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I'm so desperate for a girlfriend, what can I do?
Topic Started: Aug 17 2010, 12:30 AM (12,904 Views)
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Well, for all I know I could live forever, or at least a really long time. Like the Face of Bo. Still, I do long for companionship. I don't really enjoy going anywhere. Plymouth's pretty crappy in that respect.


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Aug 18 2010, 03:51 PM
^ You are a jackass.
There's nothing mature about name-calling either, come on let's cut this out.

Whenever I get asked this question, I always recommend social hobbies, something where you're sure to meet people, for example a swimming club or pottery (make sure you're passionate about it). there's nothing wrong with girls at clubs either, the purposes of these places are for having fun and meeting up with people. (Don't go round in a big group of 10-15 people though, have a friend or 2 with you but go up to girls yourself).

What Brian's said is right, follow his advice and don't worry about striking out. It's good that you're not worried about talking to girls because this is the biggest block for most people.
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I'm better with girls than I am with boys. One girl once asked if I was gay because I seemed to understand women more than some other people my own age. I think I just listen more. I dunno really. I should have a look around town one day and see if there's anywhere I would enjoy hanging out.


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Brian
Aug 18 2010, 03:51 PM
^ You are a jackass.
There's nothing mature about name-calling either, come on let's cut this out.

Whenever I get asked this question, I always recommend social hobbies, something where you're sure to meet people, for example a swimming club or pottery (make sure you're passionate about it). there's nothing wrong with girls at clubs either, the purposes of these places are for having fun and meeting up with people. (Don't go round in a big group of 10-15 people though, have a friend or 2 with you but go up to girls yourself).

What Brian's said is right, follow his advice and don't worry about striking out. It's good that you're not worried about talking to girls because this is the biggest block for most people.
I agree with you. Pelador do have any hobbies?
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Y2J that was an unnecessary post, don't let it happen again.

Brian your response was unecesary either, the report button and the PM exist for a reason use them, don't let it happen again either.

Both of you have been verbally warned. I don't want to hear complain either.


Pelador go out to stores, malls, parks, beaches, all those places you'll find people, it's a good way to start, just don't make yourself seem like a creeper either

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i never even tried for a girlfriend but i have 1 its just a matter of time before you find the perfect match well in my case it was 7 years ago
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I don't like beaches and the weather's not so good where I'm from either so there will hardly be anyone there anyway. How would I talk to someone in a mall without being creepy? I like the park idea though. Plenty of them where I live. Was also thinking of visiting one of those places where they have lots of pool tables and stuff. But I don't think the one I'm thinking of ever has many people in it. Oh well, I've been getting really bored cooped up in my house all day. I just need to find something to do elsewhere.


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Just go out for a walk or run that will get rid of all that energy you have or just start working out. I know this guy on another forum and he is a ladies man He posted a thing about how you can attract women from his own personal expirence I will try and find that post. If I can't I'll message him and ask him to help you out. If you want :)
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I don't need to attract women. I just need to find them and then find an excuse to talk to them lol. I'll probably go out tommorow and try various places.


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ahaha XD ok but if you need some advice I'll hook you up with this guy he is really good at hitting on women. He gave me a few pointers on how to start a convo with girls you don't know. The thing is you just need the confidence to talk to them. Sometimes I do have it sometimes i don't :(
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I always have it. I think it comes from being rejected and turned down so many times that I don't care anymore and just go for it. Having too much confidence around human females can also be a hinderence though lol. One example is when for some reason I thought it would be a great idea to squeeze the persons breast as I was introducing myself. I was only 13 at the time so it's not so bad. I have no idea why I did that. Pretty funny looking back though. She was a munter too lol.


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here we go! this is a good read and some good advice is in here to everyone should check this out :D

http://www.violentfix.com/phpBB2/viewtopic.php?t=3091&postdays=0&postorder=asc&start=0
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God. How generic. This is the kind of stuff that puts every guy under and confuses them so much... Well whatever. How about considering a woman to not just be a woman, but also human, hm? You can be friendly with a woman, man, or whatever, and have a fun conversation, not put on some act with a stick up your butt. See, that's the thing. Women wouldn't enjoy an uptight guy who doesn't know how to relax, gets offended too easily, and takes everything far too seriously. That's what is called: a pussy. And women do not like: a pussy.

Women like: You, being yourself, for who you are. Not some ridiculous "Am I doing it right?" act. They're not judges at a beauty pageant or movie directors. Just be your damn self and meet new people. The right one will pick you. You got me?
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Aug 18 2010, 03:51 PM
^ You are a jackass.

Yes, but not because of my post. I wasn't really spamming because it was still on topic(although sarcastically). If anything I'm just guilty of saying a bad joke.
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Y2J cut it out, alright? Everything has been dealt with your post was unnecessary. Don't bring it up again, thank you

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