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How to get a girl to like you? Because I'm sort of in love.
Topic Started: Oct 12 2013, 01:10 AM (4,086 Views)
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While I do agree that people should go into a relationship happy, he didn't mean that at all. He was trying to make it seem like all love/relationships were worthless and a waste of time.

You don't want to go into a relationship with the mindset of thinking that every girl/boy are into money and that relationships in general are bad. If someone thinks like that, I can't imagine them ever being happy or at least being at their happiest.

I don't think he meant anything about traits that were associated with making money in his statement. To be honest, yes the individual that is making that money is probably independent, dedicated, and hard working, but that doesn't generally mean that individual is happy or a good person in general. Money, to me, will always be associated with materialistic items.

I guess I am still into the fairy tale type love.
Edited by Pookie, Oct 16 2013, 11:26 PM.
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No

Oh, must've misread the second bit.

And I know he didn't mean that about the money; I was just saying he still has a point regardless of what he meant... just not in the way he originally meant it.
Edited by Buuberries, Oct 16 2013, 11:27 PM.
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I completely agree with Naked Snake on everything he said from page 4 onward. I think in general relationships are unnecessary and just troublesome. Humans are despicable creatures at their core. Make the kid and go on your way; that's all MN requires.

Are you still trying to get this girl, OP?
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You do realize that relationship's don't last for ever.........we all have to die someday......so to put in your terms,"Relationship's will always be associated with materialistic items to me".So in the long run your just wasting your time when there other more use full experience's you can get from life.

I am sorry but it's the truth :cool: .......relationships are bound to fail/have hurdles because human kind is not fundamentally unrestrained :cool:
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Oct 17 2013, 09:22 PM
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You do realize that relationship's don't last for ever.........we all have to die someday......so to put in your terms,"Relationship's will always be associated with materialistic items to me".So in the long run your just wasting your time when there other more use full experience's you can get from life.

I am sorry but it's the truth :cool: .......relationships are bound to fail/have hurdles because human kind is not fundamentally unrestrained :cool:
That isn't true, though. It's a known fact that plenty of couples have spent their entire lives happily in love with each other, so it can obviously happen. Love is a quintessential emotion in life - it's what keeps you going when material items cannot.

Maybe you just need to experience the feeling of being in love before you make a generalization like that.
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I think when you have a crush that is the feeling a love. A crush is like love at first sight.
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Oct 17 2013, 09:54 PM
I think when you have a crush that is the feeling a love. A crush is like love at first sight.
A crush is not love, at least not in my experience.

Crush <<< Love <<<<<<< in love

You can have a crush on someone without loving them, and you can love someone without being in love with them. When you are finally in love with someone, you will certainly know it. It is the most incredible feeling in the world - like a constant orgasm or something. lol

I've had crushes on people, and I've loved people, but I've only been in love once. It's very rare, and when you find it it's amazing unless it ends, at which point you feel like your life is completely over.
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People can function just fine without love. All humanity needs is to keep repopulating. Love is a mere trick that Mother Nature plays on us to get us to do just that.
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Oct 17 2013, 09:56 PM
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Oct 17 2013, 09:54 PM
I think when you have a crush that is the feeling a love. A crush is like love at first sight.
A crush is not love, at least not in my experience.

Crush <<< Love <<<<<<< in love

You can have a crush on someone without loving them, and you can love someone without being in love with them. When you are finally in love with someone, you will certainly know it. It is the most incredible feeling in the world - like a constant orgasm or something. lol

I've had crushes on people, and I've loved people, but I've only been in love once. It's very rare, and when you find it it's amazing unless it ends, at which point you feel like your life is completely over.
I felt like its the same thing. A crush is when you think about someone all the time and love is when you go out with your crush.
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It's really not the same, but I guess you'd have to experience it. Love is not simply going out with a crush. Love is a powerful emotion, not a relationship status.
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Having a crush is a emotion to : ) but it varies.

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Of course.

Real crushes only happen for me when I become extremely emotionally connected with someone - never on first sight. I may see someone that I think is attractive or intelligent, but that doesn't mean I have a crush on them. I'll relate this back to the first and most intense crush I had - that person was so attractive and amazing to me even though they weren't necessarily the most attractive person in the world. I fantasized about them and wanted to be with them.

Crushes are different from love because (in my experience) you see perfection in your crush. They are beautiful, amazing, and they can do no wrong. However, love is something that builds over time. When you truly love someone, you can be yourself around them without fear, you can tell them anything, you accept them regardless of their flaws, you know the true them and they know the true you. You feel like you can't be without that person, and when you're having a hard time making the relationship work, it puts a strain on you. You can literally feel your heart break when things don't work out. Being "in love" is even more intense than that.
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for me having a crush on someone is just being compelled by them. it can be how they look or their intelligence or w/e, but no real emotional connection. i've had crushes on lecturers just based on their intelligence, lol.

have also had a few man-crushes on friends based on their personality <.>
Edited by Buuberries, Oct 17 2013, 10:46 PM.
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Yeah I don't know were I got love at first sight from. Things like that develop sometimes faster than others.

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Oct 17 2013, 09:22 PM
@pookie/all

You do realize that relationship's don't last for ever.........we all have to die someday......so to put in your terms,"Relationship's will always be associated with materialistic items to me".So in the long run your just wasting your time when there other more use full experience's you can get from life.

I am sorry but it's the truth :cool: .......relationships are bound to fail/have hurdles because human kind is not fundamentally unrestrained :cool:
Okay, tell that to my grandparents who were married for 50 years or my parents who have been married 35 years. :=]:

Love does exist for your information. For you to suggest that their isn't eternal love means you know everything, which I'm sorry, but you don't.
Edited by Pookie, Oct 18 2013, 12:03 AM.
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