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| Hugga_Bear | May 14 2012, 10:12 PM Post #16 |
 
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My best friend died pretty recently, I kept stoic throughout everything, he was in hospital for a day before his heart gave in, I called him an idiot and threatened to kill him if he died, almost broke down but I sat there for a bit and just talked at him. He couldn't hear me but it felt like saying goodbye and that closure helped*. Through the funeral, my speech, I kept it straight, didn't shed a tear. I left after a bit and came back the next day, when no one was around and just broke down. It's rare for me to cry and this was a full blown deluge. I keep it in around other people but I can let it go when I'm alone. No one really knows what I've been through the last few years, a lot of ***** but it's mine... I dunno, I tried telling someone and it didn't help, just made me feel worse, I think we all have our ways of coping, some might be better and I think talking about it is healthy but it's our way. *My mentor (basically the only guy I've ever really admired) passed away in November, we all knew it was coming but still I never really got to say goodbye and it was a lot harder. He lives in the states so I couldn't even go to his funeral. It was a lot harder that way. But yeah, take it the way you take it and know you're not alone, life can sting sometimes, it can really hurt but there are people out there to talk to. Don't do anything stupid, I drank for a while and it made my life hell. You're allowed to ask for help, my biggest weakness is probably refusing to do that :P |
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