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Going to hell aren't I?
Topic Started: Jul 15 2011, 01:08 AM (598 Views)
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Greetings. I will be your waifu this season.

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Edited by Steve, Jul 26 2015, 05:22 PM.
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Well Steve, one thing you need to ask yourself is, why do you like her? If she causes this many problems, are you being attached to her because she is all you've known?
If you truly truly like her, then try to help her as much as possible. Dont give up just yet. Love conquers all is an overused saying, but it is a saying for a reason.
Be the man she needs and help her.
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I thought you said you weren't going to kill yourself. But I think you care about her if your posting it here. I think the next time you meet her tell her how you really feel about her doing that to herself. Not just on a website! I can't remember the last time name calling worked! If she really wants it that way then I think you should trust in her decision! No matter how bad it might seem!
Edited by Spirit, Jul 15 2011, 01:19 AM.
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Easy there Steve. Violence is not the answer no matter how hard things may seem.

From what I can read you approach the situation wrongly. What should have been a causal advice giving turn into something more sinister. Now it's not your fault that she's in a situation like that and I know helping her is what you want to do. But know that if she does not want your help it's a sign for you to give her space. It seems to be a problem her family and herself should handle together and that's only if she doesn't want your help. The only way your going to figure that out Steve is to confront her and tell her what you feel. Just know that you have to come to grips with the decision no matter how hard it may seem.
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Go to her yourself and tell her she should change but, in not such a crude way. If you liker her, you wouldn't ever hurt her. Your actions speak louder then words. Prove to her through stopping it with your actions. Don't just talk to her.
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you can't change people, and not everyone will like you. this was one of the most, brooding, hard to learn lessons for me of my life. I learned this lesson in a really hard way too. that said, it taught me some valuble lessons.

1. you don't owe anyone anything, be nice out of the goodness of your heart and personal desire to serve and help others, not to gain affection or friendship. you can't make people like you, and your incentive in helping others should be to help them with what "you can do", not what you "want them to do".

2. if someone you like is doing something you know is wrong, invite/persuade them to do something different/contrary to it. the simple invititation is a start, but if you want them to try doing something differently, you may need to give some examples, share some experiences, and actually believe what your telling them.

for example, telling her she is dating scum bags that only want to get in her pants, as opposed to saying hosting an activity with good people and inviting her to come by saying, "hey, I host this activity (dodgeball, kickball, ultimate frisby, board games) once a week, and I have a lot of friends I think you'd love to meet that go. I'd love for you to come to it with us, it starts at (6:00PM on fridays or something), I can pick you up, will you come?". you can then use the oppurtunities provided from the activity, to get to know her better. If she is interested in you over time, than she will give you subtle hints over time. you can always ask her out too, just bring up the date as a way to get to know her better, she'll be flattered.

there is a lot you can do, but don't go getting all mad at her, if you like her, than it's normal to be worried about her, but be aware that she isn't blind to what she is doing, she just needs a good guy to care about her, and if she screws up, someone she can trust to have a shoulder to cry on. If you want to be that guy, than be a good friend to her, first and foremost.
Edited by Temphis, Jul 15 2011, 06:53 AM.
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Greetings. I will be your waifu this season.

Thanks for the advice guys

But, incredibly it turned out good! Better than usual anyway she's agreed to go see something at the cinema with me so we can form a proper friendship :D even if that's all she want's it's better than nothing
Gave her a load of honest advice about guys and I think she's pretty grateful so for a change it's going in a good direction

For now..
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Steve, I like you. I think you're pretty cool, but here's the deal.

Killing yourself over this is selfish on your entire family and friends and going on a murderous rampage because of this would be just plain morally wrong.
Think of the many lives you would wreck. Sons and daughters not having parents because you couldn't get the girl. It wouldn't be fair.

Want to destroy a life which you're lucky enough to have? As far as I know you're not dying of hunger, nor are you dying of some disease. Don't be foolish, think everything through. In years to come you will look back and say "God, why did I ever want her?" when you're with a girl and have children.

If you had children and somebody whom you loved, and looked back and said "Wow, imagine if I did kill myself or went on that murderous rampage? I wouldn't have all this."

Please, don't do anything like this. For your own sake, and for everybody else's!
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Release it Gohan! Release everything! Remember all the pain he's caused... The people he's hurt... NOW MAKE THAT YOUR POWER!!!!

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I don't think he would seriously go on a rampage, and also I wasn't thinking that he was really thinking about killing himself, but yeh if he is or ever does, he should just think about what you said.

(This is not a spam post, because the main point of it was to say I don't think he is seriously going to go on a rampage)
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Greetings. I will be your waifu this season.

I was joking about the killing myself bit there haha, but thanks :)

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Well son, you should always think before you act.

i'll see you in hell!
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I think your judgement was harsh and totally unnecessary. Saying she is disgusting is a horrible thing to say, and yes you should feel bad. But anyhow I'm glad everything turned out good.
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nice, a date hu? well a beautiful friendship between different genders is a great way to get the dopamines flowing in a future relationship XD no, no, I kid, thats not the primary goal here. I hope you get to spend more time with her. You'll both see over time if you would be able to be in a relationship, and if you both have too many differences, than you can at least be happy to have a new friend, but either way, good to hear it's going well for ya.
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Greetings. I will be your waifu this season.

Thanks but I'm probably going to ruin it anyway lol a tad obsessive

Oh the joys of poor mental stability + being incredibly infatuated with a person

And nah it's not a date sadly, although that's got me wondering maybe she thinks it is :S
Edited by Steve, Jul 17 2011, 11:19 PM.
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