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That special someone
Topic Started: Sep 26 2013, 06:14 AM (3,414 Views)
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I thought I liked people but after a while I go off them. Usually for quite small reasons like weight gain or a new hairstyle. I suppose that means I've never really been in love since those minor details wouldn't matter otherwise.


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Yeah multiple times I have not said thinks that I wanted to say in my loved ones it happened many times however at leat I'm saying most thanks that I want :lol:
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Sep 26 2013, 05:06 PM
Yeah multiple times I have not said thinks that I wanted to say in my loved ones it happened many times however at leat I'm saying most thanks that I want :lol:
this is off topic, but your not English are you?

cuz I have a really hard time understanding the 80 posts you make everyday
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Lol sorry about that my friend I haven't read up well the topic so sorry anyway yes I'm no english as you can clearly understand by my posts and I apologise for that since I'm not making sense at all :( anyway thanks for telling me :)
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No need for none of that. Let's just get back on topic and move on. Thanks.
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I was good friends with a girl that lived down the street, i knew her since we were very young and eventually realized i had feeling for her, she knew i liked her but i guessed she didn't feel the same way to be honest.
We hung out all the time for like 3-4 years always after school and we practically never talk now.
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Sep 26 2013, 08:53 PM
Lol sorry about that my friend I haven't read up well the topic so sorry anyway yes I'm no english as you can clearly understand by my posts and I apologise for that since I'm not making sense at all :( anyway thanks for telling me :)
It's okay you're understandable to me. You'll get better as you write more.

Also, it seems like everyone here has had a lost love in their younger lives. Regardless, these stories were truly inspiration and touching to read.
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I haven't really loved anyone yet but I am only 16 almost 17 so its not a big deal. I once liked a girl I remember, but I wasn't crazy for her or anything.

When I read Vegetassj4's posts I read them extremely fast but when I read Prof's posts I read them very slowly. Kind of weird :D
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It's kind of different for me, actually. The person knew how I felt at the time, and then things ended. What I never got to say was 'thank you'. And to be honest, I was too immature to say it at the time, and couldn't view things in the same way.

I thought I had this with a childhood friend, too. We lost touch for quite a while when we were around 13, and then much, much later on, I started considering that we could have had something (all of this based on how we'd spent our childhood together). We got in contact again and met up the once, at which time he had a girlfriend, and shortly after which I had a boyfriend. We lost contact for a while again due to location and met up again at which point we were both single.

We kissed, shared a moment, and it just didn't feel right. So that was the end of that.

I don't get out much beside that. Most of the guys I know are gay (and by that, I mean they are homosexual, I do not mean it as a slant). Meh, it'll happen. Eventually. But those were my moments, I guess. xD
Oh, look. Another personal blog about writing. Whatever.
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Sep 26 2013, 08:48 PM
Vegeta SSj4
Sep 26 2013, 05:06 PM
Yeah multiple times I have not said thinks that I wanted to say in my loved ones it happened many times however at leat I'm saying most thanks that I want :lol:
this is off topic, but your not English are you?

cuz I have a really hard time understanding the 80 posts you make everyday
You must not have the best reading comprehension skills, I can understand what he writes just fine and english is not my mother language.

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I don't really have experience with what you're describing Prof because I've never really been in love.
Have lost other non-romantic loves or have had regrets with them, and I know those have been very painful, some instantly so and in other cases the pain came with time.

It's always sad to lose someone in your life but unless either of the two parties has done something terribly wrong to break the relationship you just gotta accept it as part of the flow of life, sad as it is a lot of people come and go in life and most of those times neither side is solely to blame. If you can save the relationship or renew it that's great but if you can't or just don't for whatever reason then there's no use in beating yourself over it and wondering where you went wrong, the answer is rarely a clear definitive one.

In the experience you shared Prof, you are right, the best thing you can do is accept the situation for what it is and let it go. The longer you analize the ever useless coulda/woulda/shoulda (which very rarely represent reality like it is) the sadder and more regrettable the situation will seem.
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I don't think I ever felt genuine love in my life and I probably never will.

I'm just jaded like that.
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No

Good. It's almost not worth it.
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I think it's all about perspective.

When I was around 17, I had a fairly intense relationship with my ex girlfriend. We were very much "In love" and it got so far as us both falling out with family members, because they didn't either like us being together. It even went so far as to make me very ill, because I was stressing out about it so much.

A year or so later , at the age of 18, I started to head out to the bars/pubs and stuff (as you legally can at 18 in the uk), and found that this side of life was something I'd never experienced before, and thus changed my whole perspective on what is important, what isn't important and how you are supposed to feel in certain situations.

My point is, at certain ages, you have no idea what is best for you in the long term, because you have no life experience. At 18 when I was working full time, heading to have a drink with friends an trying to find a place to live on my own, your priorities change and you meet different people. At that time all of these things showed me that the person I currently dated, was not right for me, just like everybody of a certain age had told me before, and I broke up with her. What I thought was "Love" was actually me being very surprised that somebody like me at all, so I thought that must be what love is.

A few months down the line and I met my current partner (and now wife), who I feel exactly the same about now as I did when I first met her, which is totally different to how I felt before, and I now know this really is what is supposed to happen. I can be myself around her, I don't have to impress her with anything (Although it must be said I did try hah), we can have long conversations about anything at all. And most importantly when big decisions come up, (IE moving in together, having a baby), I'm not worried at all, because I know we'll still be together. Sure we're had out ups/downs, but all I know is we'll still be together at the end of the day.

So I think you can't feel bad about past life choices, all because you literally have no idea what you're talking about until you get to a certain age anyway, plus as I mentioned before different life experiences teach you a lesson for future experiences that you may have.
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No

Women are no good which is why I forced myself to turn gay.
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You "forced" yourshelf to but I thought that's set by the first time you will be born :)
*Also everyone thanks for the assistance on this topic I appreciate it all ^_^
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