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Women; Why do women nowadays think they wear the big draws
Topic Started: Sep 18 2010, 03:35 PM (493 Views)
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I have noticed from talking to girls that I know that 99% of them feel a sense of pride when they tell me that their man HAS TO DO AND LISTEN TO WHATEVER THEY SAY.

Its like they now are trying to be in control. I mean I know relationships are about understanding and compromise, but girls nowadays talk like men have to get their approval/permission before they can do anything.

Am I the only one that noticed that?
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I agree. Women do like to think that they're boss. At the same time they expect their partners to offer them security and protection. It's very difficult for a male be act as both the stern protector and the doting lover without tipping the balance too far in either direction. At least it is for me anyway.


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It depends on the individual, not all women are like that but it sounds like this is the view you have on most of them due to some bad experiences.

I could be wrong but that's just the vibe I'm getting here.
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You do get some couples where it's obvious that the man wears the trousers but mostly I see women controlling everything. I have to admit, if I was dating the person I like mo9st right now, then I would be their puppet too. :p


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It is so unhealthy for a relationship for one side to be in total control. It's all about compromise, fairness, and being even in a relationship. No one side should do more work than the other, no one side should have special rights than the other. Both need time to hang out with their friends alone since being together 24/7 can turn bad as well.

As for the opening post not all women are like that. A lot of the women I know are actually the opposite of that they are in a relationship where their jerk bf has total control of them, it pisses me off cause they keep finding excuses to stay with the guy but its whatever

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I've noticed this as well and it really annoys me. However, I think there is something to be said about girls that go around blabbing about what they get up to with their boyfriends ALL THE TIME... It's not good because they just seem like the type of people that have to make other people feel bad about what they have and force them to want what the other person has.

But even if the girl isn't like that it's still annoying. They shouldn't be going around gloating about crap like that because the relationship is supposed to be equal, not a trap to ensnare some kind of slave to worship one or the other of them. That attitude is just appauling and very few things irritate me more be it a boy or a girl who is doing it.
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It happens the opposite way around too, as well as some men using physical violance to get control (some women do but far less), eitherway, it varies from person to person, some people want more control that others and some are willing to give up that control.
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Well, I have to admit to you guys, this is somewhat linked to personal experiences. As a matter of fact, it's happening to me right now. I had to put a stop to it. I guess its some kind of defense mechinism so that they won't be taken advantage of. But I never did anything to make her feel like id do that, at least I don't think so.

I let her have her way because she wasnt treated very well by her family while growing up and I wanted to make a difference in her life so id do anything to make her happy.

So she got used to that and thought that she had POWER over me then before you know it, she'd get mad when i'm on the computer or doing anything recreational and telling me what to do.

I cook most of the time cuz she can't very well, I help her clean the house, i'm always ther for her but the minute I spend some time for myself, she wanna tell me what I should be doin...my job is stressfull and I just need some time

c'mon, give me a break.

p.s We've been living together for 2 years now...engaged
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Well if you are still together then you need to have a good talk. It could go for hours or not very long but just talk.

What I've come to realise is that women dont see things from men's point of view all the time.
You have to make them explain how you feel about certain things and make them realise thoroughly. A general here say about something doesnt always get through to them.

Heck even say to her "If you really love me then respect me for who i am, just like i respect you"

And going about bragging about how their sex life is to all their friends is stupid and a common misconception.
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Man, we did talk. Things are in control now...... so far and I hope it stays that way. But thats just in my case. Where are the ladies in this forum, is there any?
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Yeah there's quite a few out there.
Its cool that you talked and things are better for now and hopefully stay that way.
But always remember not to go over board and respect her. Women can be very sensitive even if they are tough or bossy.
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well they should have that certain pleasure because its there time now to play with us instead we with them.
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it all depends on the individual relationship. sure most people need even balanced relationships, but some people prefer to be controlled, for whatever reason. im a little like that with other men, whereas when im with a woman its more balanced. thats just the way i am and i think people who truly care about you will give you what you want/need in a relationship, although some of the denser ones need more obvious cues than others.
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I need more cues but that's just because I'm socially inept.


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