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Topic Started: Jan 10 2008, 03:55 AM (530 Views)
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Anyways the question is pretty much, where do you think some of these people get their behaviors from? And what I want to concentrate more on is why so many people find pleasure in making other people mad?

I hate hearing things like I only say that because it makes you mad. I mean seriously? Whats the pleasure in getting someone mad on purpose just so you can laugh? I mean yeah we all might have those days where we think its funny seeing someone mad, but Im talking about every day all day long.



Anyways I'll give more thoughts to this later when i see people's opinions.

Also remember I said I wanted to concentrate more on that one that I mentioned, but you should also mention other types of behavior your curious to see what people think, this way it can keep the discussion going.


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I'd say people get their behavior from their perants and friends, which I would say is an enviromental factor. Although some kids might pick it up from TV or other media because they want to be like someone they like from something.

Though people getting a "buzz" from making someone mad or upset is quite a weird thing, I don't know why people do it but then it must just be one of those phsyological things. Personally I can't see much reason for making someone upset.

In one way you could say it's because it makes that person feel bigger compared to the person they are picking on and that gives them a sense of dominance over them. But that's the only reason I can think of anyone doing it.
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For you it may not have been the parents but for others it may be, everyone is different after all.


So far I agree with pretty much everything BBQ said, he hit it right on the spot. Especially with this one

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In one way you could say it's because it makes that person feel bigger compared to the person they are picking on and that gives them a sense of dominance over them. But that's the only reason I can think of anyone doing it.

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I have confronted people with negative behavior before, and on an honest level most of them have out-right told me that its because they are insecure of themselves. I do believe this is mostly the case.
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Behavior is social, genetic, and environmental. Your parents have a portion of how one will turn out, however, surroundings can have an impact as well. I can tell from my parents how I gained my personality, but I had other factors that contributed to how I am.
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In my opinion. People's personalitys tend to rub off from family and friends. Mostly friends. The way I see the way people act is all how they grew up. what rules and guidlines they had. even religion wise 90% of them were raised to be a certain religion.

Now as far as pleasure from making people mad goes. I was once like that in 8th grade. It's something many people do to feel powerful. Though what makes it odd is most of the people that get off on it get bullied in real life. I'm assuming it's there way of being the powerful bully.


But as AngelicHottie said, It's all from genetic and environmental surroundings. For example I tend to be very quite in normal life. Yet I'm asponcered drummer and tour I get very annoyed when people brag about me. I hate when people bully and Honestly I tend to religion completly. My views on being against having an ego problem come from my father. and My religious views come partly from my brother and my friends. though the odd thing about me is I tend to pick up speach acsents...alot. lol
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I like how most reasoning or excuses you guys give are "They usually are bullied IRL" "They are insecure" ETC

Hasnt it occurred to you, Most of the time, some people are just jerks, thats all.
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I've had people do that to me, like in class they'd throw crap at me just to get me mad and laugh. That's why I shove my foot in their eye (actually did it once, was funny).
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I like how most reasoning or excuses you guys give are "They usually are bullied IRL" "They are insecure" ETC

Hasnt it occurred to you, Most of the time, some people are just jerks, thats all.

There's a reason they are being jerks. A jerk is looking for a reaction once they make their initial action. If you don't react then it's not as fun to them.
These people get a thrill out of doing things that degrade others. If you are to confront them about their own problems as a catalyst of their actions, they deny and turn the situation around. You should hear some of the lame excuses they use to deny their own personal problems.

My favorite is, "your mom."
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