of my music teachers in high school who was later my PSE(personal social education) teacher hated me. Not sure where it started because she seemed to like me a decent amount but then suddenly she would go crazy, one time I had to try the drums in front of the class...drums are just something I can't do, too many things to do at once and I'm autistic with anxiety issues(this wasn't really known at the time) so both inable to do it properly and extremely nervous. Naturally I made a mess of it and couldn't keep any rhythm so she shouted at me like I was doing it on purpose. Correct me if I'm wrong but not everyone can play every instrument perfectly with little practice, or am I just crazy? ![]() Then when she was my PSE teacher she would often fire snide remarks at me. Stuff in the tone of "look who finally decided to show up!" if you can imagine how someone would say that in a stern way. I often just felt like standing up and shouting at her, probably one of the best behaved kids in my age group there were tons of people always snigeling away when they were supposed to be listening or just generally being s*** heads but for some reason I got the hate >.> It didn't really upset me or anything more made me angry because I couldn't figure out why. Thankfully she got pregnant and either left the school or got moved to a different job in school then both my new music and PSE teacher were awesome I think it's really pathetic for teachers to act this way it really kinda puts you down and makes you not try so hard, failed terribly at music when she was there and then when the cool teacher came in she was actually helpful and even managed to bring out a bit of musical talent in me through positive reinforcement. Isn't it their job to help you learn? |
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| Rockman | Aug 30 2014, 10:58 AM Post #8 |
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As someone who has been dating a teacher for 2 years now, I can tell you this. Teachers, no matter what level, are just as human as the rest of us. They feel disgust, stress, agitated, frustrations, anger, resentment, and are capable of liking someone more than another. Don't forget that. Also you should realize that they sometimes decide to teach a grade they are not mentally prepared for. Teaching 5-9 year olds is completely different from teaching 14-18 year olds. They also won't admit to making a bad decision, especially if they are getting paid more. It's just like people who work in retail and services. Sometimes you get great service, and sometimes the table next to you gets great service and you get ignored. There are a lot of factors in this. When I was in school, I always remember particular teachers hating me. Not because they hated me, for me, but because they hated my behavior. I knew exactly what I was doing to make them upset. i.e. going through my notebook and crumpling up papers I didnt want anymore in a loud fashion during the middle of her giving a lesson and getting up to throw them away multiple times, continuously talking during music rehearsal when i've been asked to stop more than 10 times over the course of a few weeks, punching the crap out of the guy next to me at band practice with him doing the same back, tapping my pen loudly on the metallic part of the table during lecture, wetting my finger and rubbing it against the metallic underhold cage beneath my chair so as to make it reverberate and create a loud humming noise. All of these things made a teacher resent me. I don't blame them. These days if I was in their position i'd throw a book at their head full force for doing that s***. So first, realize what you've done in the past to make these teachers act the way they do. If you thought you were an angel, realize that some teachers also take their anger out on other students for no reason. Again, human. My girlfriend hates kids and hates people with a passion. But she loves to see kids learn and make something of themselves so she choose to teach elementary. I think she made the right choice, but she is just as susceptible to corruption as any other teacher. |
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| Meowth | Aug 30 2014, 06:37 PM Post #9 |
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There are also some teachers who just shouldn't teach, not because they don't like teaching but because their personality doesn't work. I've never felt like a teacher doesn't like me, though I did have one teacher who marked people down for bad spelling on a maths test, I will never forget that. I've never been good with spelling so didn't pass that test. Anyone who didn't pass got punished for it, thankfully, she wasn't our teacher for long. |
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| + Pelador | Aug 30 2014, 07:36 PM Post #10 |
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I've had a few teachers who didn't like me all that much but they were professional about their job and stayed polite towards me. But I could hear in their voices and the looks in their eyes that they didn't like me at all. I don't think I've ever had a teacher give me poor marks because of personal issues. As far as I know anyway. |
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| Master Gohan | Aug 30 2014, 11:30 PM Post #11 |
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| Sam | Aug 31 2014, 02:53 AM Post #12 |
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Complicated for me. In sixth grade, my English middle school teacher was a total b***. I was gone all the time and didn't turn very much stuff in and she hated me for it. She let kids bully me. In high school, my high school math teachers didn't like me more than just lukewarm. All other teachers loved me. I started fires and cheated all the time. Never went to school either. |
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| + Steve | Aug 31 2014, 09:06 AM Post #13 |
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That doesn't make it any less pathetic to pick on a kid that barely done anything wrong. Or any kid. There's always some rowdy bunch in any class that are always in trouble for something but to pick on kids that aren't like that is just sad. It doesn't matter if they're human, they have a job to do. Student 1 could have the potential to be an amazing artist, but if Art Teacher 1 singles them out all the time they're going to resent the teacher and going to Art class, possibly even school. It's practically the same as being bullied only it's even scarier to speak out against it because you're going up against an adult their word holds more power than yours. By being a pathetic d*** to children who don't even get what you're problem is you can be severely impacting their future. They might be human but they're also responsible adults, everyone has off days sure but to single out specific children without trying to either get through to them or get them to apologize for however they wronged you is just plain horrible. It might not even be the kids fault if they act up in class, they could have ADD or something that's gone unrecognized instead of being a douchebag find the root of the problem. Perhaps they're even being abused at home and act out because they have nobody to confide in. Edited by Steve, Aug 31 2014, 09:08 AM.
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| Vertical | Aug 31 2014, 09:16 AM Post #14 |
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My confident but casual/relaxed/sleepy demeanor and minority-influenced skin coloring netted me quite a bit of... first impression negativity. That was almost always rectified by my perfect marks (although some would accuse me of cheating early on in semesters). Only one teacher ever seemed to hold a grudge the entire time I knew her. My 12th grade English teacher. To this day I have no idea why but I do remember a particular confrontation we had: We were given a week to research and create an oral presentation. I had taken the week off as my Grandfather had died late Sunday night (and besides the obvious emotional impact such an event had, I was also required to take part in funeral arrangement and will discussions). The next Monday, as I watched my fellow classmates deliver their presentations (quite attentively too, as I wished to wash away the previous week's emotional weight)... I was surprised to hear my name called. I looked at the teacher, , and she simply said "Go on."As I glanced around and noticed I wasn't the only one confused. "Miss !@#$%, I have been absent from school for the last week, for reasons you have been made fully aware, and as such have not prepared a presentation." "So? Your name is next on the list." "I had hoped you would allow me to make my presentation last, or at least some time tomorrow." (class was big enough that it was going to take 2 separate lessons to get through them all) "That is a shame, as you have hoped in vain. Make your presentation." "Miss, this presentation counts for 15% of our total grade. If you give me until our next lesson, I will create something worth presenting. Or am I simply expected to forfeit that percentage of my grade?" Now, up until this point, this had been rather... civil... but then she lept to her feet and yelled: "You are expected to do as your damn well told." I have no idea what the source of her rage had been but I was quickly becoming it's outlet... and my response didn't help the matter. I stood up and retorted : "That's ridiculous. Unless the sole purpose of this presentation was to see me stumble over my words and ramble on incoherently about some hastily chosen topic... making a fool of myself and scoring extremely poorly... I'd rather not even bother." "Are you defying me?!" "I guess I am." At this point, we were simply yelling at each other and some other students had stood up trying to calm the situation. The teacher composed herself a bit and asked her current "pet" to escort me to the Dean and explain what had happened. The teacher was not aware that her current "pet" was actually a close friend of mine and she recounted the story without bias. The Dean was understanding (and seemed to know what was irritating my teacher) and explained that even though I may have been morally correct... I had still disrespected the teacher by yelling at her. And while something would be done about my teacher's outburst/unreasonable request... the presentation still had to be made and I had to be "punished". I was given 2 days to create my presentation, and had to make it to the entire student body at the next assembly (this suited me fine because I would no longer be graded by my teacher but the head of the department). I made my presentation. Got full marks (the whole thing rhymed). And my teacher and I effectively avoided any non-required direct conversation until the end of the year. Wow, you were a d***. I would've thrown the book as a fellow student. Edited by Vertical, Aug 31 2014, 11:58 AM.
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| Sky | Sep 1 2014, 08:45 AM Post #15 |
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Mmkay. LONG POST, FORGIVE ME. Well, this was in Grade 7. My normal teacher had to leave halfway through the year because she was pregnant, so we got a new teacher. She seemed like a nice woman at first, no red flags. Except that she taught much younger grades and this was her first time with teenagers; but I paid no attention to that. Now, back then, I was a different kid. I was quiet, shy, and lacking self confidence. The only time I would be a little loud, was during break. As soon as class started though, I'd be ready and paying attention to the teacher. I was a straight A student.. Not kidding. I NEVER got in trouble. but that year was awful with my classmates. Everyone hated me because a popular girl liked this guy, and the guy liked me. Not my fault the guy had a crush on me! I didn't even want a boyfriend, I was freakin' 13! So the girl had spread rumors throughout the school, so I was already tired of the school year. First thing I noticed was that she would talk sweetly to the other kids, but when she talked to me it would be snappy and impolite. This was the first day she even showed up. I didn't dare ask her, thought maybe she was just having a bad day and was taking it out on me. There's this bin that you hand your homework into, and I handed in my work on time. But one lunch I got called over by her and she said she was missing my assignment. I asked her if maybe it was stuck to the other work sheets she had collected (it's happened before.) and she looked really offended and angry. I felt bad.. So I looked through the bin and saw nothing. I had to stay in to work on it all over again. Twice. Oh well, bad start. But it kept happening.. and she would give candy to every kid but me. Right infront of my face. I was still polite to her.. but inside I wanted to ask her what I did. But I couldn't. I was too scared. Strange, it was only happening in her classes. And the bullying.. Oh my gosh. So she never gave us any work ever??? If she did, she barely gave us any. So most classes were free. I was drawing (because, she would never tell me that I was missing work in the free periods, only before we got break would she tell me and so I'd have to stay in at lunch.. hm.) and I was really liking the drawing! It was Red from Pokemon Adventures, hehe. I managed to get a picture of it, then was adding some last additions, when I heard "WHOOPS" and a kid hit my elbow (making me draw a thick black line across the drawing) then while I frantically went to get my eraser, another kid grabbed it, crumpled it, and threw it in my face. The kid who shouted whoops did it on purpose because after they made me mess up, they pointed at me and laughed. I got up, glared at everyone, and began tearing up because I was actually proud of myself for once in my life.. Then the name calling started. Commence the crying. This all happened in front of the teacher, and she did nothing! They could call me names and she wouldn't care. It hurt. I had no friends in my class at the time. Then.. art class. This killed me. Art class made me stop drawing for.. A month or two. Not completely, but I would barely draw at all. I felt awful whenever I was there, and I hated my art. Everything I drew got made fun of.. Plus, my sketchbook was stolen and I lost everything. I was so unhappy with everything.. It hurts to remember. I was becoming bitter inside, to myself. To everyone else I would force a smile and try to be polite. I would go home and cry every day, but no one knew. I hid my unhappiness from my whole family, and even my best friend Jemarcus (He was the only thing that would make me happy.. We go to different schools; we rarely see eachother but whenever I did I would instantly light up. He's an awesome best friend, dunno what I'd do without him.). When I'd get asked how school was, I would say good, but really it wasn't. Whenever others would enter the classroom to observe the teacher, she would pull off the sweet voice, get up and actually teach us something, then when the person left, she'd give us grade 2 work (Not kidding) and that's what we'd work on for the class. So again, mostly free class. Then I got my grades. They DROPPED. I was JUST passing, not to mention the assignments I had to redo countless times were still missing. I went home, went into my room, and I was furious. I couldn't draw to let my stress out because I would just repeatedly call myself names if I did. So... I punched my wall repeatedly. There's a part on my wall that kid of stuck out and it was kind of sharp, and that's what I was punching. I think that's why I have a scar on my finger actually. Constant reminder to never do that again. I showed my parents and I told them everything that had been happening. They were pissed, and my mother was really sad that she didn't notice that I wasn't alright. So she sent an email to the teacher that said something along the lines of, "My daughter comes home everyday and cries. Have you noticed any of the kids bullying her?" because she wanted to see what the teacher would say. The teacher responded by saying she noticed nothing and wasn't sure why I was so upset. I was seeing red, I was so frustrated and so confused still as to why she disliked me so much?? I know I make myself sound so innocent.. but seriously! I'm a well-behaved kid in school, I'm not known for causing any problems! So when I went to school the next day, my mother told me she was going to talk to the principal about it after school. I go into class, and the teacher started acting nice and had that sweet voice she used on everybody else. I was polite to her still, even after all this stuff she put me through. Nearing the end of the year, we found out she had been giving my mark to other kids and giving me the other kids marks, and the kids had zero because they never handed in their work. She was originally going to take over as a teacher, but that didn't happen. But the more I think about it... The more I'm happy this happened. I've become a different person because of it.. I'm actually happy with who I am. I'm confident in myself, much more outgoing, happy, and I can actually stand up for myself. The year after that I still got bullied, but I stood up to them and didn't let anyone push me around anymore. So.. maybe that whole ordeal was a good thing. Edited by Sky, Sep 1 2014, 08:57 AM.
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