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Jul 1 2014, 12:16 AM Post #76 |
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So Krystal you are a gay guy? And your dad disowned you for being gay? Definitely a terrible situation. Snake do you want me to teach you how not to be bullied? I'm here to help you people just ask.
Edited by p123, Jul 1 2014, 12:17 AM.
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| Alex D. Boss | Jul 1 2014, 12:20 AM Post #77 |
 
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Isn't Krystal a girl? |
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Jul 1 2014, 12:21 AM Post #78 |
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I think it's a guy considering the Dad wouldn't like to explain him playing dress up? |
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| Krystal | Jul 1 2014, 12:21 AM Post #79 |
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Um, I prefer the term "Unicorn." And no, I'm a girl. Otherwise my dad calling me a w*** would have been a much more fabulous argument. Edited by Krystal, Jul 1 2014, 12:22 AM.
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| * Yu Narukami | Jul 1 2014, 12:24 AM Post #80 |
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I thought only bullying could show a person how to stop getting bullied. Also, you're a little bit late there. Nobody helped me when I needed it. The people who knew didn't because, well, 'that's just the way it is'. Such a nice mentality that permits abuse. |
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Jul 1 2014, 12:28 AM Post #81 |
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Krystal I don't understand the dress up part? Where was your mom is this disowning business? And what's cosplying? You had a bf and your were having sex and your dad disapproved thinks your a sloot and abanonded you? Did you ever ask anyone for help Snake? What did they do to you? I'm guessing it's not the run of the mill teasing and poking fun huh? Edited by p123, Jul 1 2014, 12:30 AM.
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| EMIYA | Jul 1 2014, 12:32 AM Post #82 |
"I am the bone of my sword."
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Blaming the bully victim...again the same thing as blaming the rape victim. And you can deny that all you want but its the same thing. Kid: Counselor! John keeps making fun of me, he steals my lunch and is always picking on me. Counselor: Well that's because your a weak little **** who obviously hasn't tried hard enough to stop him and if you kill yourself you'll go to hell but since your so weak it's not like anything would change. |
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| Krystal | Jul 1 2014, 12:33 AM Post #83 |
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Cosplaying is going to anime/sci-fi conventions in costume as your favorite characters, and no, it was simply having the boyfriend. I am waiting until marriage and offered to get appraised at a gynecologist to prove it, but he said that a woman doesn't need to have sex to be a w***. My parents are divorced so I never lived with her. She is fine with me being a nerd and having a boyfriend seeing as I was 21 at the time, but she and my grandmother on her side are the only ones. I come from a family where the parents make most of the decisions for the children. |
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| + Steve | Jul 1 2014, 12:34 AM Post #84 |
Greetings. I will be your waifu this season.
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The only bullying that can ever really be classed as the victims fault is cyberbullying when they've sent someone they barely knew nudes, in this day and age it's fairly obvious that you shouldn't do that. It's happened so many times now that anyone who send nudes and had it happened to them were practically asking for the chance of it happening, especially if they're with a young immature person or shortly after ended the relationship. No relationship needs exchanged nudes like that if someone is stressing you for them shut it the crap down. And non picture related cyberbullying, block the person/people it is that simple every site where someone can bully you has that option. Unless they happen to be a hacker but considering most bullies are young kids it's not all that likely. But otherwise bullying is not the fault of the victim I don't see how that makes any sense, it's not their fault that they might be short and skinny or have a speech impediment etc. The bullies are the weak ones for having to pick on easy prey, they themselves are probably prey to an abusive family member or are just lashing out, they're a weak little child hurting an innocent to make themselves feel better. Standing up for yourself physically is the best way to stop a bully in their tracks but it's kind of hard to have that mindset towards a big muscly guy/girl when you're a tiny little dude/dudette. You'd have to be an idiot to assume you're going to win that fight, if you're that kind of arrogant person it's odd that you aren't the bully yourself in that case, as they pick on the "weak" people under the premise that they're never going to fight back. |
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| * Yu Narukami | Jul 1 2014, 12:35 AM Post #85 |
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I'm not getting into it; this is a serious discussion, not a therapy session. Again, why should any sort of bullying be tolerated? Even if it worked as you said, all it would result in is a world full of people who're 'tough', either because they were a bully or were forced to change because of bullying. |
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Jul 1 2014, 12:37 AM Post #86 |
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That sounds terrible Krystal. Who do you live with now? Dads need to be better for their daughters. That's why I try to be a good dad as much as possible, We need to do the best we can for our babies. I would never disown my daughter, but if I don't agree with something I will let her know. No Brofist, the right answer is to tell the kid he is wrong for bullying and then to tell the kid being bullied to make sure he knows that bullying is wrong and to say to stop. Sitting their and taking it is the worst advice ever. Say something. Telling the counselor was doing something. That's very good. Now, let's hear about your bullying problems Brofist, you've clearly gone through some horrible stuff man, what happened to you? I can't understand your situations by assuming. I come from a place where strength was required for survival. I was naturally aggressive had a horrible upbringing and was a loose canon. Sometimes the bully suffers as much as the bullied. People don't realize this though. I can help you out Snake don't be shy. Share your experiences. Edited by p123, Jul 1 2014, 12:39 AM.
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| * Yu Narukami | Jul 1 2014, 12:42 AM Post #87 |
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I thought bullying was okay, though? If it's a fact of life that you can't change, what's the point in doing that? |
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Jul 1 2014, 12:43 AM Post #88 |
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Why do you think bullying is good? Bullying is wrong. |
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| Krystal | Jul 1 2014, 12:44 AM Post #89 |
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It is, and they usually are. I worked three jobs and live alone, and right now financial aid for law school is taking care of living expenses so I can cut down the work to one job. But like I said, I am ridiculously blessed to have friends and creative outlets so I never get that sad. But if I didn't, all I would have is the family who raised me wishing I were dead. What if I thought they were right and wanted to be helpful? With cyber bullying, the only contact some people may have is the multitudes of messages telling them to kill themselves. If there is nobody who would miss them, who are they being selfish towards? That's a dark place, and while my utmost respect goes to the people who break out of it, I can't find myself having no compassion towards those that don't. |
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| Hurry My Curry | Jul 1 2014, 12:44 AM Post #90 |
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Cannot say that I have first hand experience of being bullied, I was bigger than anyone my age basically until high school. And there simply wasnt that much cyber bullying when I was growing up. I dont have any evidence for this, but how can physical bullying still happen? Schools have cracked down on that. This isnt a tv show where all the kids are scared of the bully and refuse to tell parents, admins, teachers. |
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