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| Tweet Topic Started: Jun 20 2008, 05:48 AM (917 Views) | |
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Jun 20 2008, 05:48 AM Post #1 |
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Thought I'd revive the past a little bit. So what's the worst way that someone can break up with somone.. better yet, has someone broken up with you badly or the worst way that you broke up with someone else? I belive the worst is when a girl texts you and says it's over. don't be a pansy if you're gonna break up with me. luckily i never received harsh breakups, nor did I give them. All my Ex girlfriends were.. just jokes, it was all fun and games, nothing serious. I'm going on a limb to say girls take break ups worse than guys. |
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| sunate | Jun 20 2008, 12:02 PM Post #2 |
 
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Dude Im here to tell you otherwise. (pearsanal experince) |
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| Meowth | Jun 20 2008, 12:47 PM Post #3 |
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So say otherwise, for a debate, you should outline your views, not just say you have some, that's if this really qualifies as a debate but we'll see how it goes. I have nothing to input but sunate, it's no good saying to don't agree without actually saying why. |
 
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| sunate | Jun 20 2008, 01:55 PM Post #4 |
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*sigh* I guess I must Most people tend to say females have the worst end of the stick when it comes to a relationship coming to a end. They are wrong that is just sterotypeing or being sexist, guys can take it equally hard if not more. The only reason people think that its harder on females is because thats what all these reality shows and soaps play it to be by havng the weman go hestraicle and crying and all of that. I had a a gf dump me and we dated for 6 mounths and she didnt even shead a tear. Me however I was sobing like hell! |
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| Kero Engi | Jun 20 2008, 05:44 PM Post #5 |
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All my EX's has cheated on me or used me for somthing, it got so bad i tryed to comit suicide. But im with Danii now and i love her lots and she loves me. |
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| * .Revolution | Jun 20 2008, 05:52 PM Post #6 |
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My worst break up was my first one as I had just learnt what love was and I couldn't stand losing that girl. The pain lasted a long time, but it somehow became weaker and weaker and in the end it had vanished. You know, it wasm ainly the fear of losing the purpose of being alive. When you are in that situation, you isolate from everything else and get really narrow-minded, nothing seems important. That feeling was the worst about that break up. |
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| Graffiti | Jun 20 2008, 07:02 PM Post #7 |
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I had dozens of hot ex-girlfriends that either cheated on me or broken up with. I ended kicking the sh*t outta the guys that were cheating with my exs. Now I'm in a happy relation with my ******n hot girlfriend Nicole. |
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| * .Revolution | Jun 20 2008, 08:30 PM Post #8 |
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How nice, I am in a beautiful relationship myself and I know if it ended, I would feel miserable. But I think the older you are the better you deal with a break up. That's not always true, but I think it'sm ostly like that... |
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| sunate | Jun 20 2008, 08:41 PM Post #9 |
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 I wasnt posting *crap) he said I guess you deal with break ups better as you get older and I was merly saying my mom still makes my dad cry. My dad is 35! (do you understand that this post was not spam now?)
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Jun 20 2008, 08:45 PM Post #10 |
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For Graffiti there's no difference between ***** buddy and Ex. that's a compliment. |
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| * .Revolution | Jun 20 2008, 08:56 PM Post #11 |
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Maybe you could point things out more accuratley in teh future, nobody even had the chance to udnerstand that, s you evebn added a smiley. Oh and never remove my edits again. If you have a porblem with me editing one of you posts, PM me and I will change that if I think it's necessary. |
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| * Bex | Jun 20 2008, 10:00 PM Post #12 |
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The older you are, the wiser you become. So as you get older, you'll be able to take the blow on the chin and get on with your life. |
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| Hodges | Jun 21 2008, 12:46 AM Post #13 |
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My worst break up was last year, early September. Me and my girl had been together for almost 2 and a half years and lived together for just over two years. All through out the relationship, we had our shares of up and down moments and we had our major issues, but we still stuck together. It took me 6 months to get the courage to tell her that I loved her. It was a huge deal cuz this girl was all against love and forever and that stuff. From that moment though, we really did have a strong bond and a stronger love. A few months down the road my depression hit me hard, it caused problems in every part of my life. Mainly the relationship. She could see how bad it was, and I knew how bad it was but I couldn't control it. Then, things just got horribly worse as each day went by. My family was at war again, my job was causing issues between me and my gf, and me and her were doing horrible. Then one night all the stress from living with her and her family and watching her alcoholic stepdad beat the whole family and being told to do nothing, watching the mom and sister do drugs in front of the family and so much more, got to me. I had my first black out. I later found out it was multiple personality disorder. I had 3 alter egos added to the strained relationship. Everything grew dry between me and my girl but I wanted to hold on and pray for the best. Towards our graduation, things went to hell and I knew what was gonna happen, but neither of us wanted to let go, but we knew we had nothing between us anymore. A few months later, I had finally busted my ***** enough to afford our own place. It lasted a month. I got fed up with her not contributing, let alone even talking to me. I made the mistake of finding another girl while with her. I intended to break it off before anything happened, but the girl moved too fast and she kissed me. I left that moment, driving home in the middle of the night, wanting to run the car into a pole on the freeway for what I had done. After my gf found out, we had a huge fight that lasted a day or so and then we split. A little later, we talked and I had thought we fixed all out problems and I thought life would be perfect. Nothing is perfect. 3 days after she said never mind, I don't love you anymore. She was a beautiful 18 year old who was about to spiral down wards. A straight A student with a free ride to ASU, dropped out, started drinking and doing hard drugs, and started to date a 33 year old guy. Many more events happened after the break up, such as a law suit, a fight, a theft, and so on and so forth. She still has yet to recover almost a year later, people say its cuz she is still in love with me, but I gave her 6 months of me begging daily for her to come back till I stopped. This breakup will effect the rest of my life and already effected the relationship I'm in. There are far more details and events but I've already gone on far too long. I'll end it with saying that it was a good example of a bad break up. |
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| Pookie | Jun 21 2008, 04:04 AM Post #14 |
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Wow that was a tough one to read Hodges. It must have been tough for her to admit that she loved someone. I read the first part where you stated that she was not the type to fall in love. Those type of women have it rough because they don't want to be hurt. It is difficult for them to allow someone else to be a contributor to their emotions. When you kissed another, it was likely the reason she has fallen into a down spiral. She put her trust into your hands, and it may have broken the tough spirit she had in the past. It is interesting that the majority, who posted in this topic, are men. I have never seen it from a guy's perspective. They usually show the women taking a breakup hard like Sunate stated. Breakups are always hard. I feel for anyone here, who had to go through one. However, life must go on no matter how difficult it may be because there are beautiful aspects to live for. I know it sounds like a hallmark card, but it is true. The pain that one endures will eventually lead to pleasure. I'm someone, who believes that there is someone out there for everyone. If she was not the one Hodges, then let time heal the wounds. Good experiences are bound to happen to you in the future. I guess sometimes I think like a little kid watching a Disney Movie because it is hard for me to grasp some of the harsh realities that some undoubtedly face. Perhaps it is from the love that I see between my parents or any of my family members. I don't understand how people can say they love someone, but are unable work through hard times, use that person, or cheat. They must have a care-free conscience. Edited by Pookie, Jun 21 2008, 04:06 AM.
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Jun 21 2008, 06:45 AM Post #15 |
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No, I've never seen a relaity show.. through experience I see how sad a girl can get.. I mean.. one of my close friends once loved TWO guys.. she wasn't just being a slut and dating two guys she loved them both! We say love is a complicated thing and it's unmesurable, but in the hands of a girl its a weapon! lol Well if she dumped you after 6 months without shedding a tear I think it's better she dumped you sooner than later haha, I gotta say it was most probably all fun and games for her if that were the case.. I'm guessing you two were young, no need to take that seriously. |
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