Sex before Marriage ?

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Sex before Marriage ?
Tweet Topic Started: Sep 25 2006, 08:36 PM (2,926 Views)
* Kogu 87	Oct 5 2006, 12:24 AM Post #31
Training hard !! Posts: 3,361 Group: Retired Staff Member #916 Joined: December 2, 2005 Favourite Anime Dragonball Z What Browser do you use? Firefox	Quote: No. I am not more into the physicall thing. Too bad you think I am. I sed u might be. I don't judge people until i know them well. Quote: I wanna feel sure about it. It's your opinion, i respect that, bu i don't agree.
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Sam	Oct 5 2006, 04:01 AM Post #32
It takes a mere second for treasure to turn to trash. Posts: 24,391 Group: Community Admin Member #415 Joined: April 21, 2005 Gender Male Country United States Favourite Anime Dragonball/Z/Super, Hellsing Ultimate, Naruto/Shippuden, Death Note, Hunter x Hunter, FMA:B What Browser do you use? Mozilla Firefox Favourite Manga Dragonball/Z/Super, Naruto/Shippuden, One Piece, Hellsing, Death Note	Well, first of all if you can handle it knock yourself out. It also depends on the partner, if you want to do it before marriage and they do then knock yourself out, nobody is judging you. Plus this sort of thing can wreck/raise a relationship, these two ideals. I say whenever its comfortable so hey hey to both.
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Pookie	Oct 5 2006, 03:51 PM Post #33
Pookie Powa! Posts: 18,039 Group: Princesa Pookie Member #1,340 Joined: April 21, 2006 Gender Not Specified Favourite Anime Dragonball Z What Browser do you use? Google Chrome and Firefox	That's fine, but the way you are saying it is that sex is a HUGE part in a relationship, if that is the case then you're in trouble. Sex should be part of a relationship after marriage, but it shouldn't be such a BIG thing. I know that it helps you better connect with your lover spiritually, but it can't be that major. What if something happened to you or your partner (God forbid) and you couldn't do anything physical, then what? You wouldn't have anything else to love each other for. I think when someone gets married, they should view sex as a skill to get better at or have fun with it. If you go around having so much sex before marriage you lose the fun of discovering it. I mean if two people enter into a marriage being virgins, trust me the ywill want to do as much exploring as possible (my bf and I have talked about it a lot) and trust me he is like 'It is well worth the wait." The more you wait, the better it will be when you finally can. It's almost like wine, it gets better with age or if there is some hot, chocolate covered brownies and you have to wait for them to get done, it just makes it well worth the wait.



Strawberry	Oct 5 2006, 04:31 PM Post #34
Chiaroscuro ♥ Posts: 17,000 Group: Rock Princess Member #1,750 Joined: September 24, 2006	Hotprchichi1769 Oct 5 2006, 03:51 PM That's fine, but the way you are saying it is that sex is a HUGE part in a relationship, if that is the case then you're in trouble. Sex should be part of a relationship after marriage, but it shouldn't be such a BIG thing. I know that it helps you better connect with your lover spiritually, but it can't be that major. What if something happened to you or your partner (God forbid) and you couldn't do anything physical, then what? You wouldn't have anything else to love each other for. I think when someone gets married, they should view sex as a skill to get better at or have fun with it. If you go around having so much sex before marriage you lose the fun of discovering it. I mean if two people enter into a marriage being virgins, trust me the ywill want to do as much exploring as possible (my bf and I have talked about it a lot) and trust me he is like 'It is well worth the wait." The more you wait, the better it will be when you finally can. It's almost like wine, it gets better with age or if there is some hot, chocolate covered brownies and you have to wait for them to get done, it just makes it well worth the wait. Fine, I respect your point of view. And NO, I'm not saying sex is the biggest thing in a marriage. But again, I already said everything I think in this thread. This is a private decision. If it feels right to you to make love before marriage, go for it! If it feels right after marriage, just go for it as well.
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Sam	Oct 5 2006, 10:34 PM Post #35
It takes a mere second for treasure to turn to trash. Posts: 24,391 Group: Community Admin Member #415 Joined: April 21, 2005 Gender Male Country United States Favourite Anime Dragonball/Z/Super, Hellsing Ultimate, Naruto/Shippuden, Death Note, Hunter x Hunter, FMA:B What Browser do you use? Mozilla Firefox Favourite Manga Dragonball/Z/Super, Naruto/Shippuden, One Piece, Hellsing, Death Note	Well, I don't mean like you go on a date then have sex with the person in the back seat of the car. I don't also go for picking up ho's at the strip bar drunk and getting laid, only doing it with someone you love and have known not just randomly with some guy/chick that happen to be at a disadvantage or for some other stupid reason.
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Pookie	Oct 12 2006, 01:51 PM Post #36
Pookie Powa! Posts: 18,039 Group: Princesa Pookie Member #1,340 Joined: April 21, 2006 Gender Not Specified Favourite Anime Dragonball Z What Browser do you use? Google Chrome and Firefox	I know what you mean, but why not test your lovers love? Why have sex before marriage. Your partner can wait can he/she? If he/she can't wait then guess what ? They don't love you. Testing your love with someone should be your first concern. Worry about the physical stuff later.



Iced Digger	Oct 14 2006, 01:09 AM Post #37
Jake, "Sexy" Jake Posts: 957 Group: Member Member #1,310 Joined: April 9, 2006	Sex before marriage? Sure, why not? I don't see anything "unholy" or wrong about it.



Pookie	Oct 16 2006, 12:54 AM Post #38
Pookie Powa! Posts: 18,039 Group: Princesa Pookie Member #1,340 Joined: April 21, 2006 Gender Not Specified Favourite Anime Dragonball Z What Browser do you use? Google Chrome and Firefox	It has nothing to do with being holy or unholy. It has everything to do with testing one's love and being careful. A lot of problems can occur, especially if your a girl. You should always be on the safe side.



Epsilonite	Oct 16 2006, 01:26 AM Post #39
Title Pending Posts: 362 Group: Member Member #1,665 Joined: August 27, 2006	Since when is sex a test of you lover's love? By that logic, if lov is a test whether or not a significant other can control his or her desires pre-wedlock, then that means that partners that are sexually attracted to you are not marriage-compatible, meaning that the only type of marriage possible is a platonic one. Besides, romantic relationships rarely get serious in a person's teen years, as the goal of today's average youth is to reach "home base" as quickly as possible; people usually starts looking for potential spouses in his or her twenties or after highschool and college.



Bankai	Oct 16 2006, 02:33 AM Post #40
Soon to be banned i bet Posts: 766 Group: Member Member #931 Joined: December 7, 2005	sex before marridge of course, having sex shouldnt be such a big thing its just something that is taking your relationship to the next level... like jeez guys



* Kogu 87	Oct 16 2006, 03:21 AM Post #41
Training hard !! Posts: 3,361 Group: Retired Staff Member #916 Joined: December 2, 2005 Favourite Anime Dragonball Z What Browser do you use? Firefox	Quote: sex before marridge of course, having sex shouldnt be such a big thing its just something that is taking your relationship to the next level... like jeez guys That's your opinion. Some people see it as a bigger thing, religous people, people with different morals. It is indeed a big deal for others.
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~~newbie3951~~	Oct 16 2006, 05:48 AM Post #42
Advertiser Posts: 46 Group: Suspended Member #512 Joined: May 25, 2005	Depends on who its with...
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Strawberry	Oct 16 2006, 12:46 PM Post #43
Chiaroscuro ♥ Posts: 17,000 Group: Rock Princess Member #1,750 Joined: September 24, 2006	{KIK} Kogu 87 Oct 16 2006, 03:21 AM Quote: sex before marridge of course, having sex shouldnt be such a big thing its just something that is taking your relationship to the next level... like jeez guys That's your opinion. Some people see it as a bigger thing, religous people, people with different morals. It is indeed a big deal for others. Well, I think sex is a bigger thing but I believe there's no need to wait until marriage. I believe you should have sex when it feels right and comfortable for you and your partner. But again, for me it's much healthier to know the person you love in all levels before you get married. Still, this is a private decision and all points of view are right if they feel right.
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Bankai	Oct 16 2006, 09:12 PM Post #44
Soon to be banned i bet Posts: 766 Group: Member Member #931 Joined: December 7, 2005	uhghh im catholic and its not like if the church finds out you had sex they like come to your house with pitch forks lol..... but ya its barely a big thing anymore



Pookie	Oct 18 2006, 02:46 PM Post #45
Pookie Powa! Posts: 18,039 Group: Princesa Pookie Member #1,340 Joined: April 21, 2006 Gender Not Specified Favourite Anime Dragonball Z What Browser do you use? Google Chrome and Firefox	I think waiting till marriage makes it more special. Testing your lovers patience for making love is a great way to test if they love you for YOU and not for the physical aspects of the relationship. That is why we have so many teen pregnancies now and days. :rolleyes: That is why we have a divorce rate at around 40% :rolleyes: Think about it.



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