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Child badmouths parents on facebook, parent shoots laptop to punish her
Tweet Topic Started: Feb 11 2012, 12:15 PM (3,826 Views)
Balthazor	Feb 17 2012, 11:17 AM Post #76
I'm damn serious Posts: 1,762 Group: Member Member #3,096 Joined: January 7, 2008 Favourite Anime DBZ , YuYu Hakusho ,Inuyasha , Yu Gi Oh , Pokemon What Browser do you use? Internet Explorer Favourite Manga DBZ , YuYu Hakusho ,Inuyasha , Yu Gi Oh ,Naruto	Lol getting paid for chores. Your parents pay for you to go to school,for you to eat,medical etc and all they ask for you to do is do some simple chores and homework.What's so hard here to understand LMAO. Nice Glock.
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SirParagon	Feb 17 2012, 11:34 AM Post #77
Sparking! Posts: 808 Group: Duplicate Member #6,577 Joined: August 7, 2011 Favourite Anime Baccano, Mushi-shi, Excel Saga, NHK What Browser do you use? Chrome Favourite Manga Berserk	Children do not choose their parents, it was the parent's decision to have a child, it's an involuntary relationship. If the parents fail at properly forging a bond of mutual love and respect then they cannot rationally punish the child. Edited by SirParagon, Feb 17 2012, 11:36 AM.
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sylentknyte	Feb 17 2012, 04:40 PM Post #78
Posts: 790 Group: Member Member #5,932 Joined: March 30, 2011	SirParagon Feb 17 2012, 11:34 AM Children do not choose their parents, it was the parent's decision to have a child, it's an involuntary relationship. If the parents fail at properly forging a bond of mutual love and respect then they cannot rationally punish the child. I agree with this. Parents owe their children everything, because they were the ones that put them into existance. Thats why nothing on this earth makes me angrier than horrible parents. If you don't intend to dedicate your life to the life you are creating, then either wear a condom, or don't **. It's real simple. http://dbzf.co.uk/pages/rules/ 4. Do not attempt to bypass the word filter. Edited by Rogue**, Feb 17 2012, 06:47 PM.



Seruphim	Feb 17 2012, 06:09 PM Post #79
Cell's Angel Posts: 3,242 Group: Goddess Member #867 Joined: November 15, 2005 Country United States Favourite Anime DBZ What Browser do you use? Chrome	SirParagon Feb 15 2012, 05:47 AM The use of violence to address problems is an admittance of moral weakness and a clear exposure of insecurity. It does way more harm than good (if any good), utterly disgusting. This is just freaking madness, a complete denial of his own mistakes, devoid of any integrity as a parent. Regardless, his choice of action only reinforced his daughter's negative feeling towards him. You don't solve a headache by beating your skull against a brick wall. Shooting the laptop fixed absolutely nothing, it did the exact opposite. I'm kinda mixed on this whole thing. I think his parenting style is fine, that he should have had the strong reaction he did when he saw his daughter acting like this. But at the same time, I totally see what you're saying too. Meeting her with violence will most likely cause more problems. Maybe not external ones, but she might start resentment towards him for acting out so harshly for only a second offense. If it had been me, I would've talked to her about it, asked why she felt this way, why she thinks this way, etc. Address the problem directly with talking and understanding each other.



Meowth	Feb 17 2012, 06:47 PM Post #80
=._.= Posts: 130,670 Group: Princess Member #23 Joined: November 22, 2004 Gender Female Country United Kingdom Favourite Anime The Melancholy of Haruhi Suzumiya What Browser do you use? FireFox Favourite Manga Fruits Basket	sylentknyte Feb 17 2012, 04:40 PM SirParagon Feb 17 2012, 11:34 AM Children do not choose their parents, it was the parent's decision to have a child, it's an involuntary relationship. If the parents fail at properly forging a bond of mutual love and respect then they cannot rationally punish the child. I agree with this. Parents owe their children everything, because they were the ones that put them into existance. Thats why nothing on this earth makes me angrier than horrible parents. If you don't intend to dedicate your life to the life you are creating, then either wear a condom, or don't ****. It's real simple. Perants don't owe their childern anything if they don't do anything in return. A spoiled child is one who gets everything for nothing and that is wrong as well as bad peranting in itself, conventional punishments, as he stated he tried in the opening (confiscating laptop/grounding) the last time she made a stupid Facebook post didn't work and that's why the second time she did it, he shot it. If she had made a similar post while she had a job, she would have most likly lost her job, something which possibly holds more value than a laptop. To be honest, if she isn't willing to give something back for the things she gets, she shouldn't get anything. Also, first world problems, children in some parts of the world have to work to support their family and she's complaing about doing a few dishes and cleaning her bed? Please.



sylentknyte	Feb 17 2012, 08:45 PM Post #81
Posts: 790 Group: Member Member #5,932 Joined: March 30, 2011	Rogue Feb 17 2012, 06:47 PM sylentknyte Feb 17 2012, 04:40 PM SirParagon Feb 17 2012, 11:34 AM Children do not choose their parents, it was the parent's decision to have a child, it's an involuntary relationship. If the parents fail at properly forging a bond of mutual love and respect then they cannot rationally punish the child. I agree with this. Parents owe their children everything, because they were the ones that put them into existance. Thats why nothing on this earth makes me angrier than horrible parents. If you don't intend to dedicate your life to the life you are creating, then either wear a condom, or don't ***. It's real simple. Perants don't owe their childern anything if they don't do anything in return. A spoiled child is one who gets everything for nothing and that is wrong as well as bad peranting in itself, conventional punishments, as he stated he tried in the opening (confiscating laptop/grounding) the last time she made a stupid Facebook post didn't work and that's why the second time she did it, he shot it. If she had made a similar post while she had a job, she would have most likly lost her job, something which possibly holds more value than a laptop. To be honest, if she isn't willing to give something back for the things she gets, she shouldn't get anything. Also, first world problems, children in some parts of the world have to work to support their family and she's complaing about doing a few dishes and cleaning her bed? Please. (First off, sorry for not using the word filter. I didnt know what I did was wrong and I won't to it again) I completley agree with you, and I can see why you took what I said out of context, because I didnt explain myself very well. This guy, Tommy Jones, isnt the kind of horrible parent I was talking about. I just thought that what he did was immature. I didnt mean that he should have to pay his daughter, bend over backwards for her, or anything like that. I was talking about horrible* parents. The ones that neglect their kids. The ones that won't pay child support, and abandon their kids. The ones that sexually abuse their kids. The ones that blame their kids for their problems, etc. I hate how people will blame their problems on an innocent life that they created. So in comparison, the guy in this FB video just acted irrationally, and was somewhat immature imo, not the horrible people I was talking about.



Cal	Feb 27 2012, 12:43 AM Post #82
I may not deserve to live, but I will protect those in my reach with my reverse blade! Posts: 5,259 Group: Member Member #6,087 Joined: April 25, 2011 Gender Female Favourite Anime hentai What Browser do you use? hentaibrowser Favourite Manga hentai	Just in case anyone is keeping up lol



~~Paikuan extreme~~	Feb 27 2012, 01:05 AM Post #83
Posts: 5,568 Group: Suspended Member #5,921 Joined: March 29, 2011 Favourite Anime dbz What Browser do you use? ie9 Favourite Manga akira	Cal Feb 27 2012, 12:43 AM Just in case anyone is keeping up lol he rambled a little after his rant about phil, but overall? his post is win Dr phil cant even smell the sh*t on his own knees.



~~Nimbo-Bimbo lord of all noobs~~	Feb 27 2012, 01:08 AM Post #84
Posts: 2,687 Group: GTFO Member #6,954 Joined: November 6, 2011	Cal Feb 27 2012, 12:43 AM Just in case anyone is keeping up lol Great comeback, actually, that is, his to Dr Phil's. I pretty much agree with everything he said. Anyway, I think that my opinions may have changed a bit since I last posted. I think that, on a technicality, he had to right to do what he wanted with the laptop, seeing that he paid for it. I also believe that that daughter should have been punished in some way, but I believe his method was a bit too extreme. I'm somewhat impartial to what he did, but if I had to give my final opinion, I'd say there was a better way to deal with the problem (ie: talking to her, compromising, calmly explaining to her why she's wrong, etc...), but his way to deal with it was legit, but too extreme.



Cal	Feb 27 2012, 02:29 AM Post #85
I may not deserve to live, but I will protect those in my reach with my reverse blade! Posts: 5,259 Group: Member Member #6,087 Joined: April 25, 2011 Gender Female Favourite Anime hentai What Browser do you use? hentaibrowser Favourite Manga hentai	On an interesting note, as it says in this video and NBC reported on their website over 120,000 people were polled and 73% of people said the punishment of shooting the laptop was the right decision and only 10% thought it was a bad idea.



~~Nimbo-Bimbo lord of all noobs~~	Feb 27 2012, 02:32 AM Post #86
Posts: 2,687 Group: GTFO Member #6,954 Joined: November 6, 2011	Cal Feb 27 2012, 02:29 AM On an interesting note, as it says in this video and NBC reported on their website over 120,000 people were polled and 73% of people said the punishment of shooting the laptop was the right decision and only 10% thought it was a bad idea. .... So what did the other 17% think?



Cal	Feb 27 2012, 02:43 AM Post #87
I may not deserve to live, but I will protect those in my reach with my reverse blade! Posts: 5,259 Group: Member Member #6,087 Joined: April 25, 2011 Gender Female Favourite Anime hentai What Browser do you use? hentaibrowser Favourite Manga hentai	Flying Nimbus Feb 27 2012, 02:32 AM Cal Feb 27 2012, 02:29 AM On an interesting note, as it says in this video and NBC reported on their website over 120,000 people were polled and 73% of people said the punishment of shooting the laptop was the right decision and only 10% thought it was a bad idea. .... So what did the other 17% think? Probably no opinion either way.



Pookie	Mar 30 2012, 04:22 PM Post #88
Pookie Powa! Posts: 18,039 Group: Princesa Pookie Member #1,340 Joined: April 21, 2006 Gender Not Specified Favourite Anime Dragonball Z What Browser do you use? Google Chrome and Firefox	Kids today are wayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy too pampered. This is why there are so many bullies around that everyone complain about. It is because they don't get disciplined and do whatever the hell they feel like it. You can say what you want about hitting a child or giving them some spanking once and awhile, but honestly, some of them need it. My parents gave me some tough love sometimes, and I came out fine. I don't see the problem with giving a child some tough love when they misbehave. I totally agree with the parent on this one. His kid should not be bad mouthing her parents. Not all parents are good ones and I agree with that, but I am pretty sure that a lot of parents do try to do their best to give their child better than what they had. If I bad mouthed my parents, OOOooooooo man! I don't even want to say what would happen. I don't do it anyway because I have a lot of respect and love for them. I don't see why that girl has any issues with her parents whatsoever. Edited by Pookie, Mar 30 2012, 04:27 PM.



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