I'm so desperate for a girlfriend, what can I do?

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I'm so desperate for a girlfriend, what can I do?
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* Bex	Aug 19 2010, 01:45 PM Post #31
★ Bextreme Dream ★ Posts: 9,435 Group: Retired Staff Member #1,545 Joined: July 5, 2006 Gender Female Country United Kingdom What Browser do you use? Google Chrome	My advice is: Don't care so much. It's not that important. If you have friends then the social side of your life is covered. Someone will show up sooner or later. However, I recommend you leaving the house. I mean come on, no excuse to leave the house? You don't need an excuse. Just go for a walk or to the movies or eat out or whatever. Go where theres people and get a feel for talking to random strangers, that way you might meet some girls.
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+ Pelador	Aug 19 2010, 02:23 PM Post #32
Crazy Awesome Legend Posts: 25,663 Group: Legend Member #4,634 Joined: December 12, 2009 Gender Not Specified Country None Favourite Anime HunterxHunter What Browser do you use? Firefox Favourite Manga Dragonball	The nearest city from my house is about 7 miles away and I hate buses. Well, bus drivers actually. The weather doesn't help either. Tends to put me off going outside. I do like the eating out idea though.
	http://www.youtube.com/user/jonjits


* -Zero-	Aug 19 2010, 02:48 PM Post #33
Black Knight Posts: 8,697 Group: Retired Staff Member #1,874 Joined: November 5, 2006 Favourite Anime Code Geass, Death Note, Dragonball/Z	Sounds to me like you're just making strong excuses not to leave the house. This is what you do, forget all the negative think about the positive and do it. I used to be like you in other things like id come up with a million excuses not to work out or go out for a jog, but now I just go and do it. Don't think of excuses not to, and don't think of reasons why to do it, just do it. An issue of mine is that I over think and over analyze many things and that ends up doing some harm, there are times where you just need to do it and go along with the moment
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+ Pelador	Aug 19 2010, 03:07 PM Post #34
Crazy Awesome Legend Posts: 25,663 Group: Legend Member #4,634 Joined: December 12, 2009 Gender Not Specified Country None Favourite Anime HunterxHunter What Browser do you use? Firefox Favourite Manga Dragonball	Oh I see. Just go out for no particular reason and see where my instinct takes me? I do intend to do it, it's just that the weather really is misreable at the moment.
	http://www.youtube.com/user/jonjits


* Bex	Aug 19 2010, 04:21 PM Post #35
★ Bextreme Dream ★ Posts: 9,435 Group: Retired Staff Member #1,545 Joined: July 5, 2006 Gender Female Country United Kingdom What Browser do you use? Google Chrome	Who gives a *****? Go get a coat.
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~~Dark~~	Aug 19 2010, 05:59 PM Post #36
Posts: 1,589 Group: GTFO Member #4,185 Joined: May 9, 2009 What Browser do you use? Flareon	Yeah, this is starting to sound a little hilarious. Pelador, perhaps you should become more independent. Go to your nearest DMV via friendly/family transportation and grab a driver's ed book. Just ask one of the (terrible, mean, stuck-up) assholes that work there for one and try to avoid slapping them. Take it home, study it, then go take the test and get your driver's license. Getting that extra freedom is an advantage, you know? When you have it, then maybe you could get a job. That will leave you tons of room to get out and experience the outside world, all the while profiting from it and gaining confidence in yourself; and finding comfort in the fact that you're not lazy. Open your options and freedoms up. Women (or anyone for that matter) don't have much for someone that doesn't have freedoms and independence. Edited by Dark, Aug 19 2010, 06:02 PM.



+ Pelador	Aug 19 2010, 10:06 PM Post #37
Crazy Awesome Legend Posts: 25,663 Group: Legend Member #4,634 Joined: December 12, 2009 Gender Not Specified Country None Favourite Anime HunterxHunter What Browser do you use? Firefox Favourite Manga Dragonball	I have a provisional license. I think that means I'm allowed to drive if there's a qualified driver in the passenger's seat. But there's no way I'm never driving a car with some of those idiots on the road. I don't have the greatest concentration either. There are two particular roads I fear most of all. Charles Cross and Marsh Mills. One little slip up there and I'd be dead. Not worth the risk. As for being more independent. I don't technically have learning issues, but I still always need somebody to pop round and make sure I'm not burning the house down and I've got plenty of clean clothes. Washing machines are beyond me lol. As are dishwashers. I can't get food out of the oven either. I'm too clumbsy. Nor do I have the ability to tell when food is properly cooked. I got an F for a fruit salad in cookery once lol. But I digress, There will always be plenty of people out there who's job it is too look after me so I'm not worried about any of that. The bus and my older brother will suffice for getting me from A to B. I know it sounds like I'm making excuses, but I really am a pretty clumbsy and impractical human being who would be a liabilty and a danger to myself and others in most workplaces. Plus I tend to offend people too. If I was alive in Nazi Germany, I'd be one of the unlucky ones chosen to be terminated due to my uselessness to the state.
	http://www.youtube.com/user/jonjits


Masenkoooo-Haaaaaaaaaaaaaaa	Aug 21 2010, 06:46 AM Post #38
Posts: 98 Group: Member Member #5,126 Joined: August 11, 2010 Favourite Anime Dragon Ball Z What Browser do you use? Mozilla Firefox Favourite Manga DBZ, One Piece	wait, how old are you. the way i see it guys dont need girlfriends until they've got their life figured out. then again i dont have the best advice regarding women. ive only had one date in my 18 years of life and that was my prom. after i join the US coast guard and get in better shape i will be more outgoing. as for you, start running to the city instead of taking the bus. make it seem like you care about fitness theres bound to be some girls that like that and then you'll have a running buddy and then who knows what 'll become of you two. best of luck to you as the feeling is mutual about wanting a g-friend so i know how you feel, kinda
	never mind im colorblind.


+ Pelador	Aug 21 2010, 06:36 PM Post #39
Crazy Awesome Legend Posts: 25,663 Group: Legend Member #4,634 Joined: December 12, 2009 Gender Not Specified Country None Favourite Anime HunterxHunter What Browser do you use? Firefox Favourite Manga Dragonball	I can barely walk to the city let alone run there lol. Girls don't care about fitness and physique. I think hygene and cleanliness are far more important. They like people who they think can offer them security and also make them laugh occasionally. They like to feel they are listened too aswell.
	http://www.youtube.com/user/jonjits


* Mitas	Aug 21 2010, 11:19 PM Post #40
It truly was a Shawshank redemption Posts: 12,129 Group: Retired Staff Member #2,993 Joined: December 16, 2007 Gender Male Favourite Anime DBZ What Browser do you use? Google Chrome Favourite Manga DBZ, Full Metal Alchemist	Yeah I think there are quite a few things that girls hold in higher regard than fitness/physique. Confidence, hygeine, sense of humour, sensitivity to name a few. But your point about finding a hobby (running) and meeting someone who shares an interest is a good one (albeit one already made :P). That remains, in my opinion, the best way to meet a girl. Edited by Mitas, Aug 21 2010, 11:20 PM.
	"Then you've got the chance to do better next time." "Next time?" "Course. Doing better next time. That's what life is."


+ Pelador	Aug 21 2010, 11:36 PM Post #41
Crazy Awesome Legend Posts: 25,663 Group: Legend Member #4,634 Joined: December 12, 2009 Gender Not Specified Country None Favourite Anime HunterxHunter What Browser do you use? Firefox Favourite Manga Dragonball	I agree. I'll just have to get out and shop around lol.
	http://www.youtube.com/user/jonjits


~~Dark~~	Aug 22 2010, 01:02 AM Post #42
Posts: 1,589 Group: GTFO Member #4,185 Joined: May 9, 2009 What Browser do you use? Flareon	Fitness and physique aren't going to win you a date by themselves, but it wouldn't surprise me if they'd help in most cases; particularly with extremely good looking women.



+ Pelador	Aug 22 2010, 01:09 AM Post #43
Crazy Awesome Legend Posts: 25,663 Group: Legend Member #4,634 Joined: December 12, 2009 Gender Not Specified Country None Favourite Anime HunterxHunter What Browser do you use? Firefox Favourite Manga Dragonball	I think it's a total myth. Who's Jessica Alba dating? I think I remember him being quite puny if memory serves.
	http://www.youtube.com/user/jonjits


* -Zero-	Aug 22 2010, 05:23 AM Post #44
Black Knight Posts: 8,697 Group: Retired Staff Member #1,874 Joined: November 5, 2006 Favourite Anime Code Geass, Death Note, Dragonball/Z	Well if the girl is into physical fitness chances are thats going to be a big boost, since common interests really help, but lets say the girl is into anime then if you like anime that gives you two something to talk about. Just talk, I'm gonna try to start conversation on Tuesday when I go see a play with people I went to school with, hopefully I don't screw up and for once get some interest that is if I dont let shyness and nerves get the best of me again
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Mick	Aug 22 2010, 11:40 AM Post #45
Posts: 31 Group: Member Member #4,830 Joined: March 26, 2010 Favourite Anime Dragon Ball Z! What Browser do you use? Mozilla Firefox	Go out more dude, expand your horizon. Workout, get jacked and zacked up WOO WOO WOO YOU KNOW IT!
	llMick


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