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| Tweet Topic Started: Apr 16 2014, 02:18 AM (5,923 Views) | |
| + Clearin | Jun 30 2014, 11:52 PM Post #61 |
 
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Standing up to a bully who is stronger than you will likely just get your a*** kicked harder... This isn't a movie world where yelling at someone and acting brave causes them to piss their pants in fear and run, if you mouth off to someone who could easily beat you up, they're going to easily beat you up. |
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| * Yu Narukami | Jun 30 2014, 11:52 PM Post #62 |
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What a disgusting thing to say. So, let me get this straight. If a person ends their own life because they're being bullied, it's their fault and they're a disgrace? They couldn't cope with hurtful actions that shouldn't be occurring in the first place, so they're the one at fault? That makes perfect sense, how could I have been so blind? It's almost as if I had a shred of emotion... Edited by Yu Narukami, Jun 30 2014, 11:53 PM.
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| Alex D. Boss | Jun 30 2014, 11:55 PM Post #63 |
 
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Actually guys.. If you stand up for your own will and fight against the bully, the bully doesn't expect that way and will quit bullying you because he will shet in his pants and will continue to live in shock. 90% of that would work.
Edited by Alex D. Boss, Jun 30 2014, 11:56 PM.
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| EMIYA | Jun 30 2014, 11:56 PM Post #64 |
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Yes it is, your making the same concept. Your saying that bullying is justified because if the victim was strong enough they would've stopped it themselves. This is exactly the same thing as me going up to a rape victim and telling them that they should've fought back more and that their rape was justified. And this is actually an ideology some people or groups have. There are women who have been raped who are shunned and abused socially because it was deemed their fault that they were raped and that they should've known better. That the exact same thing your bringing up. It's not the attackers fault its the victims fault. |
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Jun 30 2014, 11:56 PM Post #65 |
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Do you guys honestly think bullying is a good enough reason for suicide? You must have all had the most sheltered lives ever. Do you know how many people go through far harder hardships and don't have the liberty to erase themselves from existence? Suicide is and has always been a selfish move. The people you hurt because you couldn't live. It's a disgrace. Suicide is never the answer people, life is tough but you need to prosper on. A woman being unable to stop a powerful man sometimes can't be avoided. We need to protect our woman. We don't need to protect our men, men need to protect themselves. Edited by p123, Jun 30 2014, 11:59 PM.
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| SSJ | Jun 30 2014, 11:56 PM Post #66 |
 
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90% isn't 100 Alex. That's not always going to work. |
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| Krystal | Jun 30 2014, 11:56 PM Post #67 |
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I do agree that the choice is up to the person, but I don't see suicide as a weak way out. Instead, I see it as a very big risk. You are trading the rest of your life in hopes that nothingness is better than what lies ahead of you. I'd like to say that life is always better than death, but sometimes I'm not sure. I do think bullying is despicable, however. And I think that the bullies themselves would change if they were ostracized from passive society. It wouldn't happen as much if it weren't rewarded in some way. |
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| * Yu Narukami | Jul 1 2014, 12:00 AM Post #68 |
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You telling us to be realistic is hilarious. Not every single person has the same level of tolerance and strength, you know? Bullying can lead to somebody legitimately feeling that their life is in danger, or that it means absolutely nothing. No matter, I'm sure that breaking them down mentally is really beneficial to their development. |
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Jul 1 2014, 12:00 AM Post #69 |
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Suicide ruins families Krystal. Do you know how much your mother, your family would miss you? How badly it would hurt them? How it would completely dominate their lives? Suicide is a selfish, selfish move. Stick it out in the shiet with the rest of us. Life ain't always pretty but we must prosper on. Align yourself with good people and live the righteous route. It's not always about strength, it's about willpower. You need to say, No I will not allow you to bully me anymore and that's it. If you cannot beat the guy and he will beat you up, well hey buddy you are going to have to beat me up everyday until you treat me with respect. You have to be willing to go beyond their desire. You cannot just take it. You must do what you have to. Edited by p123, Jul 1 2014, 12:02 AM.
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| EMIYA | Jul 1 2014, 12:01 AM Post #70 |
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People commit suicide because of the stress put on them. Like Krystal said, the stress of their living life has become so great that they can no longer handle it. It's not human nature to kill yourself so when people do commit suicide due to this stress, it goes to show the kind of impact it has own human society and human psychology as well. |
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| + Clearin | Jul 1 2014, 12:02 AM Post #71 |
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You must be joking right? Do you have any idea how hypocritical you're being right now? Do you have any idea how badly bullying hurts the victim? How it completely dominates their life? Bullying is just as f***ing selfish, you're ruining someones life for your own sick pleasure. |
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Jul 1 2014, 12:02 AM Post #72 |
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Everyone has stress Brofist. Everyone has horrible things done in their life. It's not a good excuse to ruin your family's lives. Suicide is selfish and the easy, cheap way out. People need to tough it out, tis the way of life. Sounds like a lot of people here who choosed to be bullied huh? I've had instances where people wanted to try that crap and I put them in their place. You people should have stood up for yourself. Edited by p123, Jul 1 2014, 12:03 AM.
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| Alex D. Boss | Jul 1 2014, 12:04 AM Post #73 |
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Not everything is going perfect in the world right? You either win or lose, thats life right? |
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| * Yu Narukami | Jul 1 2014, 12:07 AM Post #74 |
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Oh yeah, I chose to get bullied. I chose to have people break me down mentally. Pfft, it's not as if I tried stopping it but couldn't. I'm just a masochist like that, y'know? Guess I shouldn't reproduce, don't want my inferior genes in the gene pool. |
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| Krystal | Jul 1 2014, 12:12 AM Post #75 |
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My family disowned me for having a boyfriend Dad didn't like and cosplaying. I asked Dad why would he throw out someone for a harmless hobby and a relationship when some parents lose their children. He said it would be easier to explain that I was dead than to explain that I was "a w*** playing dress-up." So uh, my family would be pretty thrilled. I have zero intention to kill myself, but I have an amazing network of friends and a wonderful boyfriend. Sadly, not everyone has that. I know I am not the only person who was told they'd be less of an inconvenience if they were dead, but I might be one of the few with friends who tell me otherwise. What if someone didn't have that? What if the words supporting their death were the only ones they heard? They may commit suicide to be less of a burden, in an attempt to not be selfish. I'm not saying that people who commit suicide make the right choice, but while we all have a lot of similarities, we all come from different experiences and our minds work in different ways. It's just not fair to condemn a dead person for being weak or selfish when you don't know the path that led to their suicide. Edited by Krystal, Jul 1 2014, 12:13 AM.
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