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Why do we always get angry with the people who we love?
Topic Started: Jul 9 2013, 09:11 AM (407 Views)
aerllyhong
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Why do we always get angry with the people who we love?
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Alex D. Boss
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Why? Hmm , now you questioned , but its a question to have a answer. Then again , I could give you a answer , with a good explanation , so you can learn maybe things. But anywho , when I love someone , I starting to get mad at him , cuz I love him more. The more you get mad at him , the more you will love him , because you want to handle thangs , you knaw what I mean.
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You hold that person to a higher standard so if they mess up you're more likely to get upset about it, or you don't want them hurting themselves so you allow their mistakes to eat at you easier than some stranger's.

Me, I get angry at everyone regardless.
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Because they need to stop trying to escape my basement.
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StrawHatCrew
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Clearin
Jul 9 2013, 02:46 PM
Because they need to stop trying to escape my basement.
Oh bald, little Psycho, I see :|
Edited by StrawHatCrew, Jul 9 2013, 03:13 PM.
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It truly was a Shawshank redemption

Because the people we love are the people that we expect to never hurt us. So we take everything that happens and magnify it, turning little events into pointlessly big incidents that cause a lot more trouble than they should. There's a certain sense of vulnerability, because you open yourself up to your loved ones, so you value what they think more, and are affected by their view of you more.

Also what OFG said about having higher expectations for your loved ones. Your active interest in how their lives turn out or what sort of person they are means you get angrier than you would a stranger because you could care less what a stranger does.
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"Then you've got the chance to do better next time."
"Next time?"
"Course. Doing better next time. That's what life is."
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