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Relationship Break-up Advice
Topic Started: Jun 16 2013, 03:29 PM (1,446 Views)
SpeedoTrunks
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This might just be me, but i've done the whole "lets stay friends" thing, and it just never works out. I've only really thought that people do this, just in case you end up back with that person.

The long and short of it seems to be that when you break up, nobody really wants to hang around with there ex anymore. This is because you're not with them anymore, you don't really need to be "nice" to each other, hence major fall outs, post break up.

As others have said, just cut all ties and move on. Whether that's just perking your self up with some "retail therapy" or doing the obligatory "Man goes out and tries to erase all memories with drink" method, is up to you, but sometimes it works.

Just take your time, do what ever you feel is best, but you need to have a word with yourself and personally understand that you need to move on, otherwise you'll be in a deep dark hole for some time. I know, as I've been there!

Anyway, maybe a bit to "Practical" sounding, but I do wish the best of luck!
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Time heals all wounds, friend. You can only do what's right for yourself. Moving on, while it may seem impossible and that you made so many mistakes, is the only thing you can do. Try to keep a healthy friendship with her and that's all you can do. We're young, we make mistakes when we think we are doing ourselves a favor. You're not alone. Remember that.
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Its best to change location (go somewhere) for some time and dont think about it.

When you come back it would be all diffrent for sure...

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Thanks guys. It came a lot later than it should have done, but yesterday I did have a moment when I realised that I've accepted that I'm gonna have to move on and cut out the contact with her. It upset me, because I guess that means saying goodbye to 'my old ex' if that makes sense, the one that I had the memories with and the feelings for. I just realised that I was beginning to see them as two different people, and that means that she's not the person I have those feelings for anymore.

So although I know it's gonna be tough as hell, and it took me long enough to get to this point, I think I'm ready to move on. I just wanna say that I appreciate you all taking an interest and giving me advice, I really do. Thanks again :)
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