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| Tweet Topic Started: Oct 21 2013, 05:55 AM (1,384 Views) | |
| Revolver_Ocelot | Oct 21 2013, 05:55 AM Post #1 |
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Well, it's been far too long since I posted or logged onto here for that I want to apologize. I know should of remained active on this forum. So I really am sorry, I don't have much of an excuse for my absence just that I found no meaning for going on, but now I've realized even if I don't have much friends on here, at least I have a community who can understand me and try to help. If you choose to not forgive me, I understand. I honestly deserve it. I need to work my way back up again, even though I never really amounted to anything on here which I hope now may change. Now, I'm not too sure about the policy of this subject but I was wondering if anyone can help me with a girl-related problem. You see I really like this girl and I've tried to ask her out on dates three times to no success. I then seek help from some girl-friends of mine whom tell me two different ways of handling what has happened. I tell this girl I like that (advice from one of the other girls) "though I have strong feelings for you as of now, you being in my life is by far more important than anything else. So I'll be your friend if that is what you want me to be, I can try to understand." Which results in her blocking me on Facebook and no longer talking to me. THE QUESTION: Though it's hard to not think of her, what should I do? Give up on her or wait for a timely resolution/solution? PS: I'm sorry for the lengthy topic. Also, if you need more details about the girl-related problem, feel to free to ask. Thanks. |
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| POOHEAD189 | Oct 21 2013, 07:17 AM Post #2 |
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You don't need to apologize to us. Life happens man, and you didn't have any responsibilities on the forum from what I know. As for the girl...they are attracted to self sufficient men. Forget about her, since she already overreacted from you just wanting to be friends in the first place. You were being selfless. If she blocked you? Her loss. |
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| Buuberries | Oct 21 2013, 10:04 AM Post #3 |
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Forget her. |
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| Accelerator | Oct 21 2013, 10:08 AM Post #4 |
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No need to apologize bud. Life comes first, so don't you worry about it. On the girl subject: Trust me when I say this, because I've had experience on more than one occasion with this kind of thing, forget about her. If she is willing to block you and just all together stop talking to you because you said that, she is not someone you want in your life. |
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| Revolver_Ocelot | Oct 21 2013, 03:29 PM Post #5 |
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Thanks overall everyone, I mean I over exaggerated some things like I always do because I give too much details. Life was kinda lonesome without this place, so why not join back in? Well, I know I didn't have much responsibility on this forum, but I felt it important to remain loyal to it at least. Ha, I'll try to forget her but considering my history with girls it'll take a long while, but like most humans (?) we to tend to forget quite easily. Thank you very much again! |
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| Pookie | Oct 21 2013, 05:21 PM Post #6 |
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Pookie Powa!
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You don't need to apologize Revolver Ocelot for living your life. It's no biggie. Regardless, I see that you're a Metal Gear fan so that's super epic. As for your girl problem, you should forget about her. She obviously isn't interested in you, therefore, you should find someone who is better and will pay attention to you. It may be hard, but it will benefit you in the end. |
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| Revolver_Ocelot | Oct 21 2013, 09:45 PM Post #7 |
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Ha, the funny thing is my life without this forum wasn't that great but I'm not complaining. I also see you're a fan of Metal Gear, which is awesomely awesome! ![]() I'll try to forget her, and hope for the best. Thank you. |
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| Pookie | Oct 22 2013, 12:27 AM Post #8 |
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Pookie Powa!
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I think that is for the best. Also, Revolver Ocelot is a baws xD. I'm glad you knew where my avatar was from haha. |
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| Billa | Oct 22 2013, 01:00 AM Post #9 |
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Thala na Gethu!
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Lol'd at it'll take some time to forget her. My pal took 8 years to forget his first-love & they never even had pysical contact (holding hands etc, not the direct contact). Never go after chicks, wait till they come after ya. True love is when the girl realizes her Lover's/admirer's love as sincere & acknowledges. Which rarely happen nowadays, so just pretend she never existed. |
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| Revolver_Ocelot | Oct 22 2013, 03:16 AM Post #10 |
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Honestly my life with girls leads me nowhere. I chase them, they chase me but then something changes in their mindset about me and POOF they no longer have the interest they once did. Can't be too disappointed though, I'm still young, and looking but with no record (meaning never had a gf) to back me up I feel as if I'm just sitting here boiling ready to snap. Oh well, I'll become the crazy cat man for a change, lol! Of course Pookie! Snake's and Meryl's relationship was beautiful in the first MGS. |
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| Pookie | Oct 22 2013, 03:31 AM Post #11 |
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I felt like they should have had a happy ending together instead of Meryl marrying Johnny. She should have stuck with Snake, but that's just me. As for girls, when you get older, you will find that there will be plenty of girls who will appreciate the fact that you don't have a crazy history with other girls. You'll find love when you least expect it. You seem like an overall nice guy so it's only a matter of time. |
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| Sam | Oct 24 2013, 04:07 AM Post #12 |
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As I told you the other day when you came over to watch The Wire (I need to work on Wire references in every post) forget her. As everyone has generally said, plenty of fish in the sea. And don't apologize, you aint got s*** to apologize for while I did miss having a friend from real life on here, a lot of people come and go. I've seen a lot of good people disappear from here and it's just something a veteran of the forums has to learn to get used to. In some way, I think, it has helped me overcome losing friends like that in real life. Like Jeremy or Rob, they moved on. It happens all the time here. I rarely even give that a second thought, whereas in the past I would normally feel betrayed.
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| * Ketchup Revenge | Oct 24 2013, 05:25 AM Post #13 |
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"Gentlemen, you can't fight in here! This is the war room!"
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I don't even see a reason to apologize. Most of us do this in our spare time or for fun, it's not like we're breaking anyone's hearts if we don't log in. |
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| DaemonsWench81 | Oct 24 2013, 05:57 AM Post #14 |
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First thing first...love MGS...yes I think Meryl and Snake should have stayed together...though I was always weirded out by her sayings in the end...Of course the options always sucked....let her die (which sucks) or save her after she has been a victim for hours for her to say "Its ok...the whole time I thought about you."...not exactly something you'd want to hear I would think. ANYWAY..back to topic. Girl advice is hard...every single last one of us is different. What would work for me probably wouldn't work for someone else. Now it sounds like this girl is no real winner for you and you should let it go. There is always someone out there for you.....and I can tell you that one day that girl is going to wake up and think...I wonder what would have happened if I had given that guy a chance. *smiles* But don't wait for that day...go out and find your happiness. The best thing you can do is always be yourself and just be nice. Its rather interesting that way...it's a long road but there will be a great payoff for it I'm sure. |
]There is no definition of beauty, but when you can see someone's spirit coming through, something unexplainable, that's beautiful to me. Liv Tyler | |
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| Krystal | Oct 24 2013, 06:35 AM Post #15 |
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Welllll, here's the question. Are you ACTUALLY ok with her just being your friend? If not, telling her that was neither fair to you nor her, because you'd be torturing yourself and misleading her. Don't completely forget about anyone you meet, but maybe stop seeing her as the one object of your affections? There really are other fish in the sea, and when it's meant to be, you won't have to do all the chasing. You both will come together and it will be wonderful. I mean, in a crude statistic, everyone in your entire bloodline before you got lucky, hence you being here. SOMEONE will come along. You seem like a nice person, so it'll happen. Girls really do like genuinely nice guys, we're just super wary of them being the 'nice guy' who is only being nice to get in our pants.
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while I did miss having a friend from real life on here, a lot of people come and go. I've seen a lot of good people disappear from here and it's just something a veteran of the forums has to learn to get used to. In some way, I think, it has helped me overcome losing friends like that in real life. Like Jeremy or Rob, they moved on. It happens all the time here. I rarely even give that a second thought, whereas in the past I would normally feel betrayed.








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