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Abortion Disussion and Arguments
Topic Started: Mar 31 2014, 11:58 PM (11,989 Views)
Krystal
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ice1994
Apr 2 2014, 08:50 PM
@Krystal That portion of my statement was sarcasm. & that honestly doesn't prove anything.

Here's what I'm ultimately getting at:
Imagine that your son's in a coma, but you knew that he'd get better soon because someone found a way to get him out of the coma. Would you kill him, even though he's gonna be fine? I'd surely hope not.

It's the same with a fetus. The fetus is basically a child in a coma, but you know he'll be all right once he's born. What's the point in killing your child, just because you didn't make your partner wear a condom or you changed your mind about wanting a kid? It's simply unreasonable and childish.
If your son was in a coma, he was already born. Regardless of what circumstances it happened under, you probably wanted him and had him at a point you were ready. You also would want him awake because you know the kind of person they are. If your son were Hitler, as you said, you probably wouldn't want him to wake up.

If the condom breaks, it is by no means unreasonable to not want the pregnancy, that's why you had the condom in the If you didn't make your partner wear a condom, it was irresponsible yes, but it is also just as childish to inflict the pain and misery on both the parents and the child to make them go through with the pregnancy just because they were irresponsible. That's awfully spiteful. It's not childish to not want a child and to choose to abort. There are a LOT of decisions that go into an abortion. For every woman that doesn't want a child, there are plenty who are. We are not in a time when we need to repopulate the earth. If you do not think you will be a good mother, don't have a child. I agree that an abortion is a sad, sad situation, but you cannot force a woman to have a baby she doesn't want.


It is not a woman's job to have a child. It is a mother's job to have a child. Some women were not meant to be mothers. Unfortunately, it sometimes takes that positive pregnancy test to make them realize it. The world still goes on, plenty (maybe too many) children are born, and in the meantime, those women can continue to contribute to society in their own way. Some women love being pregnant and act as surrogates for people who cannot have children. Some women would rather die. Nobody should feel 9 months of feeling fat, dreadful, and guilty, followed by years of emotional distress, just to have a baby because other people think they should.
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Here's something else you might all find interesting. A gallup poll during 2012 involving the 12 key Swing States, voters of each gender were asked what they believed was the most important thing that needed to be worked on.

At the top of the list for females at 39% (with a margin of error of about +/- 4%...do you know what they said? They said abortion was the most important thing to them.
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Apr 2 2014, 09:01 PM
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It's the same with a fetus. The fetus is basically a child in a coma, but you know he'll be all right once he's born. What's the point in killing your child, just because you didn't make your partner wear a condom or you changed your mind about wanting a kid? It's simply unreasonable and childish.

You know that's not always the case, right?

And even when it is, I think the wishes of a fully-conscious woman always outweigh the needs of a fetus.
I know that's not always the case. I believe that rape victims and children should be allowed to abort. (As stated in my previous posts)

On a side note. I feel like a lot of pro-choice women have an inferiority complex. (Not nessesarily the women in this thread, just a lot of women in general). Because it honestly seems like most of them feel inferior to men just because they don't have as much freedom as men with their bodies (they really shouldn't feel that way, but unfortunately, they do) and are just fighting to get on the same level of freedom as men. I mean, I can understand how they feel to some extent. But their bodies are radically different then men's. Therefore they should be treated differently. If men and women both reproduced, then their freedoms should be equal. however, that's not the case. I feel like most don't even care about abortion. They just want to be able to do whatever they want without men ever telling them otherwise.
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Apr 2 2014, 09:21 PM
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Apr 2 2014, 09:01 PM
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It's the same with a fetus. The fetus is basically a child in a coma, but you know he'll be all right once he's born. What's the point in killing your child, just because you didn't make your partner wear a condom or you changed your mind about wanting a kid? It's simply unreasonable and childish.

You know that's not always the case, right?

And even when it is, I think the wishes of a fully-conscious woman always outweigh the needs of a fetus.
I know that's not always the case. I believe that rape victims and children should be allowed to abort. (As stated in my previous posts)

On a side note. I feel like a lot of pro-choice women have an inferiority complex. (Not nessesarily the women in this thread, just a lot of women in general). Because it honestly seems like most of them feel inferior to men just because they don't have as much freedom as men with their bodies (they really shouldn't feel that way, but unfortunately, they do) and are just fighting to get on the same level of freedom as men. I mean, I can understand how they feel to some extent. But their bodies are radically different then men's. Therefore they should be treated differently. If men and women both reproduced, then their freedoms should be equal. however, that's not the case. I feel like most don't even care about abortion. They just want to be able to do whatever they want without men ever telling them otherwise.
Maybe some, but most women I know care about abortion because they don't want to be forced by lawmakers (mostly men) to maintain a pregnancy. Additionally, this would also be less of a problem if men were legally obligated to stay with any women he impregnates throughout the pregnancy.

It's not matter of women wanting the same freedom as men, but the fact that while it takes two to get pregnant, most of the laws governing abortion and pregnancy only constrain the women.


We are different sexes, but to say that a recognition of different freedoms is an "inferiority complex" sort of sounds like you're saying that men are superior and women just need to quit getting uppity about it.
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@Krystal I think that's a big part of the issue. I can't believe it didn't occur to me sooner. We need a law that forces a man to stay(or at least live) with a women that he impregnates at least until the child reaches a certain age (like 5 or so). Because kids under that age are a real pain in the neck. I think that if we had a law like that, more women would be okay with not being able to have abortions.

Edit: I reavaluated what you said on page seven. I'm past the "it's human, it should live" argument now.
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Apr 2 2014, 03:01 PM
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Apr 2 2014, 04:56 AM
Maybe the reason I'm so pro-choice is because I can easily sympathize with rapists and murderers. Damn. Maybe I'm just a terrible person all around.

I really want to make a thread about that someday... but now is not the time. :x
@ofg Sorry about my harsh comments yesterday. I should have treated your feelings with much more respect than I did. I guess i have a tendency to go overboard with my opinions on touchy subects like this.

@Saiyanhajime I see where you're coming from. But I think the main problem with abortion is that both sides have completely different opinions on what should be considered human. Let's have a look at the official definition:

hu·man be·ing
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a man, woman, or child of the species Homo sapiens, distinguished from other animals by superior mental development, power of articulate speech, and upright stance.

Now the next big question: should fetuses be considered children? If not, then my stance on the matter was arguably wrong.
I've explained to you like 4 times now why the literal term "human" as a genus of animals is not what people mean when they metaphorically use the word "human".

When you say someone is "human" , your'e not stating the obvious fact of their biology. You're not making sure everyone was clear that they aren't saiyan. You're making a comment about them being fallible, typically, and it's a reference to what makes humans special in our cognitive ability. Something a foetus lacks.

Biologicallu human? Yes. Metaphorically human? No. A person? No. Humanised? No. Anthropomorphic? No.
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@Saiyanhajime I understood what you said the first time. There was really no need to clarify.

But it really doesn't 'matter at this point cause I'm past the human thing now, thanks to Krystal. Right now I still consider fetuses human beings, but that's irrelevant. I think they deserve a chance to live simply because they're living things, who haven't done anything wrong.

Edit: @Brofist somehow I missed your post (bottom of page 7) Nice job, it tore my analogy to shreds. I don't nessessarily agree with everything you said, but I do agree with some of it.

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Apr 1 2014, 02:59 AM
Okay, go for it! Haha. That is what this section of the forum is for.
Okay, quick recap: I believe that only children and rape victims should be able to abort.

Here's why: If a child has a child, it could do serious damage to the child's body. The child that's having the child might even die. And the rape victim thing is self explanatory.

As for the other part of our discussion: Parents that use excessive drugs shouldn 't be allowed to abort because they (unlike the rape victims) chose to have a kid. And unlike the children, they don't have a risk of damaging their bodies when giving birth. And if they suddenly decide otherwise, they shouldn't be able to take the life of the fetus that they willingly brought into this world. They should be forced to go to a rehabilitation center if they don't change their ways and give the child up for adoption or to a relative to take care of until they become more stable.
How do you know that they "chose" to have a kid? Maybe they used every precaution possible and still ended up pregnant? What then? If they don't want a kid and can't take care of it, they shouldn't bring that child into the world, especially if they have a drug addiction. You can't just drop an addiction to drugs on the spot. The kid would be permanently damaged if left in the womb of a drug addict. :o_O:
That's a very good point, but most of the time precautions work. The thing is that the two having sexual intercourse know that there's a small chance of them not working and they should be prepared just in case they don't work. In other words, if you have sex with precuations, you're aware that there's a small risk of them not working. So if the women gets pregnant, she should still be responsible for the child.

& Yes, they should. Adults are supposed to be responsible with desicions. If they don't want a kid, they shouldn't have intercourse.

& I know you can't drop a drug addiction on the spot. That's why I said they should go to rehab.
So the woman should be responsible for the child she doesn't want, but not the man? And isn't she being responsible by aborting it instead of bringing it into a world to be neglected, abused, and abandoned?

Intercourse isn't all about children and shouldn't be treated as such. Yes, you should definitely take precautions if you're having heterosexual intercourse and don't want a child, but if someone slips up or the precautions fail, they should have the right to make their lives better and choose abortion if they want. Choice!

They should go to rehab while pregnant? :o_O:
Nope, that came out wrong lol. Both parents should be responsible. & No, i would consider that really irresponsible to bring a fetus into the world and just abandon it. If it comes into the world, it deserves a chance to live. It doesn't matter how bad the child's upbringing would be. I'm sure he/she will make friends, form bonds, and have an impact on many other lives, which would make up for it.

I don't think women should be able to chose in that scenario. If they're not children or rape victims, they shouldn't be allowed to abort. They should take responsibility for their actions.

& no they should go to rehab after they give birth :p
Yeah, but a fetus hasn't come into the world yet, and a fetus is not the same as a human being.

If they're not children or rape victims, huh? what makes those categories so special? What about women who will die if they carry a child full-term? Or women who are living on the streets? Or women with some disease that they could pass on to their children? The list goes on and on. There are always these silly little "exceptions."

They should go to rehab after they've already given birth to a drugged up, possibly mentally damaged baby?? :o_O:
A fetus is basically the first stage of a human being. (Unless you count sperm, but that's a different debate altogether) Fetuses are developed enough to feel and experience pain. Which is why I believe that they should be treated as humans.

Those are interesting points there. However, if a women would die carrying full term she shouldn't of had intercourse in the first place. (Unless she found out while she was pregnant, then that would be a reasonable exception) If a women lives on the streets she shouldn't be having intercourse either. But if she did, she should give birth to the child and entrust it to someone financially stable. As for the diseased mother, it really depends on the disease. If it's curable, she should be forced to have it. If it's severe and uncurable, I suppose that would be a reasonable abortion.

&it'd really depend how bad the mother was. You can't just assume that the baby would turn out that way.
Just jumping in here to say that there is very strong evidence that fetuses cannot feel pain until after they are born. There is something about the birthing process and changing to the outside environment as such which causes cognition to increase. Before that everything which the fetus goes through is mostly considered to be reflexes rather than from any cognitive choice.

And before someone says it i'm not saying pain relief and such shouldn't be given. We don't know 100% and better safe than sorry. For awareness though there is a lot of evidence against it - i'm no expert on the subject and just had a short lecture series on development by such an expert, so i'm quite willing to take their educated opinion on this.
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@ Tim. Like I pointed out in one of my earlier posts. This developmental attributes is helpfully directed by the use of Piaget's developmental theories which indicates that until about six or so weeks after birth, most of the actions from the baby come from reflexes. As a psycho-sociologist major here and someone who has taken multiple university developmental psychology classes across the years, this is actually something I can say that I am somewhat fairly knowledgeable on.

So even after birth, it's implied that baby is still going by reflexive instincts up until a select amount of time until it furthers along into the stages of development.
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http://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Neonatal_perception


Most studies show that a fetus is incapable of feeling pain until it is entering the third trimester, when the vast majorities of abortions are outlawed unless the most dire of health risks to the mother or the baby will be born stillborn.
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I know that's not always the case. I believe that rape victims and children should be allowed to abort. (As stated in my previous posts)

I've argued in several posts that there are always exceptions. If a woman is dirt poor and literally cannot support a child, she has a greater need to abort than a rape victim anyway, so why single out rape victims?

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On a side note. I feel like a lot of pro-choice women have an inferiority complex. (Not nessesarily the women in this thread, just a lot of women in general). Because it honestly seems like most of them feel inferior to men just because they don't have as much freedom as men with their bodies (they really shouldn't feel that way, but unfortunately, they do) and are just fighting to get on the same level of freedom as men.

Uh, yeah... And how does that equate to "inferiority complex?" Women are inferior when it comes to this issue, and they have a right to fight against it.

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I mean, I can understand how they feel to some extent.

Not really.

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But their bodies are radically different then men's. Therefore they should be treated differently.

Would you say the same thing about black people since their bodies are technically different from those of "white" people? Different color of skin, facial structure, etc. "Let's treat the woman differently because she has a vagina, and vaginas are icky!" (I see what you mean, but it's still silly).

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If men and women both reproduced, then their freedoms should be equal. however, that's not the case. I feel like most don't even care about abortion. They just want to be able to do whatever they want without men ever telling them otherwise.

I feel like you're trying to justify the fact that men are still superior to women. And yes, of course they do! I don't want a man telling me what to do ever. Or anyone, for that matter. I can live my own damn life.
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I know that's not always the case. I believe that rape victims and children should be allowed to abort. (As stated in my previous posts)

I've argued in several posts that there are always exceptions. If a woman is dirt poor and literally cannot support a child, she has a greater need to abort than a rape victim anyway, so why single out rape victims?

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On a side note. I feel like a lot of pro-choice women have an inferiority complex. (Not nessesarily the women in this thread, just a lot of women in general). Because it honestly seems like most of them feel inferior to men just because they don't have as much freedom as men with their bodies (they really shouldn't feel that way, but unfortunately, they do) and are just fighting to get on the same level of freedom as men.

Uh, yeah... And how does that equate to "inferiority complex?" Women are inferior when it comes to this issue, and they have a right to fight against it.

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I mean, I can understand how they feel to some extent.

Not really.

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But their bodies are radically different then men's. Therefore they should be treated differently.

Would you say the same thing about black people since their bodies are technically different from those of "white" people? Different color of skin, facial structure, etc. "Let's treat the woman differently because she has a vagina, and vaginas are icky!" (I see what you mean, but it's still silly).

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If men and women both reproduced, then their freedoms should be equal. however, that's not the case. I feel like most don't even care about abortion. They just want to be able to do whatever they want without men ever telling them otherwise.

I feel like you're trying to justify the fact that men are still superior to women. And yes, of course they do! I don't want a man telling me what to do ever. Or anyone, for that matter. I can live my own damn life.
For starters, I gave my opinions on what a poor women should do if she's pregnant. As for rape victims, I described why they should be singled out in my previous posts, along with minors. Please re-read my earlier posts. I don't find it nessessary to repeat myself on the matter.

Women are NOT inferior to men.

& no your black people argument doesn't make any sense. Ethnicity has nothing to do with what I was talking about. & Vaginas definitely aren't "icky." In fact, they're the exact opposite.

& I understand that women don't like being told what to do, but I still don't think that's a viable reason to be pro-choice.(not saying that's your reason)
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For starters, I gave my opinions on what a poor women should do if she's pregnant. As for rape victims, I described why they should be singled out in my previous posts, along with minors. Please re-read my earlier posts. I don't find it messessary to repeat myself on the matter.

Maybe you should read my older posts as well. Rape victims shouldn't be singled out. Rape is horrible, yes, but should it be one of two excuses for women to get an abortion? No.

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Women are NOT inferior to men. If you read my recent posts, you would know that I find women to be superior. :)

Yeah, I think I saw that, and I'm very confused.

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& no your black people argument doesn't make any sense. Ethnicity has nothing to do with what I was talking about. & Vaginas definitely aren't "icky." In fact, they're the exact opposite.

Vaginas are deep, dark, ugly pits of hell.

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& ah-ha! I knew it. That confirms my theory about some women wanting to abort just because they don't like being told what they can and can't do.

Whut. *truly baffled* Plz explain. I don't want a man telling me what to do. So what?


I probably shouldn't have even bothered responding again, but I'm super tired and loopy and bored.
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@ofg Okay, I'll gladly re-read some of your earlier posts! :p

& I think you mean deep, dark, beautiful pits of hell :) lol

&the last part I edited out cause I realized it didn't prove anything Haha.
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@ofg Okay, I'll gladly re-read some of your earlier posts! :p

What's there to be confused about? Women deal with more crap then men, like periods and child labor, so I think they deserve more credit then most people give them along with the status of being the superior sex.

&I think you mean deep, dark, beautiful pits of hell :) lol

&the last part I edited out cause I realized it didn't prove anything Haha.
Well yeah, but superior sex...? There isn't such a thing!

And of course. They're so deep, dark, and ugly, they're beautifuL!
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