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I'm so desperate for a girlfriend, what can I do?
Topic Started: Aug 17 2010, 12:30 AM (12,899 Views)
Masenkoooo-Haaaaaaaaaaaaaaa Sep 22 2010, 12:08 AM Post #76
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 hmmmmmmmmmm........... you can always go to a lesser fortunate country and find yourself a woman who wants to get out of there.
never mind im colorblind.
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+ Pelador Sep 22 2010, 12:13 AM Post #77
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 That's actually a good idea. Maybe a lovely young girl from China? Asians rule!! :)


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+ Ryebrid Sep 22 2010, 08:12 AM Post #78
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 Dude your dumbing yourself.

You just disregard what everyone says with an excuse. MAN UP
You'll never get anywhere if you keep thinking you cant do everything or anything.
Try staying outside for a WHOLE DAY and see what happens. A WHOLE DAY outside, you can go anywhere and do anything. Dont even think about opening that door just keep walking.

Seriously man we cant help if you just give excuses. Excuses dont exist. What makes excuses real is you. You have to do something. YOU have to change, you cant expect to life the same day everyday and get someone.
YOU have to change your lifestyle and really just go for it.
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+ Pelador Sep 22 2010, 12:17 PM Post #79
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 Allright I'm getting pretty damn tired of people saying I'm making excuses. I think that's a pretty unfair statement you just made especially when you don't even know me. I'M AUTISTC. I can't even pick up the phone and call somebody unless it's an emergency. I am genuinely mentally incapabale of complex social interaction face to face. In other words I say and do very little whilst in the company of others unless I'm used to their company. Would you tell a blind man to man up and see? Or a mute to talk? No you wouldn't. I can't change because that's just who I am.


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+ Ryebrid Sep 23 2010, 06:12 AM Post #80
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 I wasnt trying to be offensive dude.
What i dont like that people take offense to the way i talk sometimes... its just normal talk nothing more.
"MAN UP" is used everyday where i live and it isnt taken to heart.

I was just saying you need to stop doubting yourself. Yes i know you have austism and i didnt insult your inability in anyway if you saw it like that.

I didnt say you had to change who you are and what you do completely. You just have to change in certain ways if you want to get somewhere like getting into a relationship. Sometimes being fired up can help you do that.

Just try figure out what you do best, what your really good at and use that as an advantage if you can.
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+ Pelador Sep 23 2010, 01:37 PM Post #81
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 I wasn't so much offended as a bit peturbed. Sorry if I gave the wrong impression. I get what you mean now. I need to be a tad more confident and more postive. I think I can manage that. I should be off the college next year anyway. That'll give me plenty of chances to improve myself.


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+ Ryebrid Sep 24 2010, 06:34 AM Post #82
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 Thats sounds good. We dont really go to college where i live instead its called University and you dont really live there you live in your own place, but there might be some places like that here dunno.

You should find someone dude just dont worry to much.

If you expect the unexpected it wont happen so just let loose and dont worry about it.
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+ Pelador Sep 24 2010, 12:34 PM Post #83
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 We have Universities here too lol. I think the college I was talking about is funded by the University actually. The University is more for people who want higher qualifications I think. What I want is just a BTEC or something.


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+ Ryebrid Sep 24 2010, 11:52 PM Post #84
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 Ah ok i see.
I dont really know all that much about further "schooling" beyond high school.

Chicks like a smart guy to, smart and confident. Its attracting to them.
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+ Pelador Sep 24 2010, 11:56 PM Post #85
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 I know. The girl I want is way smarter than me. Oxford material in fact. But I'm not dumb either, just a bit afraid of working hard lol.


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