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Tweet Topic Started: Sep 14 2009, 05:38 PM (389 Views)
* Light	Sep 14 2009, 05:38 PM Post #1
Yo Posts: 5,563 Group: Retired Staff Member #2,705 Joined: October 5, 2007 Gender Not Specified Country United Kingdom Favourite Manga The Story of Light the Legend by Cal/DBZF Invasion! by Copy_Ninja	Although at the moment i'm going to college i'm doing my final year at 6th form as well and today I ran into a problem. From the start. Saturday night there was a party as it was this giurls 18th, the morning after one of my friend (friend A) had told people that another friend had gone 'upstairs' with this girl. I knew straight away that it wasn't true as friend B is nothing like that. Today, friend B told me he was worried about the rumour as the girl is going out with a guy in our year so I told him i'd speak to him as I knew him fairly well as we're both our respective sports house captains so had been to meetings with each other a few times. I told him about the rumour and that it wasn't true. He said okay and didn't mention it. As I was in the common room today, he burst in and began shouting and swearing at me for starting this rumour and trying to split them up (Friend A told him I started the rumour) I was amazed and I would never do anything like that in a million years but now him and his friends are all gunning for me. Friend A apologised and said that if he admitted it he'd get in worse *** than me so he's backstabbd and I feel hurt and betrayed. So at the moment the guy and his friends hate me, and my mates want me to get my own back which is just as ridiculous imo, i'd rather just chill but it's all going on with or without my consent. Any advice to how I can defuse this situation? Edited by Light**, Sep 14 2009, 05:39 PM.



* Itagaki Manabu	Sep 15 2009, 12:45 AM Post #2
Posts: 4,635 Group: Retired Staff Member #832 Joined: November 6, 2005	Hooray for Light being in the same year as me : D. You should get that little weasel of a friend to tell the guy the truth.



*DSXIII*	Sep 15 2009, 04:36 AM Post #3
Posts: 1,947 Group: Guardian Member #2,240 Joined: April 3, 2007 Gender Male Country United States	Even if your friend tells the guy the truth it's not like the idiot will understand. You already told him that someone started that rumor why the hell would you tell him it's not true if you started a rumor you wanted people to believe. It makes no sense. It's just childish drama and if I were you I wouldn't bother with it. Trying to help yourself gets nowhere and as for the friend that backstabbed you? That's not a friend. I'm not the violent type, but if I were you I'd ***** him up. What he did was wrong.



Strawberry	Sep 17 2009, 09:25 AM Post #4
Chiaroscuro ♥ Posts: 17,000 Group: Rock Princess Member #1,750 Joined: September 24, 2006	HustLa made a good point, that person who started the rumor is definitely not your friend if he doesn't have the guts to step forward and admit he was the one doing it. The other person who doesn't believe you is also on the wrong side... but I can understand why you would want to clear up the situation and just move on peacefully... I guess if your friend really isn't willing to trust you then there's no other choice but making the person who started the rumor confess he did it. Try talking to him and express clearly and assertively that he HAS to do it, or else your friendship will be over. Hope everything goes well for you, Light. You're a great guy and you didn't deserve this.
	♪ ♥ ♫ Across The Universe


Kai	Sep 17 2009, 09:42 AM Post #5
Posts: 253 Group: Member Member #3,891 Joined: January 3, 2009 Favourite Anime dragon ball/z/gt, Naruto and shippuden What Browser do you use? Internat explorer	We actullay had a similar rumour at my school of someone doing there girlfriend in school, in the end the head of year had to call an asembly and explain to everyone that it was not true. I would just act calm when people bring it up and say that it is not true. If you get angry and start swearing then you have already lost.



* Light	Sep 18 2009, 01:45 AM Post #6
Yo Posts: 5,563 Group: Retired Staff Member #2,705 Joined: October 5, 2007 Gender Not Specified Country United Kingdom Favourite Manga The Story of Light the Legend by Cal/DBZF Invasion! by Copy_Ninja	Thanks for the advice guys. it's been a couple of days and things are better, the guy now knows I didn't start the rumour as a lot of people told him and he's pretty much apologised to me. My friend who did start the rumour has apologised but acts like it was all a big joke, yet he was really worried and rather than own up let he just let me take the blame, i'm really dissapointed in him. Thanks guys, it was nice having a place to discuss it



Strawberry	Sep 18 2009, 11:52 AM Post #7
Chiaroscuro ♥ Posts: 17,000 Group: Rock Princess Member #1,750 Joined: September 24, 2006	You always seem to be such a great and polite person, Light. I knew your friend would believe you eventually. Hope everything goes smoothly between you guys from now on. I'm glad to hear things are better.
	♪ ♥ ♫ Across The Universe


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