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What makes it so hard to talk to girls?
Topic Started: Mar 11 2008, 07:58 PM (1,178 Views)
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Okay I've noticed that people have problem's talking to girls(Me included I guess)

but what makes it so hard?

Is it the fear of getting shot down? Or something else.

Plus I want some girls views on the matter, like do guys say something stupid to you that makes you not like them?

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i guess a lot of people have trouble talking to girls because they think way too hard beforehand, it's easier to just talk and let the conversation flow, i don't have trouble talking to my friends who are girls, or my current gf, but it is hard when your talking to a girl you've never talked to before
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AH Mike I have the same problem, especially with the girls I like. Darn it I dont even know if its because im scared of being shut down as you mentioned on your first post, or I just get extremely nervous naturally

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Lets make age and experience a factor.
I do believe I have the ability to walk up to any girl and tell her straight that she looks just great. I will even go into detail if the conversation admits. Naturally, asking her out to dinner would be my next step.

The first thing to remember is being turned down doesn't mean no. It just means you need to try harder. lol
I recall asking a girl out 5 different times, 5 different ways. I finally gave up there-after.

And then again, some people just don't have that problem.
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Age and experience are definately a big fator. Age and experience build confidence and confidence is key when talking to girls.

Without confidence you are scared of rejection. With confidence you arent worried about the consequences.

Mike and Yankees are you confident when you talk to girls?
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No <_< I am rarely confident I lack self confidence and self esteem, I've been trying to work on that lol dont really know how exactly I work on it

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Hmm well i cant help you there. :T_T: But i would if i could!
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lol there is absolutely no one that can help me or help anyone else with that problem. That's something the person themselves need to solve out. Its the person itself that needs to figure out how to. And thats what I am trying to lol

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Haha fun topic, I used to be like but you just got start talkin, ask a simple question....it'll lead to another and then you'll be talkin. A little confidence and some techniques and you got urself a girl to tlk to. I had this problem back in the day but now I just smile and talk to anyone and everyone. Whats scary is that now I have more female friends than I do guy friends. I have more fun though girls come up with great ideas and guys normally just chill and hang, play some sport a video game or 2 but its really not tha hard man you just gotta do it

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Age and experience are definately a big fator. Age and experience build confidence and confidence is key when talking to girls.

Without confidence you are scared of rejection. With confidence you arent worried about the consequences.

Mike and Yankees are you confident when you talk to girls?

YES i agree, well mostly experience is a factor.. but in any case, when is expereince never a factor? lol anyways. Me when i ask a girl out i just do it short n sweet; wanna date? yes, nice c yu @ 6, no? ok go fu-k urself biach.

although if anybody seeks advice on forum when it comes to girls.. maybe you should wait a little more before you decide to ask some1 out lol
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Yeah thats why i ask my friends at school for advice lol :p

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I dont have no probblem with talking to girls, maybe its cos most of my friends are girls lol.
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a single emo and most of his friends are girls?
so you should be looking for a boy? HAHAHALMAO
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a single emo and most of his friends are girls?
so you should be looking for a boy? HAHAHALMAO

Dude thats just not kewl bro. Emo doesn't = homosexual. Thier nothing wrong with either. Anyway seriously girls are PEOPLE thier gr8 and its really not that hard. If you do it once it gets alot easier later but you just gotta do it

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Mar 11 2008, 11:58 PM
Mike and Yankees are you confident when you talk to girls?

Depends, If we're mates then yeah. If not then no. But If I don't know people I don't talk to them anyways...I hate my lack of Self-confidence.

But yeah, Girls that are good looking are hardest to talk to

A few of my friends are chicks. And we get along fine
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