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Personality vs. Looks
Topic Started: Mar 10 2008, 08:48 PM (1,741 Views)
* Mitas
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Here is the age old debate over which is more important - Looks or Personality.

I get annoyed when I am called shallow for not wanting to go out with a less good-looking girl or an overweight girl. I mean yes they may have a great personality, but looks are just as important when picking your partner. A nice girl who you don't find attractive would be classed as a friend in my opinion.

However, ultimately personality is slightly more important as looks maybe what brings two people together, but whether they get on or not is what decides whether they stay together.
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It's all about personality in reality. But you gotta be stupid to not say you never consider looks. I'd jump off a bridge for the hottest girl in the world LOL. but then again, sometimes hot girls are rlly stupid. the best thing would be a rlly **** sexy girl who has an amazing persoanlity, but thats rlly rare though lol.
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Haha I think that's a dream for most of us :p

But yeah you're right there, nobody can say they don't consider looks. Looks are also the easier option. I mean it's one thing to have one night with a really hot girl, but it's another to take that further and get to know her. First you look, then you connect if that makes sense.
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Haha I think that's a dream for most of us

i 1nce dated this girl, **** nice body.. but she was stupid, lasted what.. 2 weeks maybe?

anyways, that being said. you know what i hate; those girls i see in the subway that dress all black, torn apart clothes, they dress like they are edward scisor hands, they wear to much makeup it makes them look like clowns and they wear freakin leg warners on their arms ..IN SUMMER. those are also the type of girls that complain about the hot girls that.. make themselves hot instead of **** clowns
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lol Nice way to put that Punxx :p

But yeah, Personality does have to come into it, I mean, whats the point in having a smoking hot girl when the height of intellectual conversation is going to be about lemons.
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Lets just say if you choose a girl for looks your relationship wont last very long. Its more of a novelty and when that wears off your left with an empty shell. Where as with a personality you will learn to love them for who they really are. But as youve said good looks is always a bonus.

Ive been out with some really dumb/bitchy girls before and let me tell you, personality any day man.
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You also got to remember looks will also play a role inm a relationship. especially if you intend to be together with that person for the rest of your life. Yes I do believe that personalities matter. But a lot of guys want the cute girls. Heck im not even talking about those hot girls sometimes they could be trouble and vice versa for guys, it goes both ways. However there are a lot of cute girls that have a great personality, and those are the ones that most guys try to go for, no matter how much a guy deny's it. Call me shallow call me whatever but that's how I am, and I admit it.

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As much as I want to be on the moral highground with everybody else, I'm gonna say the Looks

Nobody will notice a girl if she's ugly even if she does have a great personality. Now don't get me wrong, if the funnest conversation we'd have is wether or not blue isn't yellow enough then I'd be outta there. But looks are important.
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Yeah I'm with Yankees in admitting that looks are important to me. However, it is quite easy to find girls that have both a great personality and great looks as there are quite a few in my school year alone. It's just that most of them are taken, or I don't have the confidence to ask them out :p
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I am interested in girls with both personality and looks. Not one or the other. Very important to me. There has to be equality within that. I would say I am shallow.
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Ah, Dark gambit Im the same, Im interested in girls with good looks and good personality. Yes I have realized I'm shallow. However truth is you might spend the rest of your life with that person, and if you don't really like looking at the persons face every day then that might be a problem. They don't have to be the hottest girls around but I do still look at looks

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Ah, Dark gambit Im the same, Im interested in girls with good looks and good personality. Yes I have realized I'm shallow. However truth is you might spend the rest of your life with that person, and if you don't really like looking at the persons face every day then that might be a problem. They don't have to be the hottest girls around but I do still look at looks

I won't go into detail, but I do remember a time when I decided that personality was the greatest trait. But not to give you TMI, I recall gagging at one point. :o_O:
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We all go for looks and personality, well for the large majority of us but beauty is in the eye of the beholder. A girl could be butt ugly to one guy and stunning to another. Thats the beauty of it, noone is left out.
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And that just goes to show if everyone was the same the world would be a very boring place, I believe there is someone for everyone.

I am fairly shallow, but sometimes who isn't I'm just so lucky so have a cute girl for a girlfriend.
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Yeah there have been plenty occasions when I have found a girl hot but some of my friends haven't and vice-versa.
I think looks are equally important as personality like most people. I'm pretty sure everyone is shallow and I personally don't agree with the term. Just because you don't find a girl attractive because of certain aspects of her appearance how does that make you a bad person? Why do we have to go out with girls we don't find attractive to be a good person?
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