| We hope you enjoy your visit to this forum. If you are reading this then it means you are currently browsing the forum as a guest, we don’t limit any of the content posted from guests however if you join, you will have the ability to join the discussions! We are always happy to see new faces at this forum and we would like to hear your opinion, so why not register now? It doesn’t take long and you can get posting right away. Click here to Register! If you are having difficulties validating your account please email us at admin@dbzf.co.uk If you're already a member please log in to your account: |
| That special someone | |
|---|---|
| Tweet Topic Started: Sep 26 2013, 06:14 AM (3,410 Views) | |
|
|
Sep 26 2013, 06:14 AM Post #1 |
![]()
|
Professor is up thinkin' too much instead of going to sleep like he should. This has been on my mind and kinda taking me away from my rest that I very much need indeed. Class is going to suck tomorrow.. But, Have any of you ever had a special someone in your life like a date, a high school sweetheart, someone you really loved, perhaps, or anything etc that's moved on in life and you never got the chance to tell them how you really feel or to make things right with them from a conflict before it was too late? Examples would be like them finding someone else for them, moving away, moving on, or getting married and just pretty much putting you in their past. Any of this, my friends? Edited by Professor Gohan, Sep 26 2013, 06:22 AM.
|
![]() |
|
|
|
Sep 26 2013, 06:19 AM Post #2 |
![]()
|
I don't know. This is a tough one for me. I had feelings for someone and kind of expressed them, but not how I would have liked to. Now they've kind of moved on, but we still talk. Not at all like we used to though. |
![]() |
|
| + Emmeth | Sep 26 2013, 06:23 AM Post #3 |
![]()
I ♥ Yoeri
![]()
|
I do have one of these people, but she knows I liked her. We are still friends, and I think, deep inside, I hope for more one day. The chances of this happening is slim though, based on how she "turned me down" before. My track-record of being turned down is really depressing to be honest... I sometimes feel like no-one can fall in love with me. |
![]() My Twitch Page | |
![]() |
|
|
|
Sep 26 2013, 06:23 AM Post #4 |
![]()
|
I've figured out that the chances of both parties actually falling in love are incredibly slim. It's unfortunate. |
![]() |
|
| + Emmeth | Sep 26 2013, 06:26 AM Post #5 |
![]()
I ♥ Yoeri
![]()
|
I don't think that's necessarily true though. I always keep faith when it comes to love, even if it's difficult sometimes. "There's someone out there for everyone". I live by that. And who says I can't have fun while I wait?
|
![]() My Twitch Page | |
![]() |
|
| POOHEAD189 | Sep 26 2013, 06:27 AM Post #6 |
![]()
|
I've experienced heartbreak, and let me tell you it's the worst experience I have ever had in my entire life. And I have felt...horribly beforehand. But still, there's always a chance. There's always hope. You just need to have faith. Honestly it was my religious faith that helped me through it, and it seems like it might not be too late on my end with my special someone. |
| Tha gaol agam ort. <3 | |
![]() |
|
|
|
Sep 26 2013, 06:36 AM Post #7 |
![]()
|
Of course. ![]() I believe that there's always someone out there who has it in them to love you, and who you can really connect with. It just takes a long time to find them in some cases. I feel like there's one person who truly loves me and understands me even though I don't open up to people at all. I hope I'll have them in my life for a very, very long time. Edited by Doggo Champion 2k17, Sep 26 2013, 06:46 AM.
|
![]() |
|
|
|
Sep 26 2013, 07:03 AM Post #8 |
![]()
|
Ya know, honestly.. I had a girlfriend back in High School that I can truly sit here and say that she was the only girl in my life that I truly loved. She was my mat-maid, she took extra care of me during wrestling season, she was especially there for all of my matches.. I mean, she was just there for me just like I was always there for her. We had a terrible issue that broke us up and we went our separate ways; me finishing up High School while she went her way starting up in college and whatnot. My whole senior year she was on my mind and we just hung out a few times just as friends and talked and stuff like that, but that was it and it wasn't much. At the time I guess I convinced myself that I didn't care. But just a few days ago, she got married and it's starting to make me feel a little different now. I'm starting to think about so many hypothetical scenarios about what if we worked things out or is things how they turned out now for the best and supposed to be. I dunno, it's kind of a confusing deal, but I feel like it should be forgotten at the same time. I don't know. It's just kind of a scary thought about where I would be if things did work out. |
![]() |
|
|
|
Sep 26 2013, 07:18 AM Post #9 |
![]()
|
Ive had a lady move on in her life without me, but i never missed the chance to vocalize how i felt. I feel missing those chances is a choice based on nothing but your own self confidence. But alas, i am married now to my best friend. I cannot complain in the least. |
![]() |
|
| + Pyrus | Sep 26 2013, 07:25 AM Post #10 |
![]() ![]()
|
There was one girl in high school that I really liked who genuinely cared for me like nobody else had/has since then. She'd have done anything for me, we connected on a crazy level, and I don't remember us ever really fighting. We were only together for a short period of time, but I do think about her randomly. I said plenty of things back then, but I don't think I ever truly told her how I felt exactly, and now it's probably way too late. Oh, I guess she lives in Japan now, and she's...married? Huh. At least she appears to be very happy. |
|
Spoiler: click to toggle
| |
![]() |
|
| Krystal | Sep 26 2013, 07:56 AM Post #11 |
![]()
Cooking Mama
![]()
|
I've had a few. I lost one friend by bringing up her drinking problem, another because she didn't like my boyfriend, dozens of others for saying something they didn't like...my friends are very "You're with me or against me" in that sense. I lose a lot of people because of my personal life choices, but I guess that if we lose contact with someone and it stays that way forever, we weren't really meant to have them forever. In fact, they weren't that special someone. It was a person we THOUGHT was that special someone. When you actually do find them, they don't reject you, they don't purposely go away, it's something really good.
|
| |
![]() |
|
| SpeedoTrunks | Sep 26 2013, 10:31 AM Post #12 |
![]()
|
I had a a potential high school sweetheart whom I never told that I liked her, only because I'd seen/overheard her friends telling her to ask me out, when she said it was "To late". I decided that if that's what she thought/wanted, then that was fine with me. We'd known each other since we were very young (Like 4), so maybe it was a bit to late, and that friends was all it was ever going to be. Things moved on, and I'd like to to think that missing on on that experience , led to me having other experiences and ultimately meeting my lifes love, my wife. |
![]() |
|
| + Steve | Sep 26 2013, 10:39 AM Post #13 |
![]()
Greetings. I will be your waifu this season.
![]()
|
I was in love with about the only girl in school who didn't treat me with contempt, I saw a nice future with her we were both pretty average and normal and that seemed nice(although now she looks like a model and is taller than me, dammit) I was working up the courage to start talking to her a bit more because our families are friends too. And then because of anxiety she left school fairly suddenly I know I probably wasn't actually a blip on her radar but everyone but her few friends seemed to ignore her, was rarely smiling so it sucked feeling I could have helped. Fun fact, on Yahoo Answers I answered a question about who you'd want to go to a desert island with and named the girl...6 years later a girl friends with the one I had feelings for found it and showed her it I hate Yahoo Answers. |
![]() Definitely not a succubus, fear not | |
![]() |
|
| Buuberries | Sep 26 2013, 11:07 AM Post #14 |
![]()
No
![]()
|
I was really good friends with someone 5-6 years older than me -- I was 20 at the time -- but I was still too beta back then so it took me ages to do anything about it. I'd only been with a handful of people from the ages of 16-20, but it was still my first rejection ever so it felt pretty s***. I got over it pretty quickly but I heard from a mutual friend she thought I was keeping my distance and didn't want to be friends anymore. The former was true for a while to allow myself to get over her, but the latter wasn't. We were on the same college course and about to go to university: she was staying in London but I was moving up north, so we only really skyped after that academic year ended. I was going through other s*** during that summer so I didn't really see her much. Unfortunately she took her life at the start of the academic year and I feel really s*** about not having told her she was a really good friend. Only a week before this she said she and her daughter wanted to come up for a visit :/ Then there's this person who, in retrospect, is the only one I think I ever loved. After all these years I'm still not fully over it, lol. "I love you and you're still my favourite person to talk to, but I don't want to have anything to do with you." Yeah makes sense, stupid b***. f*** what-if scenarios. It may have been your ideal situation in the past, but things are different now and we can't change them -- all we can do is learn from them and grow from those experiences. Sure you may have gained things you don't have now, but this version of you has also learned plenty of other things that you otherwise wouldn't have learned had you not experienced that heartbreak and taken a different path. Edited by Buuberries, Sep 26 2013, 11:10 AM.
|
| ¯\(°_o)/¯ | |
![]() |
|
| Pookie | Sep 26 2013, 04:36 PM Post #15 |
![]()
Pookie Powa!
![]()
|
I have to say that everyone's story here broke my heart in some way. I wish that life was all about rainbows and kisses, but sometimes it just doesn't work out that way. The response I quoted this the best response here as far as how to handle the past you left behind. You can't regret the past plain and simple. What you can do is learn from it. As much as you wish you could go back in time, you have to keep chugging forward. There will be better times ahead. Those people that you may have left behind should be seen as those special people that made you better in life. When I was around 16-17, I was dating someone for awhile. We never fought, he was friendly, and genuinely a good person. I didn't really have a special bond with him despite us getting along really well. However, when I met my current boyfriend, Hustla, I felt a special bond with him. I ended up breaking up with the other guy which did break his heart, but I felt it was for the better for myself. I did end up regretting what I did only because I felt guilty for hurting someone's feelings. However, I realize that I should have never felt that way because it would have been a lie to myself if I had stayed with someone that I genuinely wasn't in love with. I am still with my current boyfriend, and I am much happier. As for the other guy, he is also happier from what he told me so it worked out in the end. I feel the same will happen to the stories that I read here. While it may have been sad, things will turn out alright if you keep a positive mindset. |
| |
![]() |
|
| 2 users reading this topic (2 Guests and 0 Anonymous) | |
| Go to Next Page | |
| « Previous Topic · General Discussion · Next Topic » |
| Track Topic · E-mail Topic |
4:35 PM Jul 13
|
Theme Designed by McKee91
Powered by ZetaBoards Premium · Privacy Policy

























4:35 PM Jul 13