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| * -Zero- | Dec 17 2009, 07:02 AM Post #16 |
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I can kid of understand how people feel when they are gay or bi, but at the same time I can't. Like me personally I have never been attracted to a guy, I've never thought like oh I think i may like this guy or felt attracted to them physically or anything, however with girls I've had crushes, I feel attracted to girls in every way(don't take it in the wrong context) but anyways I do understand why people would be afraid to admit, or maybe they are in denial with themselves, if they are in denial with themselves how are they supposed to tell their friends? They first need to come to terms with themselves then they'll be ready to admit, it may take years to come to terms with yourself. Some gay people even end up getting married and having kids. |
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| * Bex | Dec 17 2009, 12:09 PM Post #17 |
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A lot of teenagers these days are brimming with hormones and may flirt with the idea of being gay when really they aren't. For example, a lot of essentially emo kids start saying that they're bisexual purely because they think it suits their image, or that they're so hormonal that they try and get sex in whatever way shape or form they can, OR that they say that they're gay to seem sensative. Like imposing or something. |
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| * -Zero- | Dec 17 2009, 12:15 PM Post #18 |
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Thats whats wrong these days, saying you're gay to try and seem sensitive, I mean why can't you be sensitive and not be gay? Unfortunately i have realized one thing all guys get stereotyped for being jerks or just wanting sex, it really irritates me when i hear people say that |
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| Kai | Dec 17 2009, 12:38 PM Post #19 |
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I now what you mean everyone sterotypes me as being different and immatture because of the way I act. But iif they had the childhood I had they would act just the same. Don't get any ideas that I have been mistreated or anything, on the contrary I was spoiled, but because of my families situation I had to act mature, by the age of 3 I was dressed posh for going out, by the age of 5 I was going to at least 4 balls or dinners a year. What AngeliecHottieDS said about her friends was the bad points that have happened, but a true friend can look past them and see all the good points in them. I have never told anyone and this and it is hard for me but I did have a bit of an explore of being Gay, nothing serious, but I found out that it just was not for me. Edited by Kai, Dec 17 2009, 12:40 PM.
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| Temphis | Dec 17 2009, 06:48 PM Post #20 |
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I just want to say this about friends and trust issue. You can still love them without trusting them. I know that sounds weird at first, but, trust is different from caring about someone. Don't let her actions or lies control who you are, by assuming she is making the best choices she knows how. She does need to earn your trust, that's something all people have to do when they lose trust with someone else, but I can promise you, if you can find it within yourself to forgive her, you will feel better. In the long run, all you need to worry about is how You feel, and forgiving others is a huge part of being happy and free from guilt. I won't go to deep into this, cause no one really needs to know what happened, but someone once really abused my trust, and really pushed me beyond what I had ever experienced as far as in terms of emotional pain and distress, and they did it intentionally. I did my best all along to befriend them anyway, and they continued to take advantage of me until they moved away. I did gain their trust, but they had all but shattered my will to do anything productive for a while, just by being mean (I won't go into the horrible things he did to me). overtime, I realized how much me not forgiving him, was detrimental to me. He had no problems with what he did, because I had turned the other cheek everytime, and he was seemingly indifferent towards my feelings anyway, so me being mad at him, only effected my behavior. It took me almost a whole year of praying and studying scripture, to deepen my understanding of forgiveness enough to let it go, and now I look at him completely differently. No I couldn't trust him as far as I could throw him, nor can I still, but I do care about him, and respect him for what he has had to go through (which is a good reason why he was so horrible, life hasn't treated him well). I now feel no resentment towards him, and can even recall those times and experiences without being mad or getting an addreniline rush lol. I will say, it sometimes takes a while to fully forgive, but it comes down to understanding others, your own personal deciscions, and from a religious point of view, understanding the savior's sacrafice so that we can be forgiven. While my experience with this person was challangeing, the ways I have chosen to learn from it have carried me through many other experiences, and have taught me valuable lessons for life. I hope that you forgive her, and anyone else who has or ever will wrong you, you'll feel a heck of a lot better. |
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| Pookie | Dec 17 2009, 08:50 PM Post #21 |
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Well that's what I thought my friend did too. She surely did act like she genuinely liked guys. It would have been impossible for me to guess that she was Gay. I know it may have been just a cover up, but she did a good job of hiding the secret from me for so many years. Something told me the only reason she told me she was gay was to bring attention to herself. I erased the conclusion and gave her the benefit of the doubt. Anyway, thanks for the helpful advice guys. I didn't think I'd be able to look at this situation from another standpoint, but some of you have opened my eyes. |
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