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| peep | Oct 19 2013, 10:46 PM Post #16 |
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can they work? yeah. do they work? not usually |
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| + Steve | Oct 19 2013, 11:06 PM Post #17 |
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Greetings. I will be your waifu this season.
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By internet relationship does that mean starting on the internet with no meeting before hand? Guessing so. They almost never work. For it to work you need to either be perfect matches or very open about yourself, fact is, most people lie about themselves on the internet. A little or a lot, either makes the difference. Starting out internet you come to idolize the person you're talking to, think they're amazingly beautiful and put them on these pedestal as the perfect being and perfect partner for you. But then you meet them, they seem a lot less good looking in person or are really reserved or flat out different in personality to what you know they are, really though you got it wrong and set the bar too high and those little disappointments will either ruin it for you or eat away at you for a long time. Most people that end up in these relationships are shy, on the internet they seem normal but in person they don't speak much at all, as they get to know you that changes and they open up of course but for most people if it's got that far there's already issues, both parties might even be shy the same way so it can't really move forward. They seem fun and talkative and then in person they're about as energetic and emotional as your average doormat(talking from experience as said doormat) With that, moral of the story; honesty is the best policy. If you do not explain that you're really shy or aren't realistic about your looks it's just not going to work unless the other person is either so desperate that they never give up or is just really really accepting. I think it's more to do with people not realizing that than it not being something that works out often, people are too used to acting like a different person online and can't really translate that in to their physical life. As for long distance relationships has to be either during a years long relationship or a generally strong one, not everyone can handle it. Personally I believe that if your partner...let's say, finds it easy to get a partner and also is quite young(<30) if you're going to be away for many months it's probably better to just end it because with all the attention they get they're most likely to give in and you'll be devastated probably with no closure. If it's not been that long anyway. |
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| Pookie | Oct 19 2013, 11:39 PM Post #18 |
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Pookie Powa!
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My relationship of 6 years (and still going) started out as a long distance, internet relationship. We dated using texting, phone calls, watching movies together, etc. Eventually, about two years ago, my bf made the trip here and since then, we have been together. It was definitely worth it though. It takes trust and a lot of commitment. In my opinion, they make relationships stronger. If you can stand the test of distance, then there are many other struggles you can certainly tackle. Edited by Pookie, Oct 19 2013, 11:41 PM.
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| DaemonsWench81 | Oct 19 2013, 11:58 PM Post #19 |
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I think ultimately it isn't about is it long distance or internet...face to face or any of that.... All relationships only work if you have two people who are compatible...if you aren't it isn't going to work even if you are face to face. And well when you love the one you're with (*snickers* yes I realize why that is funny) it is going to work if you work at it. |
]There is no definition of beauty, but when you can see someone's spirit coming through, something unexplainable, that's beautiful to me. Liv Tyler | |
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