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| Pookie | Feb 13 2009, 03:44 AM Post #1 |
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Lets say you were on the Real World show. You were placed with six total strangers, but one of them was trans gendered. They had the operation done to be a female even though they were born a male. What would you do if you figured out the truth? Would you respect the person? Ignore the person? Be scared of the individual? Date the person? Discuss what you would do.
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| + Rebel X | Feb 13 2009, 04:21 AM Post #2 |
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I think it really depends on the kind of relationship you developed with the person that was trans-gendered. If I was hanging out with friends and I knew one of them was trans-gendered Id respect them. If I'm on this "Real World show" then alot could've happened so, I think the time and relationship would decide on how my reaction turns-out |
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| Rockman | Feb 13 2009, 04:53 AM Post #3 |
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Are they Human? Do they breathe air? Or do they spit fire? Are they half minotaur? Because if they are the latter two, then I think this conversation is pretty much over. |
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| Strawberry | Feb 13 2009, 05:39 AM Post #4 |
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I'd be very interested in getting to know how the sex change process works, specially the psychological effects it has on people who decide to have it. And I'm wondering how stopping respecting that person could ever be an option, or even be scared of her. I'd sure just be more interested in her, to try to get information. Sex change is something that fascinates me scientifically. |
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| * brit :) | Feb 13 2009, 06:10 PM Post #5 |
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I wouldn't ignore them. Honestly I wouldn't treat them any different, because that's their personal life, and has absolutely nothing to do with me. I would wan to get to know them more and learn why they made that decision, because it'd be interesting. |
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| Finta646 | Feb 13 2009, 07:33 PM Post #6 |
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I wouldnt ignor them, I would treat them just as anyone else, but I might ask what made them do it because, like ViBE said, it would be interesting to know, and if I happened to be the only one that knew, I wouldnt tell anyone else. |
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| DSXIII | Feb 13 2009, 09:45 PM Post #7 |
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I'd lock the door and play PS3 all day. Then when I'm done and have to go to work I'll sneak out and sprint out the door. |
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| Pookie | Feb 13 2009, 10:00 PM Post #8 |
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Not everyone is open minded, which is why I put it as an option. Some people may feel scared to confront someone who is trans gendered. It's a perfectly normal feeling. However, I'm not scared of someone who is trans gendered. I'd respect them like any individual. |
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| * Mitas | Feb 13 2009, 11:17 PM Post #9 |
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I dunno what I'd do. I'd like to say I wouldn't treat them differently, but in reality I probably would. I'd probably feel a little awkward around them. I find people who have gone through a sex change a bit of a confusing subject. I obviously don't understand how they feel or why they did it and even if they told me and explained exactly how they felt etc it wouldn't really change much because I still wouldn't understand, I'd just know how they felt (if that makes sense). |
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| + Byakko | Feb 14 2009, 10:22 AM Post #10 |
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I wouldn't care, I don't know their history, reasons for having the operation. I like or dislike people based on their personalities. To say anything would not only be hurtful to the person, but bring up some pointless discussion that would drain everybody of their energy. Everybody would go to bed tired and pissed off. Besides, it's not even my place to question somebody I don't know yet. If I knew the person then I might ask one day but not until I knew they would be comfortable with talking about it. People talk when they're ready. Just need patience |
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| Strawberry | Feb 14 2009, 11:35 AM Post #11 |
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Normal? I'm sorry to tell you but feeling scared of someone who has had a sex change operation is anything but normal. Scared?! As in... being afraid of that person? People are afraid of the unknown, or some people are, but sex change is a topic that has been discussed several times everywhere, on TV, in schools, people know how it's done (at least, the basic procedures), someone who is transgendered is still a person, there's absolutely nothing to be afraid of, even if you're not open minded. They are persons! Like Kotetsu ironized transgendered people do not spit fire or are half minotaur lol. People might get invaded by prejudice and act differently about that person who got the operation, or feel uncomfortable around him/her because they think what he/she did is wrong, that I can agree with you, but feeling scared of them would be just stupid.
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| + Green | Feb 14 2009, 06:46 PM Post #12 |
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If this happened to me i wouldn't treat the trans gender person much differently than other people but when i did interact with "her" i would feel a little weird know that "she" was once a guy. There is no way i would date that person, in my head that person will still be part male and i don't date guys. |
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| * Mitas | Feb 14 2009, 08:08 PM Post #13 |
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That's a point, I don't think I could ever date somebody who had a sex change. It'd always be in my mind that they used to be a guy. Sounds judgemental, which it probably is, but that's just my view. |
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| Pookie | Feb 14 2009, 09:57 PM Post #14 |
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There are people that are afraid of homosexual people, which is called homophobia. It may be stupid, but there are people out there who are scared of trans gendered people because they are different. Not everyone is educated about sex change. We watched this movie in Sociology class, and there was a woman who under went the procedure to be a man. She was later killed in the movie because there was a group of men that did not understand procedure. It is still like that today. As much as schools try to educate the public, there will always be those who oppose sex change. |
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| Strawberry | Feb 14 2009, 10:16 PM Post #15 |
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I understand that, but I think people who feel that way aren't really scared of those people, it's more aversion what they feel towards them. But what I was really trying to say is that anybody that understands the basic procedures of sex change will not be scared of transgendered people simply because there's absolutely nothing to be afraid of, unless those people are murderers or cannibals or anything like that, although that isn't related to the sex change at all, anyone could be a murderer.
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