Worst Breakup

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Worst Breakup
Tweet Topic Started: Jun 20 2008, 05:48 AM (918 Views)
* Daniel6	Jun 21 2008, 11:34 PM Post #16
Posts: 658 Group: Retired Staff Member #576 Joined: August 3, 2005 Gender Male Favourite Anime Naruto / DBZ What Browser do you use? Chrome	sunate Jun 20 2008, 01:55 PM sigh I guess I must Most people tend to say females have the worst end of the stick when it comes to a relationship coming to a end. They are wrong that is just sterotypeing or being sexist, guys can take it equally hard if not more. The only reason people think that its harder on females is because thats what all these reality shows and soaps play it to be by havng the weman go hestraicle and crying and all of that. I had a a gf dump me and we dated for 6 mounths and she didnt even shead a tear. Me however I was sobing like hell! Practically same thing with me. She ended it really bad as well and acted like she didnt even care where as i was devistated and down for ages. She still has feelings for me apparently as well, goes up and down, one minute she really lieks me the next not as much (gets ridiculous in the end XD) and its been like 10 months since we broke and she still get jealous when girls ask me out lol. I decided i would stay her friend though regardless of what has happened between us in the past.



Hodges	Jun 22 2008, 01:13 AM Post #17
Posts: 87 Group: Member Member #3,477 Joined: June 14, 2008 Favourite Anime Dragonball Z/GT What Browser do you use? Not the one Chuck Norris uses...	AngelicHottieDS Jun 21 2008, 04:04 AM Wow that was a tough one to read Hodges. It must have been tough for her to admit that she loved someone. I read the first part where you stated that she was not the type to fall in love. Those type of women have it rough because they don't want to be hurt. It is difficult for them to allow someone else to be a contributor to their emotions. When you kissed another, it was likely the reason she has fallen into a down spiral. She put her trust into your hands, and it may have broken the tough spirit she had in the past. It is interesting that the majority, who posted in this topic, are men. I have never seen it from a guy's perspective. They usually show the women taking a breakup hard like Sunate stated. Breakups are always hard. I feel for anyone here, who had to go through one. However, life must go on no matter how difficult it may be because there are beautiful aspects to live for. I know it sounds like a hallmark card, but it is true. The pain that one endures will eventually lead to pleasure. I'm someone, who believes that there is someone out there for everyone. If she was not the one Hodges, then let time heal the wounds. Good experiences are bound to happen to you in the future. I guess sometimes I think like a little kid watching a Disney Movie because it is hard for me to grasp some of the harsh realities that some undoubtedly face. Perhaps it is from the love that I see between my parents or any of my family members. I don't understand how people can say they love someone, but are unable work through hard times, use that person, or cheat. They must have a care-free conscience. I know I'm partially to blame for her life change, but it was ultimately up to her on what she would do. Our whole relationship we were both way against drugs and drinking and for her just to do that and not care was shocking. And as for the kiss, if you knew more to our relationship and what happened, in a twisted sense what I did was justified. Even though I'll never forgive myself for what I did, I was glad I did it. It showed me who she really was and what I really meant to her. She tried to make the whole thing about her and say she was the only one suffering. I had no money, no food, and no place to live for the first month or so after we split. She got the car, the apartment, all the belongings, and my dog. I had the clothes on my back and my phone and that was it. I lived off one slim jim for a week and a half cuz of it. She claimed it was so hard for her. When in reality she had everything. She had friends, family, work, money, all this stuff to help her along. My family wouldn't and still won't speak to me cuz of it, I had lost my current job cuz of it, and I lost all my friends cuz of horrid rumors she spread about me. I had to rebuild my whole life and she still claimed it was worse on her. And the worse part was that after it happened and we talked, she said she wanted to get married and have kids and grow old with me, all the things I had wanted her to do. Then she just said forget it and moved on less than a month after we split. Today, I have a car, a good job, an amazing girlfriend whom I will propose to soon, a house, my dog, and so much more. I no longer suffer from my depression nor the M.P.D. and I am truly happy. I'm training to become an officer and am trying to go back to school. I did it all without turning to drugs or drinking or anything. And I'll admit that it was DBZ that helped me through a part of it. I have always wanted to be a hero and I just kept thinking, "What would Goku do? Would he be defeated by something he was strong enough to defeat?". And I know it may be kinda sad I used a cartoon to help me, but again if you know the back story of my life it makes sense. Anyways, my point is that it did hurt, and I feel horrible for what I did, but I took what happened and grew stronger from it. It helped me learn tons about myself that I didn't think was possible. Break ups are never a bad thing, just a bad experience.
	You can't kill an immortal...but cutting his limbs off will certainly screw the rest of his existence up


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