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Can someone develop feelings for....
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* -Zero-	Sep 15 2010, 08:04 AM Post #1
Black Knight Posts: 8,697 Group: Retired Staff Member #1,874 Joined: November 5, 2006 Favourite Anime Code Geass, Death Note, Dragonball/Z	I was wondering what do you guys/girls think of this, do you think that someone can develop feelings for someone they have not met in person yet but tend to chat a lot with each other? If not, then I'm very very very confused right now
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+ Pelador	Sep 15 2010, 11:00 AM Post #2
Crazy Awesome Legend Posts: 25,663 Group: Legend Member #4,634 Joined: December 12, 2009 Gender Not Specified Country None Favourite Anime HunterxHunter What Browser do you use? Firefox Favourite Manga Dragonball	Ah, so I'm not the only one on this forum who's heart is giving him grief You can indeed develop feelings for somebody who you haven't met in person. But to take it to the next level, you will need to meet in person regularly. I would suggest you take it slow unless you're in a situation like mine where you rarely get the chance to see them and there's only a year before they go off somewhere and meet someone else.
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*DSXIII*	Sep 15 2010, 02:12 PM Post #3
Posts: 1,947 Group: Guardian Member #2,240 Joined: April 3, 2007 Gender Male Country United States	You guys ask too many questions about how to live your lives. You need to understand that not everything in life has a straight forward answer and a lot of things you just need to find out for yourself. My advice to you on this is to go with your gut. You have feelings? If they're strong enough, you'll find a way to make it happen. If it doesn't work, tough, but honestly if things go your way it's worth that risk.



* Mitas	Sep 15 2010, 03:10 PM Post #4
It truly was a Shawshank redemption Posts: 12,129 Group: Retired Staff Member #2,993 Joined: December 16, 2007 Gender Male Favourite Anime DBZ What Browser do you use? Google Chrome Favourite Manga DBZ, Full Metal Alchemist	I second Hustla's sentiments. You have to stop questioning things and form your own opinions, follow your own instincts. But yeah you can fall in love with someone without meeting them (partly anyway). Because you've already met at least a third of their person. You know about them, you know what their personality is like etc. However you can not say 'Love' until you meet them in person because a lot of people act differently over the internet, phone etc. They may not be as confident, they may have mannerisms that can't be picked up online. And then there's the looks factor and whether you find them attractive. All of these add together to create 'Love'.
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* -Zero-	Sep 15 2010, 05:46 PM Post #5
Black Knight Posts: 8,697 Group: Retired Staff Member #1,874 Joined: November 5, 2006 Favourite Anime Code Geass, Death Note, Dragonball/Z	1. I don't believe you can love a person without being with them for a while, meaning you have to know them in person. 2.I'm not asking people how to follow my life, not asking how I should view things, I'm looking for opinions, see what people think. There are times where one must rant a little, the forum ends up being the best place for it, why because at least in the forum if people don't want to see it they don't have to read it. I in no way follow life based on others. The weight gaining topic has nothing to do with following life, I'm asking for advice on how to gain weight not on how my opinion should be. It's very different things. Show me a topic where I'm saying "What should my opinion be? How should my life be?" A lot of my topics were just rants, nothing more
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+ Pelador	Sep 15 2010, 05:55 PM Post #6
Crazy Awesome Legend Posts: 25,663 Group: Legend Member #4,634 Joined: December 12, 2009 Gender Not Specified Country None Favourite Anime HunterxHunter What Browser do you use? Firefox Favourite Manga Dragonball	Me too. I just need to see other arguements from time to time in case I haven't thought of something. I usually think of every arguement myself but sometimes I miss things out. So the forum helps in that respect. Plus it's good to vent sometimes.
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* Bex	Sep 15 2010, 06:10 PM Post #7
★ Bextreme Dream ★ Posts: 9,435 Group: Retired Staff Member #1,545 Joined: July 5, 2006 Gender Female Country United Kingdom What Browser do you use? Google Chrome	I tried long-distance relationships. There was a deep feeling there, but it ended catastrophically badly. I was really torn up by it, and I don't intend to try it again. I just want you to realise what it is you're heading for if you do decide to go through with something like that - especially if you have never seen who it is you are supposed to be having the feelings for.
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* -Zero-	Sep 15 2010, 06:15 PM Post #8
Black Knight Posts: 8,697 Group: Retired Staff Member #1,874 Joined: November 5, 2006 Favourite Anime Code Geass, Death Note, Dragonball/Z	I don't think I'd want to start an actual relationship with someone I haven't me though. I think I would like to meet the person first, know what I'd be getting myself into
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+ Pelador	Sep 15 2010, 06:21 PM Post #9
Crazy Awesome Legend Posts: 25,663 Group: Legend Member #4,634 Joined: December 12, 2009 Gender Not Specified Country None Favourite Anime HunterxHunter What Browser do you use? Firefox Favourite Manga Dragonball	Yeh, good idea. I rushed into something too quick once and then I found out she had a boyfriend and I ended up being part of an affair. Not a nice feeling. I don't speak to her anymore. She's a total liar. So yeah, gotta be careful who you meet up with over the internet.
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* Mitas	Sep 15 2010, 07:53 PM Post #10
It truly was a Shawshank redemption Posts: 12,129 Group: Retired Staff Member #2,993 Joined: December 16, 2007 Gender Male Favourite Anime DBZ What Browser do you use? Google Chrome Favourite Manga DBZ, Full Metal Alchemist	-Zero- Sep 15 2010, 05:46 PM 2.I'm not asking people how to follow my life, not asking how I should view things, I'm looking for opinions, see what people think. Show me a topic where I'm saying "What should my opinion be? How should my life be?" A lot of my topics were just rants, nothing more My bad. But it does feel like you're looking for confirmation that you can fall in love with someone without meeting them. Your opening post gives the impression that you are falling in love with someone you haven't met, and are confused and want clarification from others that they've also fell in love with someone they haven't met. But obivously I interpreted it wrongly :P
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* -Zero-	Sep 15 2010, 07:57 PM Post #11
Black Knight Posts: 8,697 Group: Retired Staff Member #1,874 Joined: November 5, 2006 Favourite Anime Code Geass, Death Note, Dragonball/Z	Maybe I phrased it wrong, I have my own opinions on this matter which is why it causes me confusion as how in some ways I'm going a little against my own opinion, I also wouldn't call it love per say because I believe to actually fall in love with someone you've got to actually know them, but feelings I believe someone can develop feelings this way, well kind of do. And the reason why I'm stuck on that statement is because the only way you can have feelings for a person like that is if they are not a fake, by fake I dont mean saying who it might a guy, cause tha can easily be disproven but I mean personality wise. I have ideas of my own, I asked this to hear other opinions just to see more or less if I'm just going crazy, which does not seem like it. I do have my own opinions on the matter and I often follow what I believe
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+ Ryebrid	Sep 16 2010, 07:23 AM Post #12
Posts: 3,135 Group: Elite Member Member #4,909 Joined: May 21, 2010 Gender Male Country Australia Favourite Anime Dragon Ball, Code Geass, Soul Eater, Sword Art Online What Browser do you use? Chrome Favourite Manga Dragon Ball	Viddy Veechi Sep 15 2010, 06:10 PM I tried long-distance relationships. There was a deep feeling there, but it ended catastrophically badly. I was really torn up by it, and I don't intend to try it again. I just want you to realise what it is you're heading for if you do decide to go through with something like that - especially if you have never seen who it is you are supposed to be having the feelings for. Yep me too.... just like you ending tragically wrong and im never even considering it NEVER EVER again.... From my own personal experience i tell you this friend..... You dont truly know the person unless you actually know them. By that i mean actually physically see them and speak to them. None of this typing crap with the keyboard or on the phone..... Really full on chat and talk and socialise and do stuff together, go places, and have fun. I can guarantee you a virtual relationship will Fail EVERY time unless you can actually see each other at the start of the relationship. You can meet a little while after starting a relationship but thats if you find that you can get along quite well and actually like each other in person. See here's the thing... my girlfriend has been my friend WAY longer than my girlfriend. I've known her for a good few solid years. There's been times where there felt like there was a connection between us but then it would die away... I've liked her pretty much as long as I've known her... it was like an instant love for her when i talked and was with her. All my friends, who are pretty much all her friends also(she's more a guy friend person than a girl friend person, and a hardcore gamer =P), knew that i wanted to have her. She eventually found out and she was unsure and nervous and hesitant to be with me. But it all came to together good because i took it slow, we started going out on lots of dates(Movies are great for dates) and we clicked so well together. Having a few years relationship made it a heck of a lot easier and we got along SO well of course. Right now i couldnt be happier having her, we're deeply in love. But my point is that you have to have 'solid foundations' in order to make a relationship happen. Dont take it to fast cause girls dont like a pushy guy. Girls like to take it slow. Dude my advice is find out everything as soon as possible and try meet relatively soon but not to quick. Online relationships can work out very well indeed if they become real and not stay fantasy. If you really like someone you gotta stay persistent. Do everything you possibly can to make it happen, never give up. Just be careful online... it can turn out bad and you dont want to feel bad. In saying all this i may have babbled on to much and sorry about that. You probably only need to hear a few things i sad. But im only tryin to help if you need it. Peace out



+ Pelador	Sep 16 2010, 11:39 AM Post #13
Crazy Awesome Legend Posts: 25,663 Group: Legend Member #4,634 Joined: December 12, 2009 Gender Not Specified Country None Favourite Anime HunterxHunter What Browser do you use? Firefox Favourite Manga Dragonball	That actually gave me a bit of hope that I could make something work with somebody I know. We too have known each other for years and we get on quite well. There are a few issues that get in the way though. Mainly that she lives so far away. Another thing that might prevent a relationship with her is that I don't believe her feelings for me will ever be much more than that of a friend. I'm like the family cat to her and her family. I don't even rank up to the dog
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* -Zero-	Sep 16 2010, 04:54 PM Post #14
Black Knight Posts: 8,697 Group: Retired Staff Member #1,874 Joined: November 5, 2006 Favourite Anime Code Geass, Death Note, Dragonball/Z	I just have a question how did everyone go from having feelings to thinking I'm speaking about having a relationship? I believe I myself have stated in this topic that I do not want a relationship with someone I haven't met so what's with everyone keep bringing it up? I believe that was not the question
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+ Ryebrid	Sep 17 2010, 06:22 AM Post #15
Posts: 3,135 Group: Elite Member Member #4,909 Joined: May 21, 2010 Gender Male Country Australia Favourite Anime Dragon Ball, Code Geass, Soul Eater, Sword Art Online What Browser do you use? Chrome Favourite Manga Dragon Ball	Just simply broadening the topic into something greater but still staying on topic.



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