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What's "your type"?
Topic Started: Aug 13 2011, 09:15 AM (3,960 Views)
Paikuan extreme
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Like i said, you expressed valid points, but like you just accused me of doing, you didnt catch the POINT of my post, and that was to say that women do hold sex in high regard. If we dont control ourselves we arent any better than animals.

I was saying that it seems obvious you are on the fence, its a struggle not many people forget. I havent, and i WAITED till 16.
Based on what the others have said, i can understand that you are defensive, but there isnt any need. I understand that you have placed a low priority on sex, and considering you have plans an unexpected preganacy wont fit in there, right? right.

We all have different venues from our experiences to approach this type of topic. I honestly dont think this should be a debate but sharing. apparently i did misinterpret what you wrote, but thats easily corrected. I guess when you said women need to stand up and make firm decisions, it kind of sounded like women are pressured into having sex in general. All i wanted to say was thats not true.
Otherwise you are your own person. Once people start taking actual responsibility for their actions? this world be on the road to healing. Until then we seem to like shifting blame for everything these days on others. i know females that work SO hard at NOT taking responsibility for their actions its easy to assume that tends to be most peoples angle. Especially when everyone EXPECTS the girl to right and pure not knowing shes the cause for the mess. Men have a huge problem with that too, just knowing there are people like that out there makes me not even want to leave my house sometimes.
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Cal
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How are you going to tear up my post? I can literally tear up yours too. No cal, just no. I'm not saying a girl has to be a virgin in order to be happy, but to have self respect is another thing.


Yes because what you consider self-respect is the general agreement. NOT.

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As long as a girl is with a guy for awhile, and then has sex then it is all nice. Just giving yourself to someone without no connection is just disgusting imo


Excusing the double negative here, you're naive to think that you somehow set the standers for what's "nasty" or what's "right".

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There have been studies that show being in a monogamous relationship is better for your health. Not all people, but many people who in long-lasting relationships live longer lives.


What are you talking about? =_=

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You are talking about how "open" relationships are justifiable. How come most never last? People are by nature jealous creatures. You are comparing humans who have a vast intellect to animals. Yes, animals are smart, but humans are on a different level. Also, How can open relationships be justifiable when there are diseases around this planet because of the fact that people go around sleeping around too much? No protection is 100% effective so you can't even start by saying that it is perfectly fine when it is not.


Open relations ARE NOT intended to last. They're had to please the body and have fun. It's NATURAL. Also, using your new found logic in latter part of the quoted part, you should never have sex. Yet again you're making your standards everyone else's.

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A girl with a baby as a teenager. I've seen many of those in my high school. There are some circumstances I can understand because mistakes can happen, but there are others I cannot. Shows like teen mom? Why are we celebrating teenagers having kids? They should be making the best of themselves trying to make the world better. When you are trying to make it into this world and can barely support yourself and then have a baby, I cannot understand that at all. You put a burden on yourself, your parents, and anyone else who is supporting you. Mistakes do happen and babies are a gift, but as a young girl? Please? I'm not saying to not have sex, but use protection or be more responsible. They do have sex ed in schools for a reason last time I checked during my Physical Education classes that I took in College.


You jump to the conclusion that someone wasn't being responsible. Have you ever thought that some teens want and are ready for kids of their own? Setting your standards as the worlds...




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While I agree with Cal and Jonnoley on many points they made, I do have to say Pookie is just expressing her own opinion. I don't think she MEANS for her standards to apply to everyone elses. This is a personal opinion topic, not one about what is and isn't right. So, of course she'd be talking like that.

I agree there are some double standards that were made and it does seem borderline sexist against men. But I purposely did not go into a big rant about that simply because it is personal opinion and opinions are always flawed. True, some are less flawed than others, but, there are flaws in every opinion. In a topic such as this, there tends to be a greater likelihood for a more flawed opinion.
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which is why i said this topic should be about sharing, what debate could we possibly have that wont turn out like this one?
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which is why i said this topic should be about sharing, what debate could we possibly have that wont turn out like this one?
Exactly. Which is why, instead of nitpicking her posts, I just said "good for you" and "even though I disagree, good for you."
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Pookie Powa!

Honestly, everyone who read this topic. I did not mean to offend anyone. I don't direct it to all people. I think everyone is entitled to their opinions. I'm not trying to make my opinion fact if that is how it came across. I'm just stating from my personal experiences, which I guess I should stop doing because people get offended. I stopped posting in this topic because I could tell some people were getting offended with my views.

I got 7 likes on one of my posts so maybe there are people who agree with me. Like I said, not everyone can agree on everything. Once again, I apologize if I offended anyone.

Continue on with the topic.
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Well, honestly, we shouldn't choose someone by just their looks. It also depends on the personality.
Think of it as a matching card game, where we find our suitable match. But there are also those who don't play by the rules. Reasons can be fame and fortune and other stuff.

If I had to choose, I would like to be with an "otaku" girl who has the same interests as me.
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