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How to get a girl to like you? Because I'm sort of in love.
Topic Started: Oct 12 2013, 01:10 AM (4,085 Views)
Cid
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I know this isn't much of a debate, but is there any advice? I honestly love her, and if I ask her out and get rejected, my heart would be broken. Any tips on how to make her interested in me?
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Cal
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Tell her you're into animated cartoons. Usually works.


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Tell her and if you get rejected say you were just joking just to see what she would say.
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<_< great advice there Cal...

@topic It depends really,have you talked to her before? Have you never talked to her before?
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Oct 12 2013, 01:14 AM
<_< great advice there Cal...

@topic It depends really,have you talked to her before? Have you never talked to her before?
I've talked to her once, but I don't know her well. I'm pretty popular, so I'm guessing that should bring me up a few.
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Oct 12 2013, 01:18 AM
Squall Leonheart
Oct 12 2013, 01:14 AM
<_< great advice there Cal...

@topic It depends really,have you talked to her before? Have you never talked to her before?
I've talked to her once, but I don't know her well. I'm pretty popular, so I'm guessing that should bring me up a few.
Are you in school?
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"I am the bone of my sword."

I'm going to give you the honest answer here. What you want to do is talk to her, get to know her and make a connection before you actually try to start getting into some relationship. If you try to get into some sort of relationship now, you have no idea what's going to happen. You've only talked to her once, you don't know anything about her and you want to just say "I love you" to a person you barely know?

Trust me, 90% of the times its not going to work out, believe me. I'm a Psycho-Sociologist Major and one of my main points is to be a relationships therapist. So many people try to get into relationships without first getting to know the person you're with. This is one of the reasons why divorce rates are so high in the U.S, people get into sudden relationships so quickly that they fail to realize that the person there with isn't even compatible with them.

Get to know her, be friends with her. See what her likes and dislikes are, make some conversations. Let a few months pass so that you two can honestly get to know one another and then, if you think you can form a relationship, go right ahead. But if you just want to confess because she's a cute girl, you better hope luck is on your side because if it was that easy, the divorce rate of the US wouldn't be above 50%.

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Oct 12 2013, 01:22 AM
TheManOfSteel
Oct 12 2013, 01:18 AM
Squall Leonheart
Oct 12 2013, 01:14 AM
<_< great advice there Cal...

@topic It depends really,have you talked to her before? Have you never talked to her before?
I've talked to her once, but I don't know her well. I'm pretty popular, so I'm guessing that should bring me up a few.
Are you in school?
Yeah, I did.
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Just be confident. Be who you are. If she doesn't like you, then so be it. Sure you will be said, but we all get rejected.

Girls certainly like confidence.
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You've talked to her once, but you're in love with her?
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"Corona veniat electis."

I talked to her once, a few times.

The first, I asked what time the period ends. I clearly knew when but idk.
She told me.

The next time I spoke to her, I helped her with her hw. She managed to gimme her number but only for me to give her the number of the one she has a crush on.
I didn't stop liking her yet.

I consistently help her with her hw.

She rejected me at the dance when I had no intention of asking her. It got me majorly depressed for a while. I got over it later.

but she still asked for hw help. And I still helped.

I still loved her until summer started, then I grew to move on and ignore her.

She made the honour roll due to my help.

I was one number off. Mainly because I slacked off in French, but one, freaking, number.

She didn't end up with the guy she wants.

I'm sitting here now in school, with a higher average than before, with more wealth to show off, and confidence to move on. I caught the attention of the girls. I'm entering the popular life but still an academic genius. I learnt from her rejecting me.

Go on, my son. Move on forth and even if you shall be rejected you will find light.
Edited by Stallin', Oct 12 2013, 01:58 AM.
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"Corona veniat electis."

edit: welp double.
Edited by Stallin', Oct 12 2013, 01:57 AM.
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Greetings. I will be your waifu this season.

Get to know her for a couple of weeks and then tell her you think you're falling for her.

Do not mention the word love, freaks them the f*** out unless they feel the same way which is like one in a billion billion billion.
I think girls tend to take a lot longer to become attached than guys, averagely anyway.


Get that out there soon though, within reason, like 3+weeks of being her friend if you get that far because if not feelings will get stronger and stronger to the point where it's practically obsession if not actually.
If you think rejection would be bad now...then would be...I can't even count how much worse.

Rejection is always going to hurt but the longer you wait the worse and worse it gets and it scales up very quick.

Not to be negative though not saying you will be rejected but if, if you waited like years and years to say it the rejection would be life ruining whereas now, perhaps a few months of negativity.
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Use your mouth. It helps sometimes.
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I wouldn't know for sure. I never experinced love for another female nor have I shown the slightest interest in any sort of relationship. I'm just jaded like that.

But I guess the common answer is to just get to know the person. That's how the sysfem works from what i've heard anyways.
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