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Am In love?
Tweet Topic Started: May 21 2012, 02:28 PM (759 Views)
Daniel	May 21 2012, 02:28 PM Post #1
I like Pokémon Posts: 2,576 Group: Beautiful Mind Member #5,540 Joined: December 22, 2010 Gender Male Country Canada Favourite Anime Dragonball Z, Death Note, Attack on Titan, One Punch Man, Yu Yu Hakusho, I like a lot of stuff. What Browser do you use? Google Chrome Favourite Manga Deathnote, Black Cat, Attack on Titan, I like a lot of stuff.	Okay, so their is this girl named Cezara, and I have been friends with her since Grade 5, up until now we have just been good friends no feelings for each other on my part, I dont know if she ever liked me but anyways. Everytime I see her I feel happy, I can not stop thinking about her, I want to be with her all the time. For example on Skype, iI have 2-3 hours conversations with her, when usually I should be playing videogames with my pals. She is so beautiful, and kind, but I dont know how to tell her I like her. HELP I dont know if this is a crush or love, I have known her for 4 years now. My age is undisclosed. Edited by Daniel, May 21 2012, 02:29 PM.



+ Byakko	May 21 2012, 02:57 PM Post #2
I once gave a Kangaroo a heart-attack just by staring at it Posts: 10,219 Group: Legend Member #158 Joined: February 7, 2005 Gender Male Favourite Anime Naruto Shippuuden What Browser do you use? Google Chrome Favourite Manga Fullmetal Alchemist	I've not read your post, beyond the first sentence, because there's no point in it. Only you can know if you're in love or not. Nobody can tell you. If you were in love with this girl, you'd know it. What love feels like is different for everybody. My opinion is that, if you're asking if you love this girl, you've got feelings for her. Invite her out on a date (make sure she knows it's a date), keep it low key, play it cool, and don't come off too strong. Good luck
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Daniel	May 21 2012, 03:10 PM Post #3
I like Pokémon Posts: 2,576 Group: Beautiful Mind Member #5,540 Joined: December 22, 2010 Gender Male Country Canada Favourite Anime Dragonball Z, Death Note, Attack on Titan, One Punch Man, Yu Yu Hakusho, I like a lot of stuff. What Browser do you use? Google Chrome Favourite Manga Deathnote, Black Cat, Attack on Titan, I like a lot of stuff.	I guess your right man, i think I just need to vent my feeling, as it was all bottled up. Thanks for the advice.



Bluesummers	May 21 2012, 03:47 PM Post #4
Posts: 174 Group: Duplicate Member #7,500 Joined: April 2, 2012 Gender Male Country Canada Favourite Anime Inuyasha, Trigun, DBZ What Browser do you use? Chrome	2-3 hour conversations eh? Daaaaammm. I guess she likes you back, but you probably know that by now. You can always simply tell her you like her. You don't have to jump and tell her your absolutely in love.



+ Pelador	May 21 2012, 04:19 PM Post #5
Crazy Awesome Legend Posts: 25,663 Group: Legend Member #4,634 Joined: December 12, 2009 Gender Not Specified Country None Favourite Anime HunterxHunter What Browser do you use? Firefox Favourite Manga Dragonball	I don't know whether it's just because I have a mental disorder, but I have a real problem figuring out whether I'm in love or just want one thing. Surely you can't know if you're in love with somebody unless you've been through certain tough situations and still want to be with them? Like for instance living together and working your way through financial troubles. Or dealing with the loss of a child? If you can still love somebody after situations like that then I'd say it is more than likely true. Honestly, so many people think they're in love and then one little thing happens and they decide they don't want it anymore. I suppose my point is that nobody can be truly sure until the worst of thew worst happens to you both.
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* Bex	May 21 2012, 05:10 PM Post #6
★ Bextreme Dream ★ Posts: 9,435 Group: Retired Staff Member #1,545 Joined: July 5, 2006 Gender Female Country United Kingdom What Browser do you use? Google Chrome	Well, perhaps it's young love. Maybe there's room for something that isn't just a crush or physical attraction and full blown love. I read all of your post and it seemed really sweet to me. I went "Aww" and there's not many times I do that to people around here haha. 2-3 hour conversations must leave you very happy if you keep having them, and I hope that you do. Perhaps you could do what Mike said and ask her on a date or something. I think that the question you need to ask is, would you instantly hate her if she said no to a date? Cuz a lot of people, some on this forum, get really angry and vengeful or mopey when they get rejected, but if you really do love her then perhaps you wouldn't be angry with her and try to understand why she said no. After all, it's that kind of care and understanding that differentiates love from physical attraction and defines you as a good, decent person. However, don't take this as me saying she will say no. I have no idea why, maybe it's just because I thought it was cute, but I think that she'd say yes to going on a date with you - especially if she spends a lot of time talking to you. I'm glad you decided to tell us about it, no need to cry for help, you seem like a very nice and sensitive person , and girls like that. They also like people who can make them laugh, make them feel safe and are confident too, so you need to be confident and nice as you can. Do you think that's the sort of thing you'd like to provide her with? Cuz those are good signs too. It's better than just "I'd like to slip her one" at least XD
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Daniel	May 21 2012, 05:44 PM Post #7
I like Pokémon Posts: 2,576 Group: Beautiful Mind Member #5,540 Joined: December 22, 2010 Gender Male Country Canada Favourite Anime Dragonball Z, Death Note, Attack on Titan, One Punch Man, Yu Yu Hakusho, I like a lot of stuff. What Browser do you use? Google Chrome Favourite Manga Deathnote, Black Cat, Attack on Titan, I like a lot of stuff.	Thanks for the advice Storm, I might ask her out tonight in person, or if i chicken out, maybe on skype :P. Thanks for all the advice guys



+ Dan	May 21 2012, 08:28 PM Post #8
Better than Red. Posts: 1,571 Group: Elite Member Member #5,757 Joined: February 21, 2011	Definitely ask her out. I find that relationships tend to be better if you start off as friends and work your way up to it. Also can I just say that I think Cezara is a beautiful name.
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Billa	May 21 2012, 10:37 PM Post #9
Thala na Gethu! Posts: 4,218 Group: Member Member #7,273 Joined: February 3, 2012 Favourite Anime Nothin What Browser do you use? Nothin Favourite Manga Nothin	Pal, I guess you need to clarify on some aspects. First, you mentioned on not developin feelings, at least on your part. Next, you can't stop thinkin about her. Then, you think she's beautiful & most importantly, you dont know how to say that you LIKE her. Im not sure on your style, but as much as I know, for some girls, friendship, feelings, likin are 3 seperate things. U jumble these up, you'll get nothin other than bein seperated for good. If she likes you or treats u like her best friend, so be it. In any case, you want her to be happy. Its just that if she's with you, you feel even happier. Say that to her. Let her know what you feel. If she's the type that defines ego, I bet it'll take some time.



Master of Dragon Ball	May 22 2012, 07:09 PM Post #10
Posts: 578 Group: Duplicate Member #6,330 Joined: June 8, 2011 Favourite Anime Ask What Browser do you use? Ask Favourite Manga Obvious	Personally, I do not think you are in love until you find yourself willing to do anything to be with that person, until you are willing to do anything to make them happy even if it clashes with your opinion, until you view all of their flaws as perks instead, until you are willing to protect them even at the cost of your own life. That is love to me.



POOHEAD189	May 31 2012, 04:27 AM Post #11
Posts: 3,186 Group: Member Member #4,559 Joined: October 30, 2009 Favourite Anime Dragonball/Z Favourite Manga Dragonball	I, myself, am in love. And it wasn't until I made a decision that led to her happiness, yet destroyed mine, did I realize it. I think that proves if you're in love. If you're willing to give up everything that makes you happy, to make sure she is as happy as she can be.
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Fulgore	May 31 2012, 08:50 AM Post #12
The Darkness Returns Posts: 3,163 Group: Member Member #5,205 Joined: September 2, 2010	POOHEAD189 May 31 2012, 04:27 AM I, myself, am in love. And it wasn't until I made a decision that led to her happiness, yet destroyed mine, did I realize it. I think that proves if you're in love. If you're willing to give up everything that makes you happy, to make sure she is as happy as she can be. It's true Poohead. I know the feeling too man. It hurts a lot, but you can't make someone miserable if you love them.
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Pylons	Jun 1 2012, 09:35 PM Post #13
Posts: 1,998 Group: Member Member #7,432 Joined: March 11, 2012	Hope it works out for you TS. It certainly sounds like you're in love. Just remember that if you really care about her than you'd want her to be happy even if you're not a major part of it. From reading your post though it sounds like you're a big part of what makes her happy though.
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+ Pyrus	Jun 1 2012, 09:40 PM Post #14
Posts: 39,342 Group: Legend Member #5,088 Joined: August 1, 2010 Gender Not Specified Country Chile	Byakko May 21 2012, 02:57 PM I've not read your post, beyond the first sentence, because there's no point in it. Only you can know if you're in love or not. Nobody can tell you. If you were in love with this girl, you'd know it. What love feels like is different for everybody. My opinion is that, if you're asking if you love this girl, you've got feelings for her. Invite her out on a date (make sure she knows it's a date), keep it low key, play it cool, and don't come off too strong. Good luck Yep, this. 100% this. I hope it works out for you, bud. Love is a tricky thing.
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